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post 1557389991 07-28-2018, 09:34 AM
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Why a girl asked me to study with her and asked me for a ride but is not interested?

This girl asked me if I wanted to study. I believe it was with a group, but I told her that I could not come, so we just studied together (one on one)

I noticed that when I strayed off topic, she got somewhat agitated, and only wanted to talk about the subject at hand.


We studied a little and then she offered me a ride. I told her ok, but then she canceled the ride because she said that she would have to walk all the way to her apartment to get to her car.


Why would someone offer to study with me and offer me a ride, then cancel the ride and get mad when I stray off topic? Why bother asking me to study and offer me a ride in the first place?

Is this common? Thoughts?
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post 1557390101 07-28-2018, 09:36 AM
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some call you a beta orbiter, some call you an emotional tampon

ur choice brah
post 1557390291 07-28-2018, 09:39 AM
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Originally Posted By SkinnyKappa
some call you a beta orbiter, some call you an emotional tampon

ur choice brah
???
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post 1557390541 07-28-2018, 09:43 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Maybe just maybe she wanted to study?
This^^^

Plus she needed a ride.
I loe e.
post 1557390681 07-28-2018, 09:46 AM
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Maybe you're doing better than her and she wanted to improve her grades?
Trying to stay positive as much as life permits
You can ask me for medical advice but be careful still studying
Living a healthy life mentally and physically is what I look for
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post 1557390761 07-28-2018, 09:47 AM
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Originally Posted By Angileena
Maybe you're doing better than her and she wanted to improve her grades?
i'm not.
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post 1557390801 07-28-2018, 09:47 AM
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She either:

Genuinely wanted to study.
Was interested but had second thoughts.
Don't know what she wanted.
Kindness is all that matters in life
post 1557390841 07-28-2018, 09:48 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Maybe just maybe she wanted to study?
Why with me tho.?
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post 1557390851 07-28-2018, 09:48 AM
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Originally Posted By Angileena
Maybe you're doing better than her and she wanted to improve her grades?
tempted to neg srs, can't have these females coming here with this delusional soyboy chit.
post 1557390931 07-28-2018, 09:50 AM
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Originally Posted By Burgerbuger
She either:

Genuinely wanted to study.
Was interested but had second thoughts.
Don't know what she wanted.
Why do some girls bother studying with guys? If she was not interested she should of not bothered with me in the first place. She should of not asked me for a ride. It really sends a false message.
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post 1557391031 07-28-2018, 09:52 AM
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I love how all the women here are saying "maybe she wanted to study"

NO, she knew you're a beta ******* willing to waste your time on tutoring her for no reward at all

fkn LMAO reminds me of engineering school
post 1557391301 07-28-2018, 09:56 AM
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Just ignore her. If you can't even have a conversation with her then why even study with her.
post 1557391361 07-28-2018, 09:57 AM
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Durr durr females only exist so I can fuk them

Durrr
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post 1557391391 07-28-2018, 09:58 AM
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Originally Posted By Brozart
Durr durr females only exist so I can fuk them

Durrr
Idiot. Why bother studying with some random guy????
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post 1557391421 07-28-2018, 09:58 AM
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Man, this bitch got games. You want to study with me, offer me a ride, cancel the ride, then when I try to make general conversation with you....you act like I'm doing something wrong? Fukc outta here.

There's no way, I PERSONALLY, would endure a study session with someone and let that be the ONLY thing we talk about. Hell no. It has nothing to do with trying to get at her or whatever, but a normal topic.....? And you shun it like I'm doing something wrong? Bitch, take yo stuck up ass somewhere.

Hey man, don't do it again....
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post 1557391441 07-28-2018, 09:59 AM
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She thinks you're beta so she knows she can use your resources for free and you'll let it happen since she's an attractive (presumably) female.
post 1557391451 07-28-2018, 09:59 AM
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Originally Posted By SkinnyKappa
I love how all the women here are saying "maybe she wanted to study"

NO, she knew you're a beta ******* willing to waste your time and gas on tutoring her for no reward at all

fkn LMAO reminds me of engineering school
WHAT gas?
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post 1557391471 07-28-2018, 09:59 AM
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Originally Posted By johnnydeep1
Idiot. Why bother studying with some random guy????
Durr humans often interact with each other durrrrr
fukn Brozart
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post 1557391541 07-28-2018, 10:00 AM
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Originally Posted By YIAMSOMEBODY
Man, this bitch got games. You want to study with me, offer me a ride, cancel the ride, then when I try to make general conversation with you....you act like I'm doing something wrong? Fukc outta here.

There's no way, I PERSONALLY, would endure a study session with someone and let that be the ONLY thing we talk about. Hell no. It has nothing to do with trying to get at her or whatever, but a normal topic.....? And you shun it like I'm doing something wrong? Bitch, take yo stuck up ass somewhere.

Hey man, don't do it again....
NO. I have to keep trying. She might be interested. No reason why she would want to study with me or offer me a ride unless she's atleast considering.
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post 1557391561 07-28-2018, 10:00 AM
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its called being used
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She just wanted attention.
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Originally Posted By Brozart
Durr humans often interact with each other durrrrr
Why ME then?
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post 1557391651 07-28-2018, 10:02 AM
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Originally Posted By drvillain
its called being used
USED for what? My grades are worse than hers.
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Originally Posted By johnnydeep1
Why ME then?
Durr you aren't actually the centre of existence and everything doesn't have to be explained as per your frame of reference durrr
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Originally Posted By johnnydeep1
NO. I have to keep trying. She might be interested. No reason why she would want to study with me or offer me a ride unless she's atleast considering.
Welp....that's all I needed to read.

This is a troll thread.
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Originally Posted By johnnydeep1
Why ME then?
see this is why you're punk ass gets played. Miscers already said the answers ITT, but you're fishing for an answer you like. Until you change, you'll remain a beta orbiter waiting for a glimmering chance.
Originally Posted By johnnydeep1
USED for what? My grades are worse than hers.
your time retard. Your gas retard. Likely listening to her babble like a BF would but without the sex. Why be alone when you can force an orbiter to hang round?
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Maybe just maybe she wanted to study?
Occam's razor strikes again.
READ THIS: You know how your Visa gift cards usually end up with $0.63 left on them, so then you carry them around for months before you eventually just throw them away? Well, Tarck's here to tell you that most charities have a PayPal link on their website where you can quickly donate that balance (even if you don't have a PayPal account). It only takes a moment and it beats literally throwing money away. Thanks for your time; we now return to your regularly scheduled cuckold and FA threads.
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Originally Posted By Brozart
Durr you aren't actually the centre of existence and everything doesn't have to be explained as per your frame of reference durrr
Do you just study with random women you aren't interested in?

People have motives for their actions.

Perhaps she finds me attractive and wanted to study and ask me for a ride for validation in order to boost her self esteem but wasn't interested in having a relationship.
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Maybe she wanted to study
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OP sloots get agitated at the drop of a hat . Never met a sane sloot yet and I’m over a half century old .
They can go from laughter and having a good time to full blown mental breakdown faster than a super computer can number crunch 1 + 1.
Your overthinking this ,and it’s a waste of your time and brain resources
Back with my Fam
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