BRB Keep what they earn and save. Retire early.


BRB Avoid unwanted pregnancies from crazy sloots.


BRB Work on themselves and find true inner happiness.


BRB Avoid STDs.


BRB avoid drama/stress = slower aging


My theory is that if an incel stays an incel long enough and fully accepts his incel status, he transcends the Chad. Full circle. Likewise, the Chad ends up deteriorating under the pressures of his advantages and ends up fat, broke, divorced, sick, and addicted. This seems to have happened to all of the Chads in my age group already, while the unpopular guys ( we just called them "nerds" in my day ), are slim, in shape, have money and many are in happy later-life relationships.

What you are describing is a reasonable man who is not obsessed with barebacking dozens of sloots
I am following my goals etc, not comitting, not spending money on chit


Incels on the other hand don't go out, spend all their money on E-sloots instead, fap all the time and blame the world for their problems, but expensive chit like stamp collection

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Depends if they make it past the 90% chance of mass shooting or suicide phase

I hope so🤤

They can definitely channel their lonliness and frustration into accomplishing greatness, but humans are social by design, and no amount of money, toys, or clout will fill the huge, gaping holes in their hearts from a lifetime of rejection and sexlessness.

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being an incel sucks and nothing can make up for it

He's not wrong. Drugs definitely come the closest to filling the hole.

Slower aging? Most incels look older than they are because they treat their bodies like chit and eat like chit.

Most incels are not reasonably well off, and live fairly average lives. Most incels do not pursue self growth, and instead prefer self regression as a means of escape.

Most incels will certainly end up in worse shape than they are currently if they continue down the path they pursue.

I don't see how anyone can be truly happy without sex and companionship. No matter how much you accomplish, you will always feel empty. It's just human nature.

this is the reality.

coping only gets you so far but its better than settling for some ugly or fat bitch

By definition of average, most incels and most non incels are average.

The reality is when you're an incel there isn't much motivation to do much except cope. Like people are saying, being an incel will make you miserable either way, so may as well just cope.

The only way I can see an incel being happy is if they have enough money to bang escorts consistently which is a real risk, most are frauds, risk of robbery, many are ugly, and just become an alcoholic/drug user, srs.

A lot of Incels become alcoholics/druggies or recluse video gamers or those fedora atheists obsessed with underage Asian girls, or worse, and never really recover.

A few that swallow the Red Pill will understand the bullet they dodged and disregard females and acquire currency, then have to reject all the 30-something single Mothers.

I hear what you guys are saying but I'll bet at least a percentage of incels, at some point, will get tired of complaining and just accept their situation, right?

At some point, especially as you get older, you're going to say to yourself "this is my predicament, women dont like me, thats how it is so let me make the best of my life".

At that point, the incel has made the leap from his life being controlled by his environment, to controlling his INNER environment in spite of his external circumstance.

This is an opportunity that most Chad's will never get. Since their external environment provides them with what they need to be happy, they never learn to develop any independence from it. When the day comes that they lose their Chadness, its all down hill. Same goes for beautiful women who get old and become miserable.

Thoughts?

Well escorts arent even legal in some places for one thing, but even escorts arent enough. Its the lack of actual intimacy that really kills you.

If incels would practice meditation and stoicism, they could find contentment without sex. People have managed to be happy in much worse situations...

And if there’s one thing that I know is true about sloots, they are never content. Hypergamy exists, which means women are never happy with what they have and always want more, but they all hit a wall at some point, and then they spend the rest of their lives pissed off thinking they deserve better. How many middle aged women do you know that seem happy?

So yes, if an incel is really concerned with getting the last laugh, all he has to do is learn to be happy with whatever he’s got, and that will put him ahead of 99% of sloots.

this is true, I mean if you're an incel theres no reason not to just drink and game or anything to numb the pain.

And lol if you think never getting laid is dodging a bullet

This is where trannies come into play. Still get to bareback sloots and not deal with all the problems

You cant simply turn off the need for sex and intimacy. you just cant.

all you can do is cope and numb the pain.

That wasn't the point. never having kids or getting married in order to get laid is the bullet they dodged.

Yes, this. I think the incel has at least the OPPORTUNITY to get to another level. And I agree about finding contentment without sex, absolutely possible and has been done by people since the dawn of time.

This. It ain't the nut, it's having a woman wanting your nut in or on them. That desire that makes her want to please you in any way possible. To be used as your personal fuk toy.

They also want someone who will cook for them because they genuinely want to, rub their backs after a long day, fetch them a beer, etc..

Now busting a nut on some high end escorts feels great I'm sure, and any incel that can afford it, I say go for it, but they know that a nut with someone who isn't into you is only a small step up from jacking off.

They crave that pure passion, lust, and love that most guys will feel at some point in their lives.

They can cure cancer, become millionaires, fly to Cancun in a personal jet, fuk local whores, but they still have to wake up in that big, luxurious house all alone with no one to share any of it with.

they drink or get high, fuk some supermodel because they can afford it. Ride the high of sex with someone hot, but then that feeling fades. They know that model only cares about money. She won't have the earth shattering sex with the incel that they will have when they eventually get their better looking, and much less successful boyfriends that they actuallywantto fuk like crazy.

Sometimes, money, hookers, and blow just ain't enough.

you dont have to be incel to not have kids or get married.

that's like saying "you avoided cancer because you died in a car crash first"..........

You might not be able to get rid of the urge, but that doesn’t mean you have to be miserable.

It's making the best out of a bad situation. It sucks that they never got laid or had anyone love them, but they can either LDAR or make the best of it.

Its hard not be, you will at least go up and down. Coping only gets you so far