Cliffs
-GF seems off lately and is literally making my dopamine levels drop to hell and i just want to leave everytime i see her.
-She ain't telling what's wrong, because she ain't sure why she is off.
-Admits she doesn't want to talk that much with people, so basically depressed.
-She has to figure out what medical specialty to sign for, so i figured this might be what is bugging her. She was stressed about it a month ago and it is a big deal for her. She agrees that this might be it
-Afraid it is about me and that our spark has suddenly gone, but she is still acting really caring though


P.S. Don't really trust women when it comes to being honest with their emotions. Any brah had a simmiliar experience when gf starts acting depressed or just off when she has to make a life choice but she ain't certain?

Also no pics sry

getting railed by Chad while you're not around and feeling down and depressed when she's not with him

just lol @ wimenz

med school and residencies destroy relationships

there's a strong chance u won't be together 5 years from now

She knows whats wrong, she just aint saying. The rest I dunno. Source, wife of 8 years.

I'd just go no contact, if she cares about you then she'll make an honest effort. Because it seems like she doesn't care and doesn't have the balls to break it off and just lets it go on longer with no resolution.

Depression ain't no joke. I don't think you should make it about you. But maybe tone down to match her level

There is a chance she's either not telling you or have one foot out the door too as mentioned. How about just asking her?

She cheated on you

maybe she is
trying some
pussyjustice

Sometimes women don’t want to be helped. She needs to sort it out on her own. She’ll talk when she’s ready

Don’t be an a-hole to her but don’t let her bring your mood down either. Maybe You need to man the fuk up and be the one who initiate brining the mood up.

So go about your day as if nothing was wrong and everything was normal. She will notice it and help her feel a bit normal too maybe.

If she does not negatively react to you being normal, then you try and bring up her mood. Tell her you feel like going for a drive and if she wants to come along.

If she says no, you still go ahead and go.

She’ll come around eventually.

But if she did dun goofed and if there is something other than what you suspect (someone else), then, pack her chit up and ask her to go

This is super reassuring to me as I'm dating someone who will start her RN program next year.... wheeeee....

Asked her. She said it ain't me. Everytime it is something different but it all goes down to - she feels lost with what residency she has to choose and has basically graduated from med/ school and now she feels empty - no job, nothing to study for, end of that uni life.Nah, i know when my gf's do that shait. She is bookworm who lives with her parents and is constantly hanging out with me. Also no creepers and weirdos around spamming her to notice a red flag here.She seems wifey material. Too kind and also makes a real effort, even when depressed. She finished med. school, now she has to go into residency which is a bigger pain in the ass and a life-changing decision.

I think this is good advice. Don't beg to find out what's bothering her and ask too many questions. One or two here and there to let her know you'll listen if she wants to talk but that's it.

If you let her bring you down and nag her to try to figure out what's going on she may very well lose attraction to you because of that and push you away.

Sounds like you're dating eod



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