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post 1627263783 01-02-2021, 08:55 AM
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Girls who go MIA or won't commit

Whats the misces approach to girls who either take like 6+ hours to respond to a conversation or won't ever commit to actually going out but will be your pen pal essentially?

I swear like 80% of sloots off dating apps do this. its so fuking annoying. I think my new years goal is to try once and if they do this **** then just go NC
post 1627264463 01-02-2021, 09:04 AM
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wouldnt you rather get to know a girl for a bit first rather then just sending hey a couple lines then meet up get drunk and ****. do you really want a chick who just gives it out so easily? LOL, i know your dink does but do you mentally want that? think bout how many other dudes she runs thru living a life like that. no thanks jeff
post 1627264633 01-02-2021, 09:08 AM
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When I used to online date, any chick that takes that long to respond, in my experience, is just not interested srs. Don't waste your time bro
post 1627264793 01-02-2021, 09:10 AM
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If someone takes 6+ hours to respond then they're not interested or they're playing games. Once in a while sure, people can be busy, but no one isalwaysthat busy. As for never wanting to meet up that says to me not interested as well. Sounds like they're just looking for a penpal and validation. When I online dated I wanted to meet pretty quickly because you can't tell if you have a connection/chemistry until you meet in person. I didn't see the point in wasting weeks texting just to find out there's no connection in person.
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post 1627264963 01-02-2021, 09:12 AM
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Originally Posted By tradieobserver⏩
Whats the misces approach to girls who either take like 6+ hours to respond to a conversation or won't ever commit to actually going out but will be your pen pal essentially?

I swear like 80% of sloots off dating apps do this. its so fuking annoying. I think my new years goal is to try once and if they do this **** then just go NC
3-5 messages - make a date or cut them loose
post 1627265033 01-02-2021, 09:13 AM
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Originally Posted By newestaccount⏩
wouldnt you rather get to know a girl for a bit first rather then just sending hey a couple lines then meet up get drunk and ****. do you really want a chick who just gives it out so easily? LOL, i know your dink does but do you mentally want that? think bout how many other dudes she runs thru living a life like that. no thanks jeff
ya, and for the ones that are gf material im down with that. But how long can you text someone before wanting to go out? i think its best to do it in the first week when things are fresh and interest is high cause everyone has so many options nowadays.
post 1627269273 01-02-2021, 10:12 AM
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post 1627269383 01-02-2021, 10:15 AM
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This doesn’t just happen with online dating brah. Just silly games that people do nowadays. While annoying, look at it as a good thing that you know not to waste time with them. You’ll eventually find someone that won’t play dumb games like that.
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They are either into you or they’re not. Every 6 hours? I’d try to Smash once or twice and if it falls through I wouldn’t put any more effort in again. They’ll either go away or hit you up to go fuk them one random day. Either way I don’t put any thought into them as anything serious just a quick fook
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post 1627271113 01-02-2021, 10:40 AM
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Originally Posted By tradieobserver⏩
Whats the misces approach to girls who either take like 6+ hours to respond to a conversation or won't ever commit to actually going out but will be your pen pal essentially?

I swear like 80% of sloots off dating apps do this. its so fuking annoying. I think my new years goal is to try once and if they do this **** then just go NC
Stop talking to them and don't upset yourself.

These are people who don't want to get to know you, so they are okay with putting themselves out there, then ignoring people who respond, and so all of that's f@cked up, rude, etc and get away.

If you step back, why do you want to talk to such a person once this type of behavior starts up?
If you want to ask me a question:

Ask: TheAdlerian

http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=150655983&p=1000366043#post1000366043

Read my science fiction novel:

http://www.amazon.com/Echelon-Adlerian-ebook/dp/B00RCFFTKC/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1419640250&sr=8-1&keywords=Echelon+the+adlerian
post 1627271503 01-02-2021, 10:45 AM
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From my tinder days two years ago and prior to that.. It was either an enthusiastic "yes" from her side or a no (and I usually just delete the convo)



Fun story: I matched with my gf a year before we got together. After a few lame messages back and fort I just deleted her right after her response. Next time we matched she initiated the convo and was very engaging lol


How the turntables
post 1627272083 01-02-2021, 10:56 AM
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Originally Posted By tradieobserver⏩
bump
lol Why are you bumping? You got your answer. She's not that interested and is prob a time waster.
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