I was with my ex for 2.5 years, during that i time I wanted to experience dating multiple women, because I had never had that experience before. She was also my first and so far only gf. Anyway we’ve been broken up for two years (she broke up with me) still think of. Anyway for the last 2 years I’ve just been dating around with nothing solid or sticking. I tend to always find something wrong with a girl and put her on the back burner. I’ve only liked 1-3 over the last 2 years, but they also never work out.

After thinking about it, I come to the conclusion that for myself I want a real relationship and not just girls to sleep with. I’m really starting to get no satisfaction from sleeping with girls whom I have no feelings for. What do you guys prefer?

There are so many factors involved, many men genuinely would rather bang around as much as possible while others would be more satisfied by staying with one right girl and save energy from other parts of their live.

The problem is that many men grew in an unstable environment and have deep lacks inside them, this makes them need "confirmations" about their worth and such confirmations often push them to bang as many girls as possible to match higher stats.

Men usually needs goals and competitions since their early age to evaluate themselves yet this society and the school system especially doesnt allow this to happen, anyone gets a medal and many competitions are removed cause they are considered dangerous or "toxic", this messes up the emotional grow of a guy.

This is why videogames, martial arts and banging lotta chicks are more popular than ever, they get you a result that you can check.

Cliffs on this is that what you see in others is just a projection of what you see in you.

If you are truly happy with yourself you won't need multiple partners because most men who do so are just filling a void inside themselves that can't be filled - so it'll be endless chasing. Almost like how fat people keep eating to fill an emptiness not in their stomach but their soul so they keep eating.

Having a relationship


Fuk all that other noise. Most single guys are coomers who spend way too much resources into laying pipe (talking to girls, getting buzzed).


Without spending time chasing new girls you can easier ascend to greater highs in life. All the greatest inventors and thinkers were either asexual or in a relationship it seems

Good relationship > single

Single > bad or mediocre relationship

This.

The grass is always greener has never been more true with this argument


I always found the chase to be more satisfying than actual sex

First lesson in ''The Art of the Deal - Donald Trump''.


“Maximize Your Options

I also protect myself by being flexible. I never get too attached to one deal (sloot) or one approach. For starters, I keep a lot of balls (sloots) in the air, because most deals (sloots) fall out, no matter how promising they seem at first. In addition, once I’ve made a deal, I always come up with at least a half dozen approaches to making it work, because anything can happen, even to the best-laid plans.”

Multiple when I was younger but when you find a good loyal girl that you like you better not think with your dink and use your brain. That might be the last one in society at this rate.

Some real good responses and mature! As I said in the OP dating multiple women no longer brings me satisfaction. It often feels like a chore, it’s like getting dressed, going on dates, and then having sex with them, it all feels like a chore. Like a waste of time. Which is why two weeks ago, I dropped all of my fwbs. Told me them straight up I no longer want to sleep with them because it doesn’t give me any real satisfaction. It just feels so empty you know