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ยป Why are a lot of posters here so incredibly insecure?
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post 1553585531 06-11-2018, 12:55 PM
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Why are a lot of posters here so incredibly insecure?

I already know the primary factor, will rep correct answers. You can only list 1 factor.
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post 1553585911 06-11-2018, 12:59 PM
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Because im not c. Ronaldo.
post 1553585931 06-11-2018, 12:59 PM
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Autism
NEW YORK FOOTBALL GIANTS
RED BULL RACING
post 1553585981 06-11-2018, 01:00 PM
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They spend too much time alone
post 1553586091 06-11-2018, 01:01 PM
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Weak
I loe e.
post 1553586111 06-11-2018, 01:01 PM
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Because they live vicariously through the lives of other's online persona's.
post 1553586201 06-11-2018, 01:02 PM
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Originally Posted By cobhc
Autism
this
"I mean I know Im gonna get Got....But ima get mine more than I get Got Doh"-Marshawn Lynch

Made in Detroit

Perfect Height Crew
post 1553586421 06-11-2018, 01:04 PM
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No insurance
Ecclesiastes 3:8 A time to love and a time to hate; A time for war and a time for peace.
Proverbs 12:4 A worthy wife is a crown for her husband, but a disgraceful woman is like cancer in his bones.
post 1553586441 06-11-2018, 01:04 PM
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Because they're less endowed than women with clitoromegaly.
Take it easy Christian
post 1553586821 06-11-2018, 01:08 PM
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addicts
fearful
have started their lives with failure
post 1553586991 06-11-2018, 01:10 PM
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anxiety
We're all gonna make it crew

just decide on what you ACTUALLY want and then make it happen. thats it. ignore the rest and put in the work and one day you'll find your happy - vampirelol

You win or you learn

B: 275 D: 415 S: 315 = 1005 (11/2015)
post 1553587011 06-11-2018, 01:10 PM
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You tell me OP
( ฬฟโ–€ อœส–โ–€)โ•ญโˆฉโ•ฎ
post 1553587251 06-11-2018, 01:13 PM
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Growing up being praised for doing the bare minimum as kids and then once they got older they realized they were just average.
Insta 2_goblins_in_a_trenchcoat
post 1553587261 06-11-2018, 01:13 PM
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Spending too much time on internet forums instead of socializing irl during their formative years.
post 1553587611 06-11-2018, 01:17 PM
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We're all gonna make it syndrome...I've made it...the truth is hard to swallow you must earn your job your place in life... nothing is going to come to you...go get it and those complaining...well they can complan
post 1553587641 06-11-2018, 01:17 PM
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Overexposure to different ideas and prejudices on the Internet.
They said she's gone too far this time

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post 1553587701 06-11-2018, 01:18 PM
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The real answer or the misc answer? Real answer below

Steadily declining androgen levels in males, male virility markers in general greatly decreased in just 2 generations.

Our future sons have an uphill battle as this trend turns sharper every year(the rate of decline is exponential), Coupled with the difficulty of finding the cause of all this.

Sources:

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/s...-a7859491.html

http://www.ispub.com/journal/the-int...-decrease.html

https://academic.oup.com/jcem/article/92/1/196/2598434
post 1553587761 06-11-2018, 01:19 PM
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It's easier to place blame on external factors than take ownership of your life.
Smooth Seas don't make Strong Sailors. Keep your head up.

MrWhiskey24 for jolly cooperation (PS)
post 1553587771 06-11-2018, 01:19 PM
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Bodybuilding is probably one of the most insecure hobbies there are. It's not necessarily a bad thing either, that insecurity leads to a drive to be better. It just depends on if that drive leads you down a path to happiness, or foreversmall.

Foreversmall crew.
"If in my say 80 years on earth I do more help than damage, then I feel complete."

"I feel grateful every day I wake up, I know Iโ€™m already on borrowed time"

-Snailsrus aka Lauren Kelly RIP
post 1553588101 06-11-2018, 01:24 PM
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They just need a close supportive group of people around them such as family friends co workers etc. Some of these dudes try to find a girlfriend when they don't even have a friend or family that they're close to. Like that seems autistic to me if you don't know how to make a friend and have a relationship with them or have a relationship with your family how do you expect to find a girlfriend?
post 1553588131 06-11-2018, 01:24 PM
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Originally Posted By AgRyan
Bodybuilding is probably one of the most insecure hobbies there are. It's not necessarily a bad thing either, that insecurity leads to a drive to be better. It just depends on if that drive leads you down a path to happiness, or foreversmall.

Foreversmall crew.
this
I'm back, bitches!
post 1553588321 06-11-2018, 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted By StinkholePatrol
The real answer or the misc answer? Real answer below

Steadily declining androgen levels in males, male virility markers in general greatly decreased in just 2 generations.

Our future sons have an uphill battle as this trend turns sharper every year(the rate of decline is exponential), Coupled with the difficulty of finding the cause of all this.

Sources:

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/s...-a7859491.html

http://www.ispub.com/journal/the-int...-decrease.html

https://academic.oup.com/jcem/article/92/1/196/2598434
Interestingly enough, one of the only proven correlation (not necessarily causation) to lower sperm count is smoking or secondhand smoke during pregnancy. If we assume this suggests causation or partial causation of low sperm count, that means men are essentially born with low sperm count nowadays. So you guys that have wives who smoke, or smoke around your pregnant wife, need to cut that crap or youโ€™re sentencing yourself to having girly sons.
They said she's gone too far this time

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post 1553588431 06-11-2018, 01:28 PM
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Cos im mental probably

Lifting helps my insecurity a lot though
retired from powerlifting, retired from the misc
post 1553588781 06-11-2018, 01:33 PM
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Misc is filled with an interesting subset of humans. A lot of people here are intelligent and mean well (self improvement, must work out, must become ceo 10k/day, etc.), but misguided. Misc in general has a pretty toxic culture, I think the people that spend the most time here are the ones who end up going crazy (stereotypical misc insecurity, misogyny, forever alone, etc.) because it's easy to get caught up in this world if you don't have real-life friends to share your experiences with and develop with. If misc is the only social interaction you have with other people, you're going to develop a lot differently as a person than most of your real-life peers.

Just lots of insecure guys who need to get on the right path
post 1553588871 06-11-2018, 01:34 PM
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Because this is the internet and if its the only place you go for life advice you will end up alone.
post 1553589041 06-11-2018, 01:36 PM
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Originally Posted By StinkholePatrol
The real answer or the misc answer? Real answer below

Steadily declining androgen levels in males, male virility markers in general greatly decreased in just 2 generations.

Our future sons have an uphill battle as this trend turns sharper every year(the rate of decline is exponential), Coupled with the difficulty of finding the cause of all this.

Sources:

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/s...-a7859491.html

http://www.ispub.com/journal/the-int...-decrease.html

https://academic.oup.com/jcem/article/92/1/196/2598434
Honestly this a theory I've had for a while now that women are becoming more masculine and men are becoming more feminine. Some of it doesn't even have to do with sperm and test either just the way men and women carry themselves and their mannerisms for examples dudes who gossip and hold grudges like school girls.
post 1553589091 06-11-2018, 01:37 PM
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Originally Posted By melDorado
Cos im mental probably

Lifting helps my insecurity a lot though
What are you insecure about? Looks and other typical female stuff?
post 1553589151 06-11-2018, 01:38 PM
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It could be cuz its a bodybuilding forum which automatically invites judgment
post 1553589251 06-11-2018, 01:39 PM
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Its more adverse selection that insecure people find the misc rather than the misc makes them insecure, so the reasons vary

The biggest cause though is an unhealthy habbit of comparing oneself to others
6'1, 205 lbs

Luke
post 1553589371 06-11-2018, 01:41 PM
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Originally Posted By BbyGainz
Growing up being praised for doing the bare minimum as kids and then once they got older they realized they were just average.
damn.
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