Or will u do it differently?
What will u change and y?
for me it will b different cuz my parents were control freaks and it made me resent them and i never got along with my siblings...there was no actual relationship as a consequence of poor parenting

For the most part yeah. A few things I'll change, but I was raised well and have been making my own decisions since around 16. I've succeeded in life so far but failed at some things and learned, because I was allowed to fail growing up. I got cut from a team, lost a state championship game, got fired from a job, and at no point did my parents give me a participation trophy. And I enjoyed the wins and failures in their own light.

I've actually figured out what I want from life and have a vision of what I want in 30 years that I'm on track to earn it. If my kid figures that out by my age he'll be a happy man I figure.

That's my goal for raising my kid really, that he figures out what makes him happy and does it. And most importantly doesn't measure himself by other people's standards.

Pendant on the Woman I was with, yeh I would be way less strict than what I was brought up (and that was'nt Al strict at all by a Country mile) but yeh I would be firm but fair!

Yea i feel its hard to find a balance between being too strict or too lenient