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» They are hot, but should I friend zone them? I think I want a relationship now
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post 1612519171 08-03-2020, 10:48 PM
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They are hot, but should I friend zone them? I think I want a relationship now

Broke up with my ex 2 years ago, haven’t spoken since, she’s still on my mind here and there. Ever since the breakup I’ve messed with a lot of girls. Over the last year or so I slowly found myself interested in something serious. I’d say I’m quite an attractive guy so I get attention from attractive women. Sometimes I feel like they just want hook up or something. Not a good feeling.

Anyway started talking to this girl and she told me she’s not looking for anything serious, I said cool, we slept together on Thursday on our first date. She wants to fck again. Saturday night I slept with another girl from my class that has a massive crush on me. I had avoided her for a while because I knew I didn’t want a relationship with her although she’s quite attractive. On Saturday she came over wanting to talk because of her feelings for me. I thought that was all it was gonna be. I even told her “nothing can happen”, but it did and she “forgot her dress here” and wore my shirt and pants to go home. So now we have to exchange our stuff.

Truly I get no satisfaction from these anymore. In my relationship I wanted so bad to get with a lot of girls, now that I have it’s just like man it’s the same thing every time, first girl I mentioned I’ll tell her today lets just be friends (which I’m serious about) second girl already knows I’m not trying to continue anything past our one night together. But I assume she may try again, might be too weak to turn it down unfortunately.

Now I’m not clueless here. So I’ll analyze myself. I say all this but yet it’s still happening, so clearly I think with the wrong head at times, and I have a lack of self control. But it’s also like I like the short companionship these girls give me, but I know they don’t satisfy me emotionally.

In the end how do I overcome this cycle, I don’t want to just not talk to anyone. But it all keeps ending the same way. Just sex.
post 1612519341 08-03-2020, 10:51 PM
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post 1612519451 08-03-2020, 10:52 PM
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post 1612519461 08-03-2020, 10:52 PM
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post 1612519481 08-03-2020, 10:53 PM
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post 1612519871 08-03-2020, 10:58 PM
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OP has life on ez mode when it comes to girls yet dont know what to do about it.

I dont see what the issue is here. If you want a serious relationship find a girl that you want to do that with.
If its your ex hit her up and see what shes up to she will probably take you back if you are as good looking as it seems you are.
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post 1612520021 08-03-2020, 11:01 PM
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post 1612520481 08-03-2020, 11:09 PM
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post 1612520511 08-03-2020, 11:09 PM
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post 1612520521 08-03-2020, 11:10 PM
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you seemed like such a cool man before this thread, opie
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post 1612520901 08-03-2020, 11:16 PM
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post 1612521101 08-03-2020, 11:20 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
Digging your own hole buddy - you're attracting those types of girls because decent chicks will get repelled by you - that's how subconscious programming works.
sounds like complete bs to me lol, he will keep going til he finds a girl thats relationship material. its not rocket science
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