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» 90% of dudes not getting laid is due to an underdeveloped personality - NOT LOOKS
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post 1566204641 11-14-2018, 09:54 AM
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90% of dudes not getting laid is due to an underdeveloped personality - NOT LOOKS

The reason you aren't getting laid is because you are a weird fukker who hasn't done enough socially to figure out how to flirt properly. The other 10% are autistic or deformed.



Go outside, figure out how to be social even if it means you're an awkward embarrassed loser, trial, error and self reflection are important.

Also Indians looking to bang 10/10 women need to chill.


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post 1566205141 11-14-2018, 10:00 AM
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It's easy picking up women. Just walk up to them and say hi. It works every time.
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post 1566205221 11-14-2018, 10:01 AM
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post 1566205451 11-14-2018, 10:04 AM
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Originally Posted By LikeAMachine
The reason you aren't getting laid is because you are a weird fukker who hasn't done enough socially to figure out how to flirt properly. The other 10% are autistic or deformed.



Go outside, figure out how to be social even if it means you're an awkward embarrassed loser, trial, error and self reflection are important.

Also Indians looking to bang 10/10 women need to chill.


Fite me.
That and going after girls out of their league and/or not willing to lower there standards to where they should be. No personality and average looks? lol @ going after hot chicks.
post 1566205501 11-14-2018, 10:04 AM
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Truth but personality is even more essential to dating/attracting quality women and keeping them interested for an extended period of time.

Looks alone can probably get you laid once in a while at the bar/on tinder.
post 1566205551 11-14-2018, 10:06 AM
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It seems like looks get your foot in the door. But your social skills get the job done.

brb focusing on improving social skills.
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post 1566205671 11-14-2018, 10:07 AM
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I'm pretty weird, I think that helped me to get laid when I was single.
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post 1566205691 11-14-2018, 10:07 AM
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When you see a good looking guy with a dog food or sloppy joe its a guy that has low social skills usually. About 25% of the time hes gay and in the closet.
post 1566206391 11-14-2018, 10:15 AM
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Totally agree. It wasn’t until I started putting myself out there, working on my social skills that I was able to get laid on a consistent basis. I’d consider myself above average in looks as I get interest from attractive women, but when I had no idea what I was doing things went nowhere really fast.
post 1566206491 11-14-2018, 10:16 AM
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das it srs

there's no other possible explanation for why i'm not a virgin
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post 1566206511 11-14-2018, 10:16 AM
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Originally Posted By EoR
It's easy picking up women. Just walk up to them and say hi. It works every time.
Cue EOD to say you can't approach women.
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post 1566206581 11-14-2018, 10:17 AM
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post 1566206641 11-14-2018, 10:19 AM
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post 1566206821 11-14-2018, 10:21 AM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish
das it srs

there's no other possible explanation for why i'm not a virgin
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post 1566206931 11-14-2018, 10:23 AM
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Originally Posted By LikeAMachine
Also Indians looking to bang 10/10 women need to chill.

whoa man no need to bring my race into this. i know you woke up this morning feeling dangerous but this is out of line bro.
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post 1566207031 11-14-2018, 10:24 AM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish
das it srs

there's no other possible explanation for why i'm not a virgin
How often do you approach randoms?
post 1566207121 11-14-2018, 10:24 AM
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agree
poor outlook of himself
low confidence
0 or repetitive achievements
low risk taking
no social skills

u r right
post 1566207321 11-14-2018, 10:27 AM
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thats too much work tho
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post 1566207361 11-14-2018, 10:27 AM
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Even the most socially awkward introvert can get laid at a college bar at 2:00am with the right timing.

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post 1566207731 11-14-2018, 10:31 AM
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Yeah but the incel thing isn't about putting work into developing your social skills to successfully flirt and woo women with personality. These guys want to be genetically-endowed Chad alpha males, forged in the womb into womanizing weapons of mass vaginal destruction, doing absolutely nothing themselves but pulling in top-tier women solely through their ideal canthal tilt and jawlines
post 1566207921 11-14-2018, 10:33 AM
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This is me. I’m the most boring bland guy ever with no social experience.

How do you improve this? Just going out isn’t enough to develop a personality you have to know who you are to do that. I don’t know who i am. I don’t know if I’m the serious guy, the quirky guy, the funny guy or anything. I’ve literally sat in a room for 4 years
post 1566207941 11-14-2018, 10:33 AM
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Personality & social skills seems to be the big problem with people nowadays
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post 1566208321 11-14-2018, 10:36 AM
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Looks still has a big portion of it, I wouldn’t date a fat chick, neither would I date a single mom. Or smash

Fact is there is more to it than just looks or personality.
post 1566208641 11-14-2018, 10:40 AM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
How often do you approach randoms?
outside of a bar or something similar, almost never. if i did, i certainly wouldn't be flirting with them. i would just say absurd things
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post 1566208801 11-14-2018, 10:41 AM
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OP is right, be something if value, that can take many forms, actually talk to women, I want a misc meet up with all the idiots that can't get laid...will be like thunderdome if incels
post 1566209181 11-14-2018, 10:44 AM
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> not autistically screeching in front of women to get them to reproduce with you

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post 1566209251 11-14-2018, 10:45 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Where do I find such a guy??
Gymcel with low social skills? Look no further, because that is approximately 35.0% of the misc
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post 1566209351 11-14-2018, 10:46 AM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish
outside of a bar or something similar, almost never. if i did, i certainly wouldn't be flirting with them. i would just say absurd things
How do you know when you’re “being yourself”? I think being myself is me being quiet, but I’m actually weird af and a little mean. I enjoy making people uncomfortable just a little bit but I don’t think that’s an attractive personality.

I’m embarrassed of my personality and I don’t let it come out in small talk essentially.
Do you just build on to what people respond to the most?
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Originally Posted By WZBRAH
Gymcel with low social skills? Look no further, because that is approximately 35.0% of the misc
Honestly forums and online video games are probably where they're at
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