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» Is bad sex a deal breaker?

View Poll Results: Stop dating over bad sex?

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post 1624777441 12-07-2020, 01:04 PM
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Is bad sex a deal breaker?

If you date a girl, get along really well, find her attractive, etc. but she's terrible in bed, would you stop dating her?
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post 1624777581 12-07-2020, 01:05 PM
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Depends. Current girl I'm dating at first wasn't really good at sec, but I communicated to her what I like and she has gotten way better. I think just talk it out and if they don't change then leave them. Sex is a pretty important thing in a relationship IMO.
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post 1624777701 12-07-2020, 01:06 PM
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post 1624777911 12-07-2020, 01:09 PM
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Originally Posted By BigElephant
Nah. As long as she's hot I just need her to lie there while I pump away.
This. I get it how you want a girl that's a wild animal. But most the time I'm just getting her in positions I like and pounding out. As long as she's clean and not smells
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post 1624777991 12-07-2020, 01:10 PM
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Laying there and taking it isn't going to cut it for the seasoned guy.
I'd put her to the curb if she isn't a very sexual person.
If she was willing to improve and try I'd give her a chance to do so.

And be non-exclusive until she's good.
If my needs can't be met, I'll get them met elsewhere. Why would I sign up to be unhappy?
post 1624778071 12-07-2020, 01:11 PM
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Keep dating. Honestly, if she's bad in bed you need to tell her what you want and take charge and chit.

Usually turbo sloots and bipolar ones are good at sex with no direction, but the rest typically need some direction.

If she ain't down with all that then she isn't attracted to you boyo, and it's time to move on.
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post 1624778161 12-07-2020, 01:12 PM
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Got kicked to the curb many times in my early days. Late 20s I don't think so because by that point we've all had a good lay.
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post 1624778241 12-07-2020, 01:12 PM
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Depends on what you mean bad sex. If she’s not willing to try anything new (i dont even mean kinky chit) and doesn’t do certain things I ask (shave/keep very trimmed vag) then it’d be a deal breaker

If she’s just boring but willing to try new things and at least listens to some chit I ask of her then it wouldn’t be (I’ve had experience with this but not ^^^)
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post 1624778371 12-07-2020, 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted By BigElephant
Nah. As long as she's hot I just need her to lie there while I pump away.
Bruh, just laying there is better than actively being bad lol. I'm talking like completely out of rhythm, etc.
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post 1624778511 12-07-2020, 01:14 PM
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Originally Posted By BigElephant
Nah. As long as she's hot I just need her to lie there while I pump away.
What's hot about that?
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post 1624778591 12-07-2020, 01:15 PM
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As long as the drive is there, no. She can always get better, but she can't spark a sex drive that never existed in the first place.
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post 1624778601 12-07-2020, 01:15 PM
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post 1624778831 12-07-2020, 01:19 PM
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Of course. Move on.
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post 1624778861 12-07-2020, 01:20 PM
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post 1624782851 12-07-2020, 02:02 PM
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Once upon a time I would of agreed with some that have already said

"as long as shes hot and I get mine it doesnt matter"

But then you get the hot one that does all that nasty $hit you've been thinking about and you'll realize there's no going back to sloots who just lay there with their legs open.
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post 1624783421 12-07-2020, 02:09 PM
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Originally Posted By ShakeBrah
If you date a girl, get along really well, find her attractive, etc. but she's terrible in bed, would you stop dating her?
Meh. If she really likes you she'll do her best to open up and do more of what you like. As long as you communicate it properly.



Im a filthy animal, so I prefer my women already experienced so i dont need to talk them into letting me pee on them.


So i picked break up
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post 1624784391 12-07-2020, 02:20 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
I've come to learn that it was nothing to do with technique, size, etc, but the connection between two lovers.
This srs. You will figure out each others' vibe eventually and then the sex becomes good. Unless you have some warped porno degen fetishes, then you'll prob need a whore.
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post 1624784591 12-07-2020, 02:21 PM
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See if you can improve things. You do not need to stick with the first impression.
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