Long story short, I'm 23, and on a dry spell for close to 4 years(I became an alcoholic, got depressed, etc). In the past months I've been making some great changes, I drink way less, I started eating/working out again, however I have some crippling social anxiety with women, since I haven't sexually/romantically talked with one in years, fk, sometimes I think I'm autistic(I was fine before). I'm reading a lot on social anxiety, but it seems like I need real action to improve, not just words on a page.

Honestly, I think hiring an escort would help a lot, as a confidence boost(tbh I feel like a virgin again). I just cant fking talk with chicks. I'm alright with chit chat, but when it comes to flirting/the next level, I freeze, blush, start sweating, and feel small, powerless, like a little kid.

But even that makes me anxious. How tf you just call a stranger, meet and fuk?

Yes

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No, save some money and fly to Southeast Asia, South America, Africa or Eastern Europe and experience something life changing. Banging an escort in North America or Europe is an empty experience.

No, go to a hooker, never tell one your address, they are often associated with hard criminals.

I live in Eastern Europe already.

lol that this is even a debate for you then.

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Nice. Which country? I hope not Poland.

do it, donno where you from EE brah but if you think it's going to help you try it. at worse you'll bang

Romania. What's wrong with the polaks tho?

Hire a therapist.

Did you read the OP brah?

It's a beneficial "empty experience" for his situation

He wants to ****, just let him bang bro

Slam some escorts OP, get your confidence back, knock that autism out the park, see yourself as better than these sloots and then you can go to Africa or whatever

Nothing wrong with them, but it is not easy to find a good experience. Lots of scammers and too expensive.

From my experience, Romania is also not easy (who would have thought). In Bucharest I know at least one good place. But maybe you have more information. In any case, don't hesitate and just do it. You had this idea and now follow it through. Backing down now will further detoriate your confidence.

Don't like asian/africa chicks anyway. It's not like I'm looking for a full holiday filled with escorts, I just wanna go once for a hard reset/confidence boost.I know a place in my city, I used to deliver food there )). But they only offer massage. Did you ever go? How is it? It just seems so out of the ordinary, going to an escort. Or maybe I'm just too shy.

Many many times my friend. The first time is of course thrilling. In Bucharest for example I went to a few massage places. Very nice experience. Just call and make an appointment. Everyone is friendly and there is absolutely no reason to be ashamed.

You could also tryhttps://www.publi24.ro/anunturi/matrimoniale/. If you know the language, just write a message 2-3 days before you want to meet and just meet.