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post 1613209531 08-11-2020, 06:49 AM
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Online dating is brutal.

hope you lads are well .
Been on and off the misc since 2007 and took the valid advice of the 2013 tinder thread.
After firing up tinder and OK cupid i now feel sorry for the younger generation.
whales, single mums and glow robbed mid 20s ladys.
Honestly carnt even get a whale to reply in 2020 but have cute,friendly 7s actively wanting to date IRL.

2009-2013 was very Goat where even weirdos could dates hot girls.

work on you're social life and it will greatly pay off getting laid.
post 1613209581 08-11-2020, 06:50 AM
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post 1613209641 08-11-2020, 06:51 AM
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Haven't used Tinder since 2015. How had has it fallen off since then?
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post 1613209681 08-11-2020, 06:51 AM
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Originally Posted By Ironface⏩
Man moons on land
Hey brother hope you're doing good.
Is this a common problem ?
post 1613209801 08-11-2020, 06:53 AM
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I’ve never had this issue I’m sorry I can’t help
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post 1613209811 08-11-2020, 06:53 AM
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok⏩
Haven't used Tinder since 2015. How had has it fallen off since then?
Hey bro just whales and ugs dramatically over valuing themselfs.
post 1613209871 08-11-2020, 06:53 AM
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Never used dating apps. Are even girls 5/10 and below really that picky? Who the **** dates them then if they only go for 8-10/10 guys? Surely those guys prefer top tier girls too.
post 1613209921 08-11-2020, 06:54 AM
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Originally Posted By JustMoved24⏩
I’ve never had this issue I’m sorry I can’t help
share some wisdom bro happy to get educated
post 1613210061 08-11-2020, 06:55 AM
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Originally Posted By ChristmasFnatic⏩
Never used dating apps. Are even girls 5/10 and below really that picky? Who the **** dates them then if they only go for 8-10/10 guys? Surely those guys prefer top tier girls too.
seems about correct but not from what im observing.
post 1613210081 08-11-2020, 06:55 AM
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you're 30, you live in QLD, you look like a chad? tanned? tall male? why aren't you married or have a gf brah?
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Originally Posted By ChristmasFnatic⏩
Never used dating apps. Are even girls 5/10 and below really that picky? Who the **** dates them then if they only go for 8-10/10 guys? Surely those guys prefer top tier girls too.
This is what happns

these girls will match with 7+/10 guys ,dude will take them out and bang em usually 2-3 months MAX AND dump em

literally I've been tinder for eyars and I see the same girls ton there for years its hilarious

girls I matched with in 2016 I match again in 2020
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Originally Posted By sandman2019⏩
you're 30, you live in QLD, you look like a chad? tanned? tall male? why aren't you married or have a gf brah?
thank you brother.
social skills bro still working on the..
but do get laid when ever i go out clubs/party
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Originally Posted By mellowfellow01⏩
Hey bro just whales and ugs dramatically over valuing themselfs.
Tempted to make a Tinder as a social experiment, see if it's just you guys or if it really has fallen off. Will talk to my girl about it after work. I remember back in the day it was obscenely easy to smash a new cute girl every night with Tinder if I wanted to. Hell, even had the luxury to choose between 2-3 cute girls each night. I don't see why it would fall off so hard, but that is what I hear everywhere
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Originally Posted By sandman2019⏩
This is what happns

these girls will match with 7+/10 guys ,dude will take them out and bang em usually 2-3 months MAX AND dump em

literally I've been tinder for eyars and I see the same girls ton there for years its hilarious

girls I matched with in 2016 I match again in 2020
saw a girl i rooted im 2008 from oasis active online recently.
she been using dating sites consistently for 13 years.
post 1613210361 08-11-2020, 07:00 AM
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok⏩
Tempted to make a Tinder as a social experiment, see if it's just you guys or if it really has fallen off. Will talk to my girl about it after work. I remember back in the day it was obscenely easy to smash a new cute girl every night with Tinder if I wanted to. Hell, even had the luxury to choose between 2-3 cute girls each night. I don't see why it would fall off so hard, but that is what I hear everywhere
myself and my best bro would have a new girl over most nights in 2012-2013
post 1613210561 08-11-2020, 07:04 AM
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Originally Posted By mellowfellow01⏩
saw a girl i rooted im 2008 from oasis active online recently.
she been using dating sites consistently for 13 years.
Honestly I've been on tinder for years and got laid using it. Met my last girlfriend off their, we went out for 7 months, also had a few fwbs off their but every girl I've met from tinder is just utterly ****ed in the head, and not even worth it anymore, imo stick to real life/social circles.

like you said 13 + years on tinder/online dating apps and STILL SINGLE? Yea, you got to be pretty messed up in the head if you haven't found a boyfriend after being on tinder/pof/bumble for that long. but many women are like that.
post 1613212131 08-11-2020, 07:28 AM
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Originally Posted By mellowfellow01⏩
hope you lads are well .
Been on and off the misc since 2007 and took the valid advice of the 2013 tinder thread.
After firing up tinder and OK cupid i now feel sorry for the younger generation.
whales, single mums and glow robbed mid 20s ladys.
Honestly carnt even get a whale to reply in 2020 but have cute,friendly 7s actively wanting to date IRL.

2009-2013 was very Goat where even weirdos could dates hot girls.

work on you're social life and it will greatly pay off getting laid.
You are well behind on the times boyo. No one that isn't community college trash or single moms use Tinder. And no one who isnt a fat **** isnt on OK Cupid.


All the hotties have moved on to Hinge and other apps
post 1613212861 08-11-2020, 07:38 AM
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The amount of people interested in dating that are on online dating apps is small. This goes for both guys and girls. Sometimes it’s about followers, sometimes it’s about ego, boredom, quick smash, but little actual dating.
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post 1613213011 08-11-2020, 07:39 AM
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2020 is a different world to 2012.
post 1613213131 08-11-2020, 07:42 AM
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It is what it is.
I know a couple of dudes who have 2k matches and they get laid by tinder every now and then.
I get matches but usually nothing happens just boring convo
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LMFAO @ using cattle market dating apps.

Think about it, why would any self-respecting female need to go on there?

Damaged goods with donkeys ear vaginas.
fist yourself
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Just need to learn how to play the game.

In my age bracket (40 plus) the women are always single for a reason. Single moms, crazy or so high maintenance no guy will put up with them. I've learned to expect it and just manipulate to get what I want, which at the end of the day is casual sex.
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Originally Posted By Briisk⏩
The amount of people interested in dating that are on online dating apps is small. This goes for both guys and girls. Sometimes it’s about followers, sometimes it’s about ego, boredom, quick smash, but little actual dating.
Wrong, and cope. If a girl is in her 20s and single then 90%+ chance she uses a dating app. The days of it being for some obscure group are long over, now it's absolute commonplace. Another cope myth is only uggo chicks use it. On Tinder or OK Cupid sure, but every girl from low to high tier is on an app if they are single.
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Hate to break it to you boyo but 95% of those Tinder threads were absolute garbage.

Certain dudes would post screenshots talking about how they want to pin a girl against the wall and misc thought they were modern day poets, but it turns out if you're 6'2 and jacked you can say whatever the fuk you want.

PS: Get on Hinge if you're looking for decent quality.
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Originally Posted By meanstringbean⏩
Wrong, and cope. If a girl is in her 20s and single then 90%+ chance she uses a dating app. The days of it being for some obscure group are long over, now it's absolute commonplace. Another cope myth is only uggo chicks use it. On Tinder or OK Cupid sure, but every girl from low to high tier is on an app if they are single.
Lol there is nothing cope about my post. Just stating that those apps are not working as intended, for better or worse, but we all know that.

Why is hinge the place to be now, do all the quality chicks migrate apps every year or so
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"America" and "Quality Women" don't belong in the same sentence anymore. All apps work great abroad where ladies aren't fat whores with massive egos.
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In on daily whine about OLD thread. OLD sucks for both sexes (assuming you want something meaningful), so why are you wasting your time? Meet people IRL post-COVID. Most girls worth their salt don't use OLD. The lone exception is career-types or women who are genuinely exceptionally busy (i.e. doctors, not receptionists who complain about working 40 hours a week), but they're usually not crazy attractive anyway.
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Originally Posted By sandman2019⏩
Honestly I've been on tinder for years and got laid using it. Met my last girlfriend off their, we went out for 7 months, also had a few fwbs off their but every girl I've met from tinder is just utterly ****ed in the head, and not even worth it anymore, imo stick to real life/social circles.

like you said 13 + years on tinder/online dating apps and STILL SINGLE? Yea, you got to be pretty messed up in the head if you haven't found a boyfriend after being on tinder/pof/bumble for that long. but many women are like that.
so true brother.
when i was 17 this older lad told me "every ugly girl you meet online had a fake rape.story"
and it was so.true.
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Originally Posted By TheMiscHatesHim⏩
Hate to break it to you boyo but 95% of those Tinder threads were absolute garbage.

Certain dudes would post screenshots talking about how they want to pin a girl against the wall and misc thought they were modern day poets, but it turns out if you're 6'2 and jacked you can say whatever the fuk you want.

PS: Get on Hinge if you're looking for decent quality.
ok bro .
sure sure.
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Originally Posted By Briisk⏩
Lol there is nothing cope about my post. Just stating that those apps are not working as intended, for better or worse, but we all know that.

Why is hinge the place to be now, do all the quality chicks migrate apps every year or so
been using it.for a few days and have a date lined up.
seems high quality.
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