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post 1610848881 07-17-2020, 05:30 AM
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Miscers with kids, at what age did you decide you wanted one?

Title. I always disliked kids for some reason and always thought it was because I was young and saw them as a burden.

I think its normal to think like that when you are like 18, but I'm 24 now and still dont want them..so my question to older miscers with kids is: did you suddenly change opinion as you got older? Or did you always want to have kids?
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post 1610848981 07-17-2020, 05:32 AM
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I always wanted to have kids. Decided to settle down in late 20's, had kids in early 30's.
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Pretty much as soon as i was comfortable with my looks & finances.

Obv that differs person to person.
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post 1610849301 07-17-2020, 05:41 AM
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post 1610850241 07-17-2020, 05:59 AM
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I didn't want kids until I hit my mid-late 20's. Prob around 26-27. Got married at 28 and had my son at 32.
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post 1610850301 07-17-2020, 06:00 AM
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Sometime in my 30s when I was over partying and got all of that out of my system.
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Early 30s.

For a long time I was on that "nope, no kids" crew.
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post 1610883151 07-17-2020, 12:24 PM
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Had my first when I was 23. I was also already established and owned a house. Wouldn't have done it that early otherwise.
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Originally Posted By dannyg1217
Sometime in my 30s when I was over partying and got all of that out of my system.
Are you supposed to have kids when you grow up?

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I got some bad news
"The manlet is a savage beast that knows no moral bound. After falling in disgrace to a manmore, a ravaged manlet would not hesitate to come from behind and land a sucker punch/ swing with a rock to the back of a manmore's head. They are ruthless and you need to spend some more time in the gutter to even begin trying to comprehend what goes on in their minds."

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Always wanted kids and a family.
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I recognized around 22 that I wouldn't have kids as society had created an underbelly that was rotten.
post 1610883651 07-17-2020, 12:30 PM
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Originally Posted By aleeboy
Are you supposed to have kids when you grow up?

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Was not really excited about it, but at 27 with a wife of a few years and finally got a good promotion at work. The time is never right, but being financially stable in a good relationship is what matters.

All the women I know that are childless turn bitter and crazy. It is amazing what can happen to the bitchiest woman when she manages to get pregnant for the first time at forty.

I know some have medical issues or are not able to for other reasons, but the cruelest thing a man can do to a woman is convince her not to have kids. They have a need.

Given the above the next logical thing is to have them before she turns 38 to reduce the chances of something going wrong.
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Originally Posted By FingerFood
Was not really excited about it, but at 27 with a wife of a few years and finally got a good promotion at work. The time is never right, but being financially stable in a good relationship is what matters.

All the women I know that are childless turn bitter and crazy. It is amazing what can happen to the bitchiest woman when she manages to get pregnant for the first time at forty.

I know some have medical issues or are not able to for other reasons, but the cruelest thing a man can do to a woman is convince her not to have kids. They have a need.

Given the above the next logical thing is to have them before she turns 38 to reduce the chances of something going wrong.
Women realize the liberal bull **** they've been fed in America - far to late - hence we've got population decline and always will until enough of the population has reduced.
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im 36 and i still dont want kids



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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
I understand the biological need but I really don’t think every woman is cut out to be a good mom. Having kids changes your life completely. Even more for the mom as for the dad because moms always do most of the work.

Being a GOOD mom requires a ton of work and selflessness. You have to put your kids needs above your own for 20+ years every single day. You won’t have peace of mind or time for yourself. Everything revolves around the kids needs.

It’s a massive responsibility and massive amount of work to do it right. And not everyone is cut out for that.
I know several mothers who are becoming increasingly distant from their responsibilities. I think it comes down to three reasons:

1. They settled for undesirable males desperate enough to marry females with mental health issues
2. Their kids are over the honeymoon age of cuteness (anywhere from 0-5) and are now ugly little runts that talk back
3. They cannot see the end of the line and are depressed that their lives are so lame

May I kindly suggest to ugly, short and dumb people to NOT breed. Also, ugly-on-ugly sex is a sin.
"The manlet is a savage beast that knows no moral bound. After falling in disgrace to a manmore, a ravaged manlet would not hesitate to come from behind and land a sucker punch/ swing with a rock to the back of a manmore's head. They are ruthless and you need to spend some more time in the gutter to even begin trying to comprehend what goes on in their minds."

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Originally Posted By aleeboy
I know several mothers who are becoming increasingly distant from their responsibilities. I think it comes down to three reasons:

1. They settled for undesirable males desperate enough to marry females with mental health issues
2. Their kids are over the honeymoon age of cuteness (anywhere from 0-5) and are now ugly little runts that talk back
3. They cannot see the end of the line and are depressed that their lives are so lame

May I kindly suggest to ugly, short and dumb people to NOT breed. Also, ugly-on-ugly sex is a sin.
Also - poor people - stop.
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Originally Posted By Vexidi
Had my first when I was 23. I was also already established and owned a house. Wouldn't have done it that early otherwise.
Have two, first at 29. Knew I wanted kids sometime in the future when I was in high school, but not until I was financially secure enough to raise them well.

It's not wrong to -not- want children, in fact those are some of the best kinds of people - the ones that don't grow up resenting their decision and creating self abusing monsters.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
I understand the biological need but I really don’t think every woman is cut out to be a good mom. Having kids changes your life completely. Even more for the mom as for the dad because moms always do most of the work.

Being a GOOD mom requires a ton of work and selflessness. You have to put your kids needs above your own for 20+ years every single day. You won’t have peace of mind or time for yourself. Everything revolves around the kids needs.

It’s a massive responsibility and massive amount of work to do it right. And not everyone is cut out for that.
I fully agree and understand. I do not judge. That is why I mentioned health and other issues. There are people that had issues or things that happened to them that make it more difficult to handle the responsibility.

That said, the burden of responsibility is your purpose in life. Without it what are you?
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Originally Posted By tk217
Also - poor people - stop.
Yes, there is a high correlation (purely due to poor genetics) that the fuglies are also poor.

I cannot believe how much cope ugly people put up with as their genitals combine in a monstrous union that should result in prison terms.

Ugly people should all be relocated to some place out of sight. I feel like I stand out to much and attract fronting manlets all day every day. My gf is also the subject of mad females.

Ugly people, this is how your ugly parents looked at you when you were born. And they still do even though you look like them

"The manlet is a savage beast that knows no moral bound. After falling in disgrace to a manmore, a ravaged manlet would not hesitate to come from behind and land a sucker punch/ swing with a rock to the back of a manmore's head. They are ruthless and you need to spend some more time in the gutter to even begin trying to comprehend what goes on in their minds."

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Originally Posted By jeshelton
Have two, first at 29. Knew I wanted kids sometime in the future when I was in high school, but not until I was financially secure enough to raise them well.

It's not wrong to -not- want children, in fact those are some of the best kinds of people - the ones that don't grow up resenting their decision and creating self abusing monsters.



lmao rekd (kids futures)
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"The manlet is a savage beast that knows no moral bound. After falling in disgrace to a manmore, a ravaged manlet would not hesitate to come from behind and land a sucker punch/ swing with a rock to the back of a manmore's head. They are ruthless and you need to spend some more time in the gutter to even begin trying to comprehend what goes on in their minds."

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Originally Posted By aleeboy
Yes, there is a high correlation (purely due to poor genetics) that the fuglies are also poor.

I cannot believe how much cope ugly people put up with as their genitals combine in a monstrous union that should result in prison terms.

Ugly people should all be relocated to some place out of sight. I feel like I stand out to much and attract fronting manlets all day every day. My gf is also the subject of mad females.

Ugly people, this is how your ugly parents looked at you when you were born. And they still do even though you look like them

You ever hear of eugenics? I am pretty sure everyone made a gentleman's agreement that it was bad. You may want to look into it before openly talking about this anymore.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
You have to put your kids needs above your own for 20+ years every single day
This is the biggest reason why I dont see me having kids, ever..as selfish as that sounds
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Originally Posted By FingerFood
You ever hear of eugenics? I am pretty sure everyone made a gentleman's agreement that it was bad. You may want to look into it before openly talking about this anymore.
It is purely a voluntary request.
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Originally Posted By FingerFood
You ever hear of eugenics? I am pretty sure everyone made a gentleman's agreement that it was bad. You may want to look into it before openly talking about this anymore.
Who hurt you?

I am not demanding anything. I am stating my opinion as a good looking person.
"The manlet is a savage beast that knows no moral bound. After falling in disgrace to a manmore, a ravaged manlet would not hesitate to come from behind and land a sucker punch/ swing with a rock to the back of a manmore's head. They are ruthless and you need to spend some more time in the gutter to even begin trying to comprehend what goes on in their minds."

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Had one at 25, That was 4 years ago almost 5
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I'm ugly and poor so never wanted kids. Also very lazy and I honestly think I have a mental disability so it's better that I don't have them.
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