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post 1626808743 12-28-2020, 09:42 AM
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How to last longer in bed with no condom?

I started fuking chicks without a condom recently and have been cumming in like 2 mins flat. Best 2 mins of their lives. Anyways I want to last longer. I’ve been jacking off only using lube for the past 2 years (highly recommend doing, get cvs brand or the strawberry flavored kind they sell there thats not their brand). Jacking off with only using lube resensitized my dick which was good for condoms but bad ever since I stopped using them.


Any advice? Thinking of getting lidocaine or those lidocaine wipes and trying them.
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Just fap a few hours before you meet them or fuk twice.
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post 1626809763 12-28-2020, 09:52 AM
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And still unable to control animal urges.

Imagine what kind of hell the poor girl banging the OP is going through in her life.

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post 1626810063 12-28-2020, 09:55 AM
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Serious Answer:

Don't flex your ass (think kegel flexing) that can trigger a point of no return
Control your breathing and honestly, if you actively think about your breathing while you're going to town it can help
Limit visual stimulus example - in missionary don't watch them titties bounce look at a lamp or something

Void doggy/lazy doggy those are the most common nut fast positions. If I'm having trouble getting off and the wife is already finished I'll switch to lazy doggy and it's game over man.
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post 1626810073 12-28-2020, 09:55 AM
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use viagra srs

edit: reasoning- just empty a lot of nuts into her while on a pharmaceutical erect state

(if this wasn't already blatantly obvious lol)
post 1626810133 12-28-2020, 09:56 AM
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slow down and adjust your stroke patterns. become one with your dik and it will speak to you, it will tell you when cooming is near, then you slow it down.
post 1626810403 12-28-2020, 09:59 AM
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Bust in 30 seconds, wait 5 minutes and then go for 20 in round two
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post 1626810853 12-28-2020, 10:03 AM
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Doggy and start thinking about random ****.


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Take a filet knife and slice a piece of your foreskin off roughly 2 hours before sex. It will be painful and bleed, so apply pressure until this stops. Then when you’re ready to smash, the pain of the open wound scraping against the inside of her sugar walls will prevent you from cumming.
post 1626811173 12-28-2020, 10:06 AM
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Just remember the girl you’re with has probably clogged the toilet many times with huge keister beasts
post 1626812373 12-28-2020, 10:21 AM
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I keep meaning to practice holding back but always say fuk it and coom anyways
if i can stop and go at my own pace, i can edge forever
but girls are always wanted me to go 100% speed from the start it seems
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post 1626812443 12-28-2020, 10:22 AM
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Originally Posted By ralphlaurenbrah
I started fuking chicks without a condom recently and have been cumming in like 2 mins flat. Best 2 mins of their lives. Anyways I want to last longer. I’ve been jacking off only using lube for the past 2 years (highly recommend doing, get cvs brand or the strawberry flavored kind they sell there thats not their brand). Jacking off with only using lube resensitized my dick which was good for condoms but bad ever since I stopped using them.


Any advice? Thinking of getting lidocaine or those lidocaine wipes and trying them.
The strawberry lube part of the story was not delightful in detail, however, I have ideas!

You can strengthen the muscles that hold everything back by stopping and holding your flow of urine while peeing. So, pee, stop, pee stop, etc over a period of time and that will help build the muscles in there.

Also, some people have an orgasm fasting in certain positions, so start out with ones that have less intense feeling. I can go forever in missionary but can't in doggie, for instance.

Also, and this is hard to describe, but send your mind elsewhere and don't think about having an orgasm. When I'm lifting weights, I am listen to music, thinking about stuff, and also lifting. I am not thinking about how hard the lift is, etc, I am just doing it. So, I can lift longer and heavier when I am not worrying about lifting.

If you are not thinking about sex you will feel the feelings but it will not be as intense.

In a related idea, focus on enjoying it. For instance, I really like Shake Shack burgers and so I have to slow my eating pace. If I don't, then I will eat the thing so fast I will barely taste it. So, with sex slowing down and feeling things is very helpful. You can't go slow, take a break, and so forth. You don't have to go crazy and just finish.
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post 1626812903 12-28-2020, 10:26 AM
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you hold in your cum like you would hold in your piss
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Originally Posted By dabbmw2002
Three fingers of 100 proof whiskey.
this

I go for a long time when I'm drunk. The woman I'm dating has already told her friends I gave her 3 orgasms before I finished one time. They want me to give their husbands pointers. I was pretty drunk that night tho.
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking
this

I go for a long time when I'm drunk. The woman I'm dating has already told her friends I gave her 3 orgasms before I finished one time.They want me to give their husbands pointers.I was pretty drunk that night tho.
ooof pillow talk cucked their husbands.

So now you pretty much know when they're getting railed by their pathetic husbands they're thinking about you. LMFAO
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post 1626814093 12-28-2020, 10:40 AM
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You basically have to practice edging while you're balls deep. And often.
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Originally Posted By Nicklol
I keep meaning to practice holding back but always say fuk it and coom anyways
if i can stop and go at my own pace, i can edge forever
but girls are always wanted me to go 100% speed from the start it seems
I thought most women don’t get off to penetration supposedly? Maybe it has more to do with the mental aspect of being f’ed hard or something idk weird
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I struggled with this until I smashed a chick while South Park was on TV (I was listening and loling during) and it was an eye opening experience.


It’s all mental man, think about something other than how hot she is. I now use all my mental energy on maintaining a rhythm. I pretty much play dance dance revolution in my head and picture that while I’m smashin (srs).


Usually it would be the moment the check begs me not to stop cause I’m hittin that spot, that I would lose my mental focus and blow
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Originally Posted By Nicklol
I keep meaning to practice holding back but always say fuk it and coom anyways
if i can stop and go at my own pace, i can edge forever
but girls are always wanted me to go 100% speed from the start it seems
Lold something ain’t right bro. I’m not saying you’re lying but I wonder if they are just trying to get it over with
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Honestly its mental, go at your own pace until you're out of the mental phase of over excitement. Once that is out of your head, you'll be surprised how easy it is to last as long as you want.
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
I thought most women don’t get off to penetration supposedly? Maybe it has more to do with the mental aspect of being f’ed hard or something idk weird
It's a fact emotion plays a huge part in sexual satisfaction for a woman. If getting ****ed like an animal by a big dick fuels their domination fantasy it will be extra arousing.
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As others have said, it is all mental. There are an endless amount of tricks you can play on yourself that will help as long as you are disciplined about it. I literally play the Menards commercial in my head while picturing walking through the area with the ceiling fans and boring electronic parts. If you can distract yourself and keep a hard dick, your good.
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Originally Posted By Crash49
Honestly its mental, go at your own pace until you're out of the mental phase of over excitement. Once that is out of your head, you'll be surprised how easy it is to last as long as you want.
Man women really do have it easy. Guess it's kind of like getting a BJ where you don't have to worry about anything except relaxing.
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ITT : dont look at the woman or think about it. Aka why bother even having sex if youre gonna not going to enjoy the whole experience

Just fuking lol

Either nut in 2 minutes and go again in a few or hold/edge and reposition constantly
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
I thought most women don’t get off to penetration supposedly? Maybe it has more to do with the mental aspect of being f’ed hard or something idk weird
In my experience, they do actually


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had this same problem back when first started going raw with LTR girlfriend and main way I got over it was to just relax and stop worrying about and realize I could bust quick the first time but then just go for round 2 a few minutes later and keep going much longer and be satisfying, in my case I started just staying in after I first busted and went limp and just keep smashing/grinding til I got stiff again and go at it. if your flaccid is long enough to stay in like that try it, if not then u can just pull out and get her to suck it or use her hands or w/e til u get hard again and then go in for round 2. after I did this awhile it got to where I don’t even have to anymore and can just usually keep going long as I want in round 1 and control when I bust

before I tried the round 2 trick I tried that desensitizing spray stuff few times and it kinda worked but kinda defeats the purpose nomsayin, the round 2 strategy worked much better for me
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TIPS:

REMEMBER TO BREATHE. If you ever boxed, it’s the same thing. You forget to breathe properly and deeply into your stomach, if you’re not concious about it. Focusing on breathing will also get your mind off sexual thoughts (until breathing properly during the entire thing becomes second nature).

GET HER ON TOP. Cowgirl is imo the position where it’s easiest to last the longest, no matter how good the girl is, because you’re able to focus on breathing, relaxing and in general about other things than sex, since she does almost all the work.

TAKE A TIMELY BREAK. Take a small break where you go very slowly while kissing her, feeling her up etc. It’s very important that you do this at a point where you are not close to orgasm. You should take the break when it feels almost unnecessary.

MASTURBATE. Masturbate and practice until the point of no return, then try to calm yourself down. It makes you more aware of what your point of no return feels like, as well as when you need to start to calm down.

PRACTISE. It makes perfect.

Full transparency: I’ve never had issues with premature ejaculation, so my tips aren’t based on personal experience. However, I do, do the things mentioned from time to time because it feels good. However, if you suffer from premature ejaculation, it might be an entirely different issue.
To be honest, it sounds most of all like you just need to get used to raw dogging.
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