So I went out with this chick last Saturday for drinks, it went well, gave her a kiss at the end, and she said “you better not return to France without seeing me again” as she got out the car (live in Paris for grad school, back in the states for break).

I called her up yesterday to ask her out, she can’t do this weekend because it’s her bday and her friends and family will be over. She essentially told me she’s free everyday next week, but best day would be Wednesday since she gets off work earlier. I told her we can go bowling on Wednesday. She agreed, however, I called around and Wednesdays are league day.

So I told her let’s move it to Friday (the 29th) she agreed. Now I haven’t replied to her since last night, haven’t even chosen a place yet. My question is, when I do reply, I was thinking of saying”

“Awesome, we can do this place at this time, if you want to hang out or do something before then just let me know” the latter part is where I have the question, you guys think it’s okay to say that?

Also I knows she ready and willing to smash, I would’ve just invited her over, but I’m staying with my mom due to the fact I’m only here for a month. She has her own place with roommates so she would have to invite me, which is why I want to add “let me know if you want to hangout or do something” to get her thinking about just inviting me over.

Also she went out with me knowing I’m leaving so I know she’s just looking for a good time while I’m here.

The length of your post tells me you are overthinking it.

Get a hotel surely

Yea I have a problem with that. But what do you think?

Lol that’s a little too straight forward, especially if she has a place

What's the update man

ask her "where are the pics?"

“Quick question”

absolutely do not say that dumb high school chit.

you shouldn't have let the bowling league thing fuk up your wednesday plan. you always gotta get on while the getting on is good, you know what I mean? Especially if you haven't fuked yet.

be direct and say something like yo, lets link up tomorrow, something chill like grab food and movie at your place.

quit overthinking a girl hanging out w you when she knows you are leaving soon anways.

You don't need to be invited to her place. You can suggest it now or at the end of the date.

"Hey <name> - Drinks at your place on saturday?"

Let her suggest that, if it's going that way, she will, otherwise you look desperate. Just enjoy the time with her, think of everything else as a bonus, you'll be more relaxed too, which will help.

text her

“Some friends and I were having a conversation today about sexual chemistry between two people. I honestly couldn't focus on the convo because I had you on my mind. I just had this big grin on my face. I thought about how we click....when you touch me, kiss me....when I do the same to you. I love it. I want to try something if you're game. I want you to fukc my face. Straddle me and just grind on it. I wanna suck your pussy juice and get it all over my face. I'm not gonna touch you, I just wanna use all tongue and let you get as nasty as you want. Then, let me turn you over in doggy and suck your pussy from the back.....slowly. Nibble the clit, let you put a finger in there and feed it to me. Then, after I've eaten my fill, whatever happens next, does. I don't even care about the sex, I just need to taste you.”

she’ll invite you right over srs