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post 1611724421 07-26-2020, 01:29 PM
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Was I supposed to walk up and talk to her (gym etiquette question)

This is more of a gym etiquette thing then anything else. My general rule of thumb is people don't go to the gym to be hit on. Anyways I started checking out this girl today who was working out with her friend. She turned looked directly at me and started smiling at me. I didn't approach her because she was with her friend and I thought it might awkward, but it kinda feels like I was supposed to.


What would you of done.
post 1611724591 07-26-2020, 01:32 PM
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when you see her again, see if you get more legit eye contact and smiles. after about 3 separate instances (days) of legit flirting from her, i think you have the green light to go over and make some small talk. say something funny or throw her a compliment.
post 1611724991 07-26-2020, 01:37 PM
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX
when you see her again, see if you get more legit eye contact and smiles. after about 3 separate instances (days) of legit flirting from her, i think you have the green light to go over and make some small talk. say something funny or throw her a compliment.
Sounds reasonable
post 1611725281 07-26-2020, 01:40 PM
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I was doing deadlifts and a girl purposely goes to the squat rack in front of me to do squats, there were squat racks that were free with no dudes doing deadlifts behind them. Her phat ass was in my face the whole time I was doing DL

what was I supposed to do? say hi?
post 1611725461 07-26-2020, 01:44 PM
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Originally Posted By Eatforgains
Sounds reasonable
best time to your trip to the cleaning station/trash can/bathroom/equipment/door with hers. hence, it can be more casual. end with asking if she wants to meet up for a margarita and give her your number/get her number.
post 1611725811 07-26-2020, 01:47 PM
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