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post 1598128521 02-20-2020, 08:15 AM
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Married brahs.. Is the tour over once your wife gets fat and gives up on life?

BRB girlfriend moved in last year, has gained 60 pounds and all she talks about is when we're getting married. Now I feel stuck. Das not it man, Das not it.
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post 1598128751 02-20-2020, 08:19 AM
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60 pounds in a year? LMFAO...Drop that fat bitch and go get you a new girl with some damn self respect. My wife is maybe 10 pounds heavier and we've been married for almost 13 years.
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post 1598128841 02-20-2020, 08:20 AM
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Originally Posted By jackamo2887
brb girlfriend moved in last year, has gained 60 pounds and all she talks about is when we're getting married. Now i feel stuck. Das not it man, das not it.
you arent married yet fella. Just move on
post 1598128861 02-20-2020, 08:20 AM
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Wait til she gets the Karen haircut. Meanwhile I show up to events with a different girl half my age everytime, watching all my buddies wives tears flow lmao.
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post 1598128921 02-20-2020, 08:21 AM
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Not if you motivate her to stay healthy and fit
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post 1598128961 02-20-2020, 08:23 AM
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Lol at not setting weight limits when you start a relationship with a girl...
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post 1598129031 02-20-2020, 08:23 AM
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Originally Posted By SirBetalot
Wait til she gets the Karen haircut. Meanwhile I show up to events with a different girl half my age everytime, watching all my buddies wives tears flow lmao.
How old are you brah? Whenever I see stuff like this it gives me hope. I'm almost 30 and sometimes feel old a/f.
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post 1598129071 02-20-2020, 08:24 AM
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60lbs in a year!?! WHAT - Has half her family died & she's been stress eating!?

- My girls gained about 5-8lbs since i met her, told her she needs to join a gym ASAP. As i need to find her attractive or i'll simple not be with her - I don't do charity work.
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post 1598129281 02-20-2020, 08:27 AM
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If either the man or woman gains a significant amount of weight, then they are just disrespecting their significant other IMO. They sold you one thing, then give you something else....not cool.
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post 1598129511 02-20-2020, 08:31 AM
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its your duty to help her out

if she dont want the help its either on you to accept it or move on from it
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post 1598129581 02-20-2020, 08:32 AM
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Dump her today. Dead phucking serious.
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post 1598129651 02-20-2020, 08:33 AM
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kick her to the curb
post 1598129751 02-20-2020, 08:34 AM
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I always lol at good looking guys with fat wives. What makes it funny is that the whales are crazily jealous and scared of their husbands leaving them, but will still not put down the box of Krispy’s.

Of course if the dude it ugly, I believe he thinks he’s grateful to at least not be alone.

Sucks to be ugly and desperate that’s for sure.
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post 1598129831 02-20-2020, 08:35 AM
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Originally Posted By ScramFranklin
How old are you brah? Whenever I see stuff like this it gives me hope. I'm almost 30 and sometimes feel old a/f.
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post 1598129851 02-20-2020, 08:35 AM
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I've tried every trick

"we should diet together"
"come to the gym with me"

Just nothing. Always excuses.
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post 1598130241 02-20-2020, 08:42 AM
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If you're serious then it's time to end it if you're unhappy. If you give her an ultimatum to lose weight or you'll leave it may work, but then you'll get married and it won't be as easy to leave as it is now if it happens again.
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post 1598130251 02-20-2020, 08:42 AM
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Originally Posted By jackamo2887
I've tried every trick

"we should diet together"
"come to the gym with me"

Just nothing. Always excuses.
shes a fat fuk and doesnt give a fuk about anything but food. don't drop her but tell her shes overweight and that her eating habits are an addiction and she needs help. communication is important, dont just think " ooh shes a fat ugly kunt" and never mention it tell her straight up shes too big and its unattractive. 60lbs in a year is not acceptable
post 1598130371 02-20-2020, 08:45 AM
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I've seen both men and women get comfortable and whale up, yet still want the same attention they used to get when they were attractive. It's a dangerous game you're playing OP. If you care about her, lay it all out to her and tell her you can't be with someone who's overweight. If she doesn't make massive steps to improve herself, you need to hang it up. The worst is when a husband and wife feed off of each others bad choices and they both put on 100 lbs. Fuking pathetic man.
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post 1598130481 02-20-2020, 08:46 AM
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Dump your fat GF OP. If she's got no respect for herself now there's no way it's getting better post marriage.
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post 1598130591 02-20-2020, 08:49 AM
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If she has bulked pre-marriage, you're done for. That's usually reserved for after children.
post 1598130731 02-20-2020, 08:50 AM
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Be honest with her and voice your concerns about her life choices. It might upset her but it has to be done. Never marry someone who doesn't put forth effort to maintain a normal weight. Eventually she'll complain about her knees and ankles as her mass slowly destroys them. She'll make your ass circle the parking lot a dozen times waiting for a close spot to open up because she can't walk 50 yards without gassing out. Hope you enjoy following her around as she barks commands from her electric cart because she's not capable of pushing one like a normal human. After 10 years her very presence will make you want to jam a pencil into your eye to end your suffering.
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post 1598130981 02-20-2020, 08:55 AM
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No offense but only BETAs get "stuck". Grab your balls and tell her to get lost or at least tell her to lose weight. Doesn't sound like she's ever going to change her ways so make moves boyo.
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post 1598131001 02-20-2020, 08:55 AM
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If it's important to you, tell her.

Say "we should postpone the wedding until we're back in shape. It's important to me."
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post 1598131101 02-20-2020, 08:56 AM
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Your tour was over before that.

It's natural for your partner to gain a little weight, as a sign of comfort. However, if it's reached that point, it's a sign of some serious complacency issues and you've likely ignored plenty of yellow flag warning signs leading up to it.

At this point, you have about two options:
-Make it known that she needs to take care of that and let her know how important it is that it's the responsibility of both partners to maintain their attractiveness especially if they're going to expect the relationship to be exclusive.

If you kindly explain that to her, but she doesn't make any real effort to change.

-Break up with her. Srs. I know that sounds fukked up, but I've told my SO that if she ever gained an enormous amount of weight simply because she got comfortable I would break up with her. And while I love her, I refuse to let her do that to herself. A 10-20lb difference is totally okay to fluctuate, and generally, I'm okay with that. But when you breach 60, you're really just not taking care of yourself..If you don't care enough about yourself to keep yourself healthy, that's a HUGE problem.



Of course, you should be in phenomenal shape yourself if you're going this route just FYI.
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Originally Posted By TypeNirvash
Your tour was over before that.

It's natural for your partner to gain a little weight, as a sign of comfort. However, if it's reached that point, it's a sign of some serious complacency issues and you've likely ignored plenty of yellow flag warning signs leading up to it.

At this point, you have about two options:
-Make it known that she needs to take care of that and let her know how important it is that it's the responsibility of both partners to maintain their attractiveness especially if they're going to expect the relationship to be exclusive.

If you kindly explain that to her, but she doesn't make any real effort to change.

-Break up with her. Srs. I know that sounds fukked up, but I've told my SO that if she ever gained an enormous amount of weight simply because she got comfortable I would break up with her. And while I love her, I refuse to let her do that to herself.If you don't care enough about yourself to keep yourself healthy, that's a HUGE problem.



Of course, you should be in phenomenal shape yourself if you're going this route just FYI.
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post 1598131401 02-20-2020, 09:03 AM
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Can confirm.

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Have you actually tried to be an adult and talk to her OP?

She could be absolutely miserable with you, feel trapped, doesn't give a fukk, and youre a complete POS doing dumb chit every day. This aint a 1 way street mang.
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Originally Posted By Howiester
“Huge” problem lulz
Absolutely yooge problem
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