I was using my boyfriends laptop for a work project and found a file he clearly meant to keep hidden called “accounting ethics 202.” It was a video file and I thought that sounded interesting so I clicked on it.

What it actually was was a videos featuring my boyfriend and 7-8 of his friends having what I’d guess you’d call an orgy with 2 very realistic sex dolls. Judging by the video, I’m guessing he was 18 or 19.

The is strange is that this was clearly a planned event. The video is edited with multiple camera angles, lighting, etc... so this wasn’t just a drunken “let’s do something crazy” moment that guys do. It was also pretty gross with how they all touched each other’s bodily fluids but I don’t want to kink shame here ans focus on the disturbing parts.

What was really disturbing is how misogynistic and creepy they all acted towards these “women.”

These are some examples of what was said on the video (in addition to just orgy/sexual talk)

let’s beat the **** out of one and make the other watch
if we k!ll the blonde one, the brunette Won’t ever complain again.
b!tch were going to drop you off bleeding and cum soaked for your daddy to find.

This along with lots of sl@pping, ch@king, arm bending of these simulated women.

Is this a major problem that I need to address with him or was this just him when he was younger doing something stupid? How worried do I need to be?