First of all, I used to be a shy, insecure and basically a poosay-ass teen so I even rejected a few bishes back when I was in HS because I was really insecure and my self esteem was trash. But one day during my late teens I literally said to myself "Fuark this!" and I decided to become a DOER.

Second, I'm a decent looking 5'8 dude with a decent physique, funny af and I can easily keep the convo going and entertaining during a date and even by text.

So after this intro, this is what I've learned:

1- The most important thing, It's a fuarking numbers game! you gotta keep trying no matter how bad you are doing, eventually you will get poosay. Sometimes you will smash a hot girl and feel like a Chad and the next day you are gonna get rejected by a 5. That's life. Deal with it. Learn to deal with rejection and don't get butthurted like a little bish.

2- Keep your options open. You need to talk to multiple girls at once, like one dude said before "having one girl around is very close to have 0". You are gonna get ghosted and that's ok, just don't take it personally and never ask why, just accept that and move TF on. Never ask a woman "why", just move onto the next one. If you can, make multiple dates and if you got more than one for the same day, just cancel the one you like less, don't worry, women always do it and they feel no guilt at all.

3- Dry spells are a real thing and sometimes you are gonna have poosay abundance. You gotta squeeze the good times and take it easy during the bad ones. You need to understand that its just a phase and it gonna pass. During the date go for the kiss if you see an opportunity, sometimes you gotta create the chance but never end a date without trying to kiss her cause you're gonna get friendzoned for being too nice or even worst, for being a spineless man. If the kiss goes very well, try to go for the kill. More than once this is gonna be the only chance you will get to smash that girl.

4- Don't be autistic. That's gonna dry a poosay as fast as the sahara desert. For me it was easy 'cause back in the 90s and early 2000s we used to talk to women in person so I learned how to be comfortable around them IRL. But it's all about practice and getting used to real life convos. It will flow naturally eventually.

That's basically it. Don't be affraid of playing the game. Poosay it's not gonna come to you, unless you're a Chad. You need to get out there and start playing the game. Rejection stings like a bee at first but with time it will feel like nothing at all. You will eventually don't give a fuark and just move onto the next one.

Last but not least, sometimes you're gonna have 0 dates during the weekend and literally 0 plans. That's OK too. You need to learn how to enjoy life without bishes around and enjoy your time alone.



PS: I'm not a huge slayer but I've smashed tons of girls for the last 10 years and of course I got rejected a lot during the same time. I had only 1 LTR and it lasted 5 years. Love is not the enemy but never work more than her to keep the relationship going.

I'm 30 and probably been with over 100 woman (srs), really not hard to do. Mostly dating apps and bars. I probably get rejected 98% of the time. Biggest thing is to not give a fukk...

Wanna hang Saturday?

Throw Reese’s at her

Your pictures and/or profile are bad. Pictures are most important but if you’re a 5/10 you can make up for it by being interesting.

Trying to go camping after church. Sorry.

Advice from us 35+ boomers is useless to the current generation boyo

Lost it

First pic with your dog, second with friends, third doing some outdoor sport. Short funny bio. That's it.Why? I'm also doing pretty good with online dating.

Sounds like a waste of time. Can't imagine the amount of Jestermaxxing you had to do. No thanks.

First, Join a club/activity/class/gym. Second, Go talk to them. Third, Don't be a creepy fuker. Girls want a man not a bitch, if you act like a man and not a bitch you will get them.

What is your situation now. Wife? Gf? Any kids?

I read your post my apologies If missed it

Not that much really. Yeah sometimes you have to work to get some but when you earn it, your ego gets a huge boost. And what's the alternative? born a Chad or die a bitter lonely virgin just 'cause life isn't fair? You gotta play the hand you're dealt bro.

Sounds like too much hard work. Juice ain't worth the squeeze. No thanks boyo.

I'm not working for anything. I'm already tall, just gotta lose weight. Then I can just flirt and Women will be all over me.Yup.

Never answered my question.

Thanks. I’ll make sure to not return.

I’m trying to go camping. Please, go to the gym without me.

GF atm. No kids, never being married.Good luck with that lolHow old are you mate?

Thanks

Cheers

My text game is atrocious. I always got laid by going to parties and talking to women IRL which I can do. Is this still a thing? I imagine it would work even better now that zoomer ****s can't look women in the eyes and have to hit them over a screen but maybe zoomer girls are just as autistic.

most of slaying can just be boiled down to 2 things

1. numbers and constantly churning. not getting caught up on some stupid cutie pie who has your attention only to get ghosted after 3 weeks
2. not giving a fuk - if you don't give a fuk, you'll find yourself getting numbers and making moves all the time that lead to sex

a lot of nuance and detail in between, but those are the two main things

Didn't read but just be a genetic Chad is all you need to do

As a sub 8 male, the only kinda date you’re gonna get by cold approaching is a court date

Do you like daggers ?

Wowww. How are babies born opie

Talking to girls is hard work? Lmao. That's literally all that OP suggested, and also not being afraid of rejection.

Was incel til 25 with horrible social anxiety especially around women. Some friend introduced me to MDMA which was therapeutic for my social anxiety and this is how I discovered jestermaxxing.

I had like 80-90 girls in the next 5 years until I got bored and decided that the time investment as I sub8 male is not worth it. The numbers game is always against you and once you get a girl barely interested in you have to jestermaxx like a ****ing clown to get laid. At first I enjoyed the jestmaxxing and the results that came with it, but after some time I felt a bit suspicious with what was going on. It was all about acting and trying to make her interested in you, funny jokes, funny stories, flirting ****, losing your whole weeked trying to get laid. Meanwhile my Chad friend is playing WOW for 4 days straight and on the 5th day he decides to go to the bars in the park to do some pulls ups and dips. And he came back with a phucking 8/10 and got laid just like that. Knowing his style it was probably small talk, walk around and a offer for her to come to his place. No jestermaxxing needed, no funny storied, no extrovert schit, not even an social media accounts.

Anyone notices how if you are sub8 male and you don't have insta/face women start to get suspicious? But when you are Chad everything is ok.

- be good looking
- don't be ugly

That's it.

i don't get the whole numbers game thing

i never really ask gals out so i never get rejected

i just chit talk them and somehow end up in a relationship

pretty obvious when a sloot is keen on smooching