When looking for a girlfriend is being kinky one of the things thats underrated most? Most people always say nice butt, body, face etc.. of course if ur looking for a serious gf then intelligence, humour, cooking skills etc... but rarely does anyone ever mention adventerous and kinky.

Having a girl thats down for pretty much anything is the best, you can live all ur wildest fantasies and do all the things u enjoy, anal all of it. As opposed to a girl thats very reserved and doesn't do like half the things that are almost normal nowadays.

Then next thing you know, she suggests how hot it would be if she had three dinks at once, one for each hole.

Depends on what you mean by "kinky". If you mean she wants to do all sorts of the most vile urban dictionary and gross pron concepts, then no, I don't need or want her to be anywhere near that wild. But if you mean she won't even give decent bj's once in awhile, does the dead starfish act/just lays there all the time, never wants to stray from a few basic positions, and things like that - then yeah, that would be an issue.

If you've ever been in a relationship with a legit prude, you'll know that it get boring and becomes hell pretty fast. If I'm gonna commit to one female, I'm not putting up with such a boring sex life that I might as well be single and fapping. It's not worth it.

Nope, I meant she would obviously be submissive to her alpha male, but be down for anything he would want to do (apart from extreme stuff).

This. If she says "I wanna try something new", and is specific about it, rest assured she's done it 4,000 times before you.

it's often a measure of how much she's into you rather than an inherent trait (doesn't apply to complete sloots)

Kinky is a big red flag if you're a relationshipcel. Imagine her Slootfax™.

If you're just trying to smash, obviously it's a plus. Full nelson anal here you come.

true alpha words

if a girl is into you she will let you do anything in the sack including bagpiping

This everything in context. There is a difference from being a cum dumpster and wanting to please you. There is a genetic component to this as well. Some girls are programmed to get enjoyment from pleasing others. The ones that can actually get off from seeing you enjoy their BJ. You're lucky as hell if you find one.

Wondering what's considered kinky. Careful though OP. Some women will get you to stay around in a bad relationship by draining your balls in a fun way.

One girl once told me she liked "dirty sex". For some reason, I never asked her what that meant. I hit it from the back and that was it. Those were my younger years where I was afraid to ask. I still wonder to this day what she would have been down to do.

anal was for sure on the cards

This reminded me of a kinky scenario I didn't take advantage of. Story time.
Dated a woman for several months. She'd blow me after anal. We phucked every time we saw each other, she was always ready. I could pound her for an hour, she was ready for more. She drunk dialed me a few times after we broke up. I went traveling overseas for a few months right when my lease was ending and hadn't found a new place, so I had decided to live with some friends who weren't going to charge me much for living in their house. Anyway, she invited me over after I was back in the US for less than a week. We drank some wine and nutted a few times.

Her stepsister had been living in the finished attic of her very nice home, but had moved out. So she makes me an offer: "I know you just got back and don't have a job right now. You can live here and stay in ______'s old room upstairs for free for as long as you like. I just want you to phuck me sometimes. I don't care if you have sex with other women here. In fact I think it would be really hot if I hear you phucking them, then right after they leave or you convince them to leave we have sex right away afterward." A secret pact, unknown to women I was bringing over. She knew I had an occasional FWB nearby that I could bring over and that it had been a banner year for me with other women. All the better to her. I'd had multiple 3somes years before, but this idea felt like a step above those. Sometimes I wish I'd taken her up on that offer, but I had a feeling it wouldn't end well.