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post 1625616943 12-15-2020, 11:55 AM
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Why do females love using these words to describe men? (specifically their ex's)

I swear every woman loves throwing around the words narcissistic and sociopath to describe men they've previously dated and had failed relationships with. Anyone else notice this? I feel as if its some kind of deep-seated psychological rationalization to make sense of being cheated on, lied to, etc.

with how often I hear this from women I'd assume that 90% of men walking around are Pat Bateman

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Any female miscers guilty of doing this?
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post 1625617083 12-15-2020, 11:57 AM
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ITT op was called a narcissist by his exes
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"angry"
"controlling"


They say that chit and I know they were fukking around lmao.
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they usually claim they were abused
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Sort of like bitching about your borderline ex girlfriends. It's always easier to blame a personality disorder rather than look at your own dysfunction. Even if it's true, WTF is wrong with you that you decided to date someone with a personality disorder?
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This. They think labeling their ex absolves them of any blame in the relationship.
It is the current year.
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Because they don't know what those words mean.

Or because he was actually a narcissist or a sociopath. However it would be hard to believe a sociopath would be in a committed relationship, and even more so that they wouldn't end the relationship through murder. Because that's what sociopaths do.
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It allows them to dismiss their own shortcomings
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A lot of them probably are. Women want a guy that treats them like sh*t
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emotionally abusive/controlling/manipulative = any man who dare talk back to Massa and not let her walk all over him

in case you didn't notice, it's current year. women are supposed to wear the pants now.
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Originally Posted By rectifryer⏩
"angry"
"controlling"


They say that chit and I know they were fukking around lmao.
tell tale sign that she is a sloot that will cause problems. my buddies gf had a friend who kept saying her bf is insecure and controlling...she's one of the biggest sloots I know lol
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Sorry, OP. I can't help myself but drive them insane. Don't have any recent ones of being called a narcissist though

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Originally Posted By Stray800⏩
ITT op was called a narcissist by his exes
can confirm but i dont even think its accurate!
Originally Posted By rectifryer⏩
"angry"
"controlling"


They say that chit and I know they were fukking around lmao.
its almost as if its some popular insult to fall back on lol
Originally Posted By Caeculus⏩
they usually claim they were abused
also can confirm
Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
Sort of like bitching about your borderline ex girlfriends. It's always easier to blame a personality disorder rather than look at your own dysfunction. Even if it's true, WTF is wrong with you that you decided to date someone with a personality disorder?
hell at this point i'd take a broad with a personality disorder
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Originally Posted By DrugsToGetBig⏩
hell at this point i'd take a broad with a personality disorder
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Same reason every man refers to his ex as "psycho" or "crazy."
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Lmao. Every girls ex "gas lit" her and was "abusive"
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Originally Posted By Howiester⏩
This. They think labeling their ex absolves them of any blame in the relationship.
This, also a lot of the time it is projection
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Originally Posted By DrugsToGetBig⏩
I swear every woman loves throwing around the words narcissistic and sociopath to describe men they've previously dated and had failed relationships with. Anyone else notice this? I feel as if its some kind of deep-seated psychological rationalization to make sense of being cheated on, lied to, etc.

with how often I hear this from women I'd assume that 90% of men walking around are Pat Bateman

Any misc brahs have any funny stories that are relatable?

Any female miscers guilty of doing this?
They have mixed the words up with selfish, *******, arrogant and aggressive.
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I've... actually never bad mouthed my exes using any of those words. I've always dated decently good dudes personality wise. People just grow a part and want different things.

I have used words like...

- lazy / useless / dirty
- Not handy
- Unmotivated
- complacent

To describe some scenarios lmao.
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
Sort of like bitching about your borderline ex girlfriends. It's always easier to blame a personality disorder rather than look at your own dysfunction. Even if it's true, WTF is wrong with you that you decided to date someone with a personality disorder?
Cuz i was desperate and horny and she put out. Enough with the judgement sheesh
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Originally Posted By Howiester⏩
This. They think labeling their ex absolves them of any blame in the relationship.
yup, as if their google diagnosis really holds any merit
Originally Posted By Drew23⏩
Because they don't know what those words mean.

Or because he was actually a narcissist or a sociopath. However it would be hard to believe a sociopath would be in a committed relationship, and even more so that they wouldn't end the relationship through murder. Because that's what sociopaths do.
The magnitude of the words are becoming diluted and less impactful with each woman running around labeling every guy that she doesn't like with them
Originally Posted By JustMoved24⏩
It allows them to dismiss their own shortcomings
lol perpetual victims!
Originally Posted By SmashinYoungVag⏩
A lot of them probably are. Women want a guy that treats them like sh*t
just like daddy dearest used to do
Originally Posted By SuperHercules⏩
99% of people are narcissists, it's just who we are


They like to throw around "sociopath" because they think it sounds smart. Herp derp he called me out for being a useless whore, what a sociopath
lold. that's exactly the context i'm talking about
Originally Posted By BrianDaMan⏩
emotionally abusive/controlling/manipulative = any man who dare talk back to Massa and not let her walk all over him

in case you didn't notice, it's current year. women are supposed to wear the pants now.
some of the most heated times between me and women were because i simply wasn't afraid to call them out on their bs or because I didn't bend on an opposing opinion on something
Originally Posted By ramimotemem⏩
Sorry, OP. I can't help myself but drive them insane. Don't have any recent ones of being called a narcissist though

haha yes the novels of text detailing how much of a piece of **** you are. god i dont miss those at all
Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
Do you want to end up dead in a snowbank?

Because that's how you end up dead in a snowbank!
on second thought it's probably a terrible idea..isnt it
Originally Posted By HayZues
Same reason every man refers to his ex as "psycho" or "crazy."
in our defense..lots of these girls are bat **** crazy
Originally Posted By CopeOnTheRope⏩
Lmao. Every girls ex "gas lit" her and was "abusive"
gas lighting is another trendy one "Megan, can you believe how bad he was gas lighting me!?"
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to be fair to my ex's


i am a sociopath
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Women say anything to validate their centre of the universe image where they never do wrong.

Most of these make more sense to describe in a dynamic, as most people do not know enough to understand these relationships in abstract.
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Originally Posted By littlemissy⏩
I've... actually never bad mouthed my exes using any of those words. I've always dated decently good dudes personality wise. People just grow a part and want different things.

I have used words like...

- lazy / useless / dirty
- Not handy
- Unmotivated
- complacent

To describe some scenarios lmao.
these words I can get behind because they more than likely were honest and fair in describing your ex's
Originally Posted By aaron501⏩
to be fair to my ex's


i am a sociopath
what makes you know that you are one?
Originally Posted By mesobuild⏩
Women say anything to validate their centre of the universe image where they never do wrong.

Most of these make more sense to describe in a dynamic, as most people do not know enough to understand these relationships in abstract.
yes i'm really starting to see it as an internal coping mechanism
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This basically describes the situation when they do

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[QUOTE=devin45k post_id=1625631283]This basically describes the situation when they do

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[QUOTE=JaymzJ post_id=1625631863]My favourite part is when they apologize for it. If they do, that’s how you know they’re actually pretty decent women. They’re emotional, nobody’s perfect.[/QUOTE]at least you're getting an apology bro! nobody is perfect but being in control of your emotions is a sign of maturity, imo
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