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» Should you feel happy or sad for moving on and forgetting your ex/oneitis?

View Poll Results: Should you feel happy or sad to forget your oneitis?

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1 16%
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post 1618153851 10-01-2020, 05:17 PM
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Should you feel happy or sad for moving on and forgetting your ex/oneitis?

I feel so lost, she has lived in my head for such a long time, a constant thought. I could not function for such a long time after the breakup wherever i went i thought of her. I'd think of her laugh, her smile, i'd say quotes in my head about her.. i'd pretend to have conversations with her. I would remember the sex, literally could almost feel her body riding me

Now it's just evaporated... all of it. I know it's a good thing but i feel sad about it. I've been looking at her instagram lately and i don't really feel anything or even care anymore. I just wish i didn't beg for her back after she cheated on me (which validated her) i wish i at least made her feel guilty and called her out but i guess at the time i just blamed myself and i was in a bad state/ was not thinking right.


What do I do with myself now?

She is still the hottest girl i've been with but i dont' even fap to memories because i don't really remember her that well anymore. so i just fap to tik tok.
post 1618153931 10-01-2020, 05:18 PM
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in on nightly rendition
See user title srs
post 1618154451 10-01-2020, 05:25 PM
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post 1618155531 10-01-2020, 05:40 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
Plot twist: You are that girl.
Not true,

but i kinda miss being in love with her, remembering her, her laugh, her quotes, the sex, but at the sametime that brought sadness, fury and depression now it's all gone.
post 1618234891 10-02-2020, 01:23 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
I am being serious when I say this, you have been triggering me since 2018, right about when I left this sh*tty job that I had, with your posts about not fitting in, etc.

I actually would get infuriated by your Peterdinga account - in those 2 years my life has completely transformed, because I'd look at why you're triggering me and change my self.

Ovbs you're not the only person, but your posts usually trigger me because I was like that too trying to be something I am not.

This is true for you aswell with this girl

It's like how many prostitutes and randoms are you gonna bang before you realise that there is something else going on here?

Do you not realise how strange it is that you sleep with randoms and hookers?
I feel like this is a mentally ill person talking to a more mentally ill person.
post 1618235191 10-02-2020, 01:26 PM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking
I feel like this is a mentally ill person talking to a more mentally ill person.
You just described the entire misc.
BORN: 6/15/2006 DIED: 5/31/2021

I'll misc you, brahs!
post 1618236361 10-02-2020, 01:39 PM
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dont feel sad about your ex girlfriend, shes an ex for a reason. just remember all the sex you had with her and move on
Merica

<I.L.H.|C.O.E.>

RIP YGST
post 1618236751 10-02-2020, 01:42 PM
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I've no interest in the past. The past doesnt move forward, only I do.

“Death is as sure for that which is born, as birth is for that which is dead. Therefore grieve not for what is inevitable.”
― Bhagavad Gita
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