so we both got into the apartment with 2 people that already stayed. we werent really in the apartment for the first few weeks cuz of summer vacation and now we got back so so far its like 48 hours im with her in the same house.
she legit drop everything on us (like when the neighbor makes noise [which she claim]), she change stuff positions (like my food, my teethbrush, and mutual stuff like the microwave to put her stupid plants there), she brings her 2 super annoying friend to the apartment, so far from ~9am to like ~19pm 2 days in a row.

but today she really got on my nerve
one time when we met to organize the apartment (like a month ago) we also agreed on draws for everyone and fridge shares (and her cat chitter place near the toilet). so each of us got a shelf in the fridge but at the time it wasnt placed (we took all the shelfs out to clean it) anyway we put it back finished cleaning and everyone went to their family for few weeks.
i came to the apartment last week and already got some food and chit and she came 2 days ago
and today i suddenly noticed she changed my shelf positon? like wtf. she took it more levels up (hers below me).
like wtf, i had 2cm more than her before (i checked now), and now she got 7cm more on me? this fridge is already too small for me.
btw she picked what shelf she want and i wasnt the one that placed the shelfs

not sure if i should approach her about this. i dont wanna sound petty and to already starts fighting, i guess she will get defensive pretty fast.
idc about just changing shelfs and her having 2cm more than me, but not sure if its worth discussing and i dont wanna get into this chit really already



the fridge thing is the only thing i can really say that got me mad about, cuz just the idea of her picking up my shelf instead of talking to me is jimmies rustler af
am i correct here or am i overreacting?

Dear diary

i told you to spend the extra money and get your own place.

lol i can barely afford this room man. things got tough

This sounds like a soulless zombie meat puppet human that acts as a portal for evil hyperdimensional entities to act through her to cause negative emotions in people so they can feed on the energy. She is an energy vampire. They do small things intentionally to create negative emotions in you and if you say anything or defend yourself she will use that as a way to make you feel guilty and will gaslight you claiming you are an ass and will act like a victim. They intentionally do small things like this in order to have plausible deniability that they ever even did anything wrong. If you try to explain it to other people they will act like you are crazy and side with the energy vampire. Things I notice these people do are things like in the grocery store they will position themselves and their cart in a way to block the entire aisle and if you say excuse me to them they pretend they can not hear you. They do things like get extremely close to you behind you while in line. When you are driving and they can tell you need to change lanes they will accelerate or slow down in order to purposely block your path. They will walk side by side and when walking toward you give you no room to get around and they will walk right into you if you dont move out of their way. At work they will intentionally sabotage things and then blame you. Once when I worked at a restaurant I caught one red handed. He said "woops" while putting a calzone in the oven before he even dropped the calzone onto the floor. I watched the whole thing happen. These people are evil and the best thing to do is to avoid them and not allow them to create negative emotions in you.

let her cat out

How much are you paying now

Imagine renting

tbh her cat is the best thing about her
its just his chitter that is annoying
450$

Didn't fkn read lol.

Ive had tons of roommates. Some ive meshed with, with some i didnt. The way i solved it everytime was by not giving a fukc and doing me regardless of whatever any1 says. Straight up, stop being a ****.

Dude, what kind of advice do u want from the misc? Just go and bang her and post her pics here. Come on, you know the traditions.

Didn't read but lol at having roommates.

wow.

only thing that works is social accountability. You need leverage before confronting, and you can only do so once because she will react all in.

I'd probably go for the ignore strategy and move on when you can. Need to keep these people out. No other answer.