Is it worth the sacrifice? I’ve met a few girls i really like in this situation. I’m hoping some of my miscer brahs have had similar experiences and can shed some light/wisdom on this topic.

Its never worth any sacrifice.

A woman with 3 kids?

You are LITERALLY, AT BEST, HER 4TH PRIORITY. Depending on her childrens' father relationship. Might fall 5th in line

Whereas she will always expect you to put HER and her children first. But you'll never be given that reciprocated back.



Dont bother. Srs

Hell no

Short answer: No.

Long answer: Hell no!

She won't ever really love you back. Her ability to pair bond like that is long gone with all the assorted penii she received when younger.

Yeah did it for 4 years

I've turned down some real true beauties because they had kids... so nope.

Lol, absolutely not. Do not become her beta provider, brah.

you're on the misc, 99% of us would

Most of the women i have dated had terrible acting kids, so NO.

No.

Have a friend that did just that. They always seem really happy and he's great with the kids. That being said, if I was single I wouldn't do it.

I wouldn't even consider it. Imagine the cuckory

Looks like this is a hard no. I met solid 9 that is super cool. She got 3 kids though. Don’t think i could do it.

She's made 3 bad decisions, might as well make it a fourth amirite?

Depends on a couple of factors for me.

How old are the kids? If they are older and basically settled and you're not expected to be a primary parent then it's more feasible. Basically you're Mom's boyfriend, not a stepdad unless you want to be.

How is her relationship with the kids father? If there is more than one, run the hell away. If it is amicable and there isn't any drama then it's better.

Can you handle her parenting style and would you agree on it if they were your kids? If not, it's going to lead to problems if it becomes a long term thing.

Basically the answer is no because having all these things in place is almost impossible. Single moms are great friends with benefits - keep it at that and don't get involved with the kids at all.

Depends. Are they all daughters? How close to 18 are they?

I'd rather platonically date a guy. Seriously.

Miscers are mongoloid with a huge cognitive dissonance which is why they are all so angry. Lmao @ listening to misc on life choices (srs). You live your own life, and NO ONE gives a flying fuk about you or your life besides the handful of immediate people you spend most of your time with (if you have anyone).


Fact: everybody ages, and all female wants to chit out some kids before their time runs out. You can either dedicate two decades into being a father, or not.

Fact2: females ultimately want to stick to one man who also chooses to stick with her, and not sleep casually as males often want. You can either be a part of the cock carousel some of the young females have until they find someone, or be in a mutual relationship without that noise.


I know an early 30s (previous slayer) with around $5 mill net worth who pretty much wifed up a single mom. Doesn't look like he ever wants (or maybe can?) be a father.

Pros: He gets to smash regularly without spending all his time with her, as they live separately and she takes care of the kids most of the time. The kids are cool but he doesn't have any obligation to them or anyone. He lives his day to day on his own terms, but does not sleep around as they are exclusive



Bottom line is... pick your poison lol

If you have kids, sure. If not, no.

Run quick not worth it learned the hard way after almost 3 years