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09-25-2020, 10:26 PM
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Why is going out alone so depressing?
Even when I go out in a positive mindset.
I managed to get a girls number (no PUA) but even then I felt utterly alone.
During the week I don't mind being alone....but Friday and Saturday nights can be brutal.
Colorado brahs, tonight I went to LoHi neighborhood and hit up Avanti (food & beverage collective) and Linger.
How is everyone who's at these places in a big social group with successful friends and beautiful women on all sides?
I managed to get a girls number (no PUA) but even then I felt utterly alone.
During the week I don't mind being alone....but Friday and Saturday nights can be brutal.
Colorado brahs, tonight I went to LoHi neighborhood and hit up Avanti (food & beverage collective) and Linger.
How is everyone who's at these places in a big social group with successful friends and beautiful women on all sides?
09-25-2020, 10:27 PM
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09-25-2020, 10:27 PM
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Maybe because you don't have anyone to share the moment with.
09-25-2020, 10:27 PM
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09-25-2020, 10:32 PM
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Work on your game and lone wolf pull. serious.
Going out alone for a dude, to clubs or bars Friday and Saturday night has only one purpose-pull a bitch and smash.
OR
Work on getting into a social group or find a couple brahs and build one from scratch. That will take more time and you gotta choose road dawgs carefully.
Going out alone for a dude, to clubs or bars Friday and Saturday night has only one purpose-pull a bitch and smash.
OR
Work on getting into a social group or find a couple brahs and build one from scratch. That will take more time and you gotta choose road dawgs carefully.
09-25-2020, 10:37 PM
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People that say this I'm willing to bet some of them spend the same time at the bars/clubs as they would do when they're out with their buddies. So if they're out with your buddies at a bar for 3 hours, then when they go to the bar solo, they're staying for 3 hours.
If you're dolo, an hour max should be how long you staying there before leaving, no different than the gym with buddies. 3 heads in rotation of upper body, it's gonna take over a hour, but when you're solo? 60 minutes and gtfo outta there.
If you're dolo, an hour max should be how long you staying there before leaving, no different than the gym with buddies. 3 heads in rotation of upper body, it's gonna take over a hour, but when you're solo? 60 minutes and gtfo outta there.
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09-25-2020, 10:39 PM
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I don't think it is, sometimes I choose not to invite friends. Still hit on chicks, and usually make at least one new friend. Just get that out of your mind bro, don't be in that mindset.
09-25-2020, 10:40 PM
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we fell through the cracks bud. It's alright. I'd rather rot anyway and just listen to some chill music and read some random misc schizo's posts.
09-25-2020, 10:44 PM
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Originally Posted By johnnyboi123⏩
You didn't fall through the cracks, you're laying in them. You can get through it bro, don't let anxiety beat you, beat it. Go out and I bet you'll make a new friend. There's nothing wrong with going out by yourself. I've been there, I know how you feel brother.we fell through the cracks bud. It's alright. I'd rather rot anyway and just listen to some chill music and read some random misc schizo's posts.
09-25-2020, 11:31 PM
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09-26-2020, 12:45 AM
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09-26-2020, 12:48 AM
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hmm i'm not sure it is depressing. sounds like you make it depressing
sounds like you have a goal when you go out and then you're not completing it, which is why it's depressing you
so fuken complete it, *******
and if you don't know, identify your goals and then fuken complete them
sounds like you have a goal when you go out and then you're not completing it, which is why it's depressing you
so fuken complete it, *******
and if you don't know, identify your goals and then fuken complete them
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