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post 1619364181 10-14-2020, 03:13 PM
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'There's someone out there for everyone' is the biggest lie known to man

Why does society constantly make this statement as if everyone will definitely meet the right partner when that's not the case at all?

The reality is not everyone will meet someone or ever settle down, for example I know two guys who I work with one's aged 62 and other is 55. They've never had a gf, never been married or had kids and one of them even admitted to me he's a virgin.

The thing is they're not necessarily 'ugly' for there age either. they just look like average middle aged men but are the type of people who no one takes seriously and have a certain 'vibe' that puts women 'off' if that makes sense.

Yet people act so bluepilled as to say everyone will eventually meet someone when that's not true at all.
post 1619364211 10-14-2020, 03:13 PM
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post 1619364361 10-14-2020, 03:14 PM
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is this projection that you are afraid you won't get married?

you guys talk about weddings and marriage more than women srs
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post 1619364411 10-14-2020, 03:15 PM
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post 1619364531 10-14-2020, 03:17 PM
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LOL man you're focusing on the wrong stuff. Stop imagining the worst scenario and GET OUT THERE CHIEF.

Thank me later. be kind.
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post 1619364721 10-14-2020, 03:19 PM
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Maybe in the 70s

Now with apps and people constantly shown images of models/chads on social media, the average man won’t have many options

I compare it to being able to order food online from restaurants now. People can “experience” half the choosing process of ordering food online so there’s less incentive/novelty to actually make an effort for the real thing. People don’t follow through these days, dating especially
post 1619364741 10-14-2020, 03:20 PM
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The "someone out there for everyone" statement can be true because it does not imply that you will meet them.

But assuming you ever run across the person, not everyone cares to be in a relationship either. Always anomalies.
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post 1619364771 10-14-2020, 03:20 PM
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So what have they done to find their one? Probably very little.


Just like if you're creating a company and getting a product out there in the market, you need to FIND your customers, and get out there and look.

A lot of men live very 'docile' lives with a very small social network and no exposure. You have to get out there there cuz
post 1619364941 10-14-2020, 03:21 PM
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There's someone for everyone if you take what you can get.
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post 1619365001 10-14-2020, 03:22 PM
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I bet women say this most, the subtext being that someone is most definitely not them

Modern people in the West are totally detached from reality, historically only a small percentage of men ever reproduced
post 1619365281 10-14-2020, 03:25 PM
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Ok, so there is someone for everyone “if”, they could change a few things about themselves, “if” they are even srsly looking to get into a relationship instead of hit it and quit it. (Not saying your buddies do that btw) You’re right tho, can’t exactly cover all the specifics with that statement.
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post 1619365451 10-14-2020, 03:27 PM
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There's someone for everyone

Everyone

One meaning human

Manlet being subhuman

Meaning this statement does not apply to manlets

That's the breaks pal
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post 1619365611 10-14-2020, 03:28 PM
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That is depressing! Imagine dying a virgin yikes
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post 1619365631 10-14-2020, 03:29 PM
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No girl is just gonna show up at your job and throw the poos at you, or walk up in your house, turn your video games off and do the same thing. Everything takes work. If you don't work, you don't eat. People need to quit being whiney ass entitled bitches and get out there and make it happen.
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post 1619367011 10-14-2020, 03:43 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
There's someone for everyone if you take what you can get.
To some extent this is true, almost anyone can get a gf or bf if they have absolutely no standards and are willing to take anything.


Not everyone will end up someone they're happy/content with though.
post 1619367351 10-14-2020, 03:46 PM
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The problem is you're focusing on the things in life that don't really matter. When I was a kid I had hopes and dreams. We all did. But over time, the daily grind gets in the way and you miss the things that really matter, even though they are right in front of you, staring you in the face. I think the next time you should ask yourself "Am I on the right track here?". I don't mean to be rude but people like you I really pity. So maybe you could use the few brain cells you have and take advantage of the knowledge I have given you now. Good luck.
post 1619367511 10-14-2020, 03:49 PM
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the statement is automatically false in a world of scarcity.
post 1619368471 10-14-2020, 03:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet
To some extent this true, almost anyone can get gf or bf if they have absolutely no standards and are willing to take anything.


Not everyone will end up someone they're happy/content with though.
That's the real trick
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post 1619396751 10-14-2020, 09:51 PM
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To some extent that's true.
I've seen some disgusting/ugly/fat/trash looking people out there, both male and female and see them with a counter part that reflects that look as well.

So might be a matter of self realization and acknowledgement the level of standards you can attract and rolling with it.

But if I was fugly as well, I think I would probably be alone cause I would not be attracted to someone that was fugly like me.
post 1619397021 10-14-2020, 09:55 PM
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Originally Posted By davik
the statement is automatically false in a world of scarcity.
the scarcity being the scarcity of Chads and Stacies that people actually wanna fuk.

if you aint one then tour's over
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post 1619397091 10-14-2020, 09:56 PM
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Originally Posted By AkshullyizDaren
the scarcity being the scarcity of Chads and Stacies that people actually wanna fuk.

if you aint one then tour's over
yeah either way you want to see it
post 1619397161 10-14-2020, 09:57 PM
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post 1619397261 10-14-2020, 09:58 PM
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Please keep telling that to the glut of unattractive vagina owners who only have Dogs&Dildos to satisfy their lives outside of daily walks and meals with their aging mothers.

Also, if you are ugly, just watch pron and DO NOT have sex. Sex is for beautiful people and ugly on ugly sex is absolutely piss and sinful.

Lol
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post 1619397421 10-14-2020, 10:00 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
There's someone for everyone if you take what you can get.
This.

Looks stop mattering to me as I age. Not something you can openly say on their misc. Feel like I'm coming out of the closet tbh but I'd marry fatty with a good heart.
post 1619397681 10-14-2020, 10:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet
Why does society constantly make this statement as if everyone will definitely meet the right partner when that's not the case at all?

The reality is not everyone will meet someone or ever settle down, for example I know two guys who I work with one's aged 62 and other is 55. They've never had a gf, never been married or had kids and one of them even admitted to me he's a virgin.

The thing is they're not necessarily 'ugly' for there age either. they just look like average middle aged men but are the type of people who no one takes seriously and have a certain 'vibe' that puts women 'off' if that makes sense.

Yet people act so bluepilled as to say everyone will eventually meet someone when that's not true at all.
Would you describe these guys as meek and harmless?
post 1619398051 10-14-2020, 10:08 PM
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