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post 1630126823 01-30-2021, 03:36 PM
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if youre over 25 and dont have a LTR or girls on rotation are you a failure as a man?

even all the lame dudes i know are still banging uglies or fatties and not giving a ****. guess its better to have anything rather then nothing right? imagine just logging into a a dying gay indian incel bodybuilding forum everyday for social interaction JUST LOL
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gotta have a 5/10 fwb who is in love with you and has to be ok with you tagging her only and never spending time with her srs
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That's pretty low on the list of reasons why I'm a failure.
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she was the best, man.

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Originally Posted By GaryRidgway⏩
That's pretty low on the list of reasons why I'm a failure.
what are some other reasons? (srs) (curious)
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There once was a time when men placed value on grandiose accomplishments. Men aspiring to become explorers such as this fine lad:

Spoiler!


Others had a fire in them for innovation, glory, combat... You name it, someone was chasing it.

Nowadays, we got men, such as OP, who's idea of accomplishment lays in between the legs of a woman. His idea of accomplishment is literally doing something that the dumbest of retard can accomplish.

One thing is for certain, as the great LooksMaximus would say, Islam is right about men.
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It’s just ego brah...srs
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Originally Posted By GaryRidgway⏩
That's pretty low on the list of reasons why I'm a failure.
your family your friendships your community are all a man has and if you dont have any of that you are failing. especially as a young man the pressure is on to succeed. the majority look up towards you to lead them.
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No. You’re a failure if you’re over 25 and worry non-stop about women. Obtain that grain, worry about women in your spare time
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[QUOTE=ramimotemem post_id=1630127203]There once was a time when men placed value on grandiose accomplishments. Men aspiring to become explorers such as this fine lad:

[b]Spoiler![/b][SPOILER][img]https://i.imgur.com/cGYszfd.jpg[/img][/SPOILER]

Others had a fire in them for innovation, glory, combat... You name it, someone was chasing it.

Nowadays, we got men, such as OP, who's idea of accomplishment lays in between the legs of a woman. His idea of accomplishment is literally doing something that the dumbest of retard can accomplish.

One thing is for certain, as the great LooksMaximus would say, Islam is right about men.[/QUOTE]This is a good book that talks about being on purpose as a man:
[img]https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/books/1544498456l/41677385.jpg[/img][img]
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Originally Posted By Nycolas⏩
No. You’re a failure if you’re over 25 and worry non-stop about women. Obtain that grain, worry about women in your spare time
but isnt what everything a man does for women or power? and power = more women
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[QUOTE=iloveus post_id=1630127403]This is a good book that talks about being on purpose as a man:
[img]https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/books/1544498456l/41677385.jpg[/img][img][/QUOTE]Nice, I flipped through the pages on the amazon preview feature. Will look for it in my local bookstores first, before ordering it from amazon.
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eh at 25 you still have plenty of time to figure chit out, but you gotta be proactive about it. I will say once you reach a certain age as a man (~30) and if single you belong in either two camps:


Group A: single by choice. Decides or continues to focus on experiences, career, etc. and lives bachelor life. Example would be someone moving for work a lot, traveling the world, etc. Generally live in major cities, has rotation of women on tap (100% actively dating as these are high value dudes) , but just hasnt settled down yet


Group B: single, not by choice. 90% of single guys 30+ are in this camp. They may cope and say they are focusing on their career or themselves, but in reality havent gotten ass in at least the last 6 months to a year. Likely live in some quasi chit suburb, overweight, no real hobbies, etc. These men often arent self aware of just how pathetic they really are. If they dont make major lifestyle changes then either they end up a safety net for some trash sloot single mom or have their genes erased from existence



And that's it. If you dont know what group you are in then hate to break it to you boyo - you're in the second one. It's a legitimate bifurcation between men with values 8+ and men values 1-4. Reason being is that any alpha who wants a family, or high beta male who is safe, will be picked up by women - which intensifies as they near 30. If you are a guy in your early 30s and still cant get women at literally their most desperate period in life then you are likely majorly failing at some aspects. So at 25 you are good but work to make sure you are a stud and not a shmuck
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Originally Posted By Numba1Miscer⏩
but isnt what everything a man does for women or power? and power = more women
I have no idea what you’re talking about, but my post was pretty self-explanatory
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Originally Posted By meanstringbean⏩
eh at 25 you still have plenty of time to figure chit out, but you gotta be proactive about it. I will say once you reach a certain age as a man (~30) and if single you belong in either two camps:


Group A: single by choice. Decides or continues to focus on experiences, career, etc. and lives bachelor life. Example would be someone moving for work a lot, traveling the world, etc. Generally live in major cities, has rotation of women on tap (100% actively dating as these are high value dudes) , but just hasnt settled down yet


Group B: single, not by choice. 90% of single guys 30+ are in this camp. They may cope and say they are focusing on their career or themselves, but in reality havent gotten ass in at least the last 6 months to a year. Likely live in some quasi chit suburb, overweight, no real hobbies, etc. These men often arent self aware of just how pathetic they really are. If they dont make major lifestyle changes then either they end up a safety net for some trash sloot single mom or have their genes erased from existence



And that's it. If you dont know what group you are in then hate to break it to you boyo - you're in the second one. It's a legitimate bifurcation between men with values 8+ and men values 1-4. Reason being is that any alpha who wants a family, or high beta male who is safe, will be picked up by women - which intensifies as they near 30. If you are a guy in your early 30s and still cant get women at literally their most desperate period in life then you are likely majorly failing at some aspects. So at 25 you are good but work to make sure you are a stud and not a shmuck
yeah man honestly looks dont even really matter as a man as long as you aint deformed or disabled. but you better have a social life cuz if not then you are left alone. girls only want added drama cuz beside kids they life is worthless. and if you aint bitching bout work or whatever bothered you that day then they will get bored and move on.
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Originally Posted By meanstringbean⏩
eh at 25 you still have plenty of time to figure chit out
Not according to this lady




She basically says you need to get your chit together as soon as possible. Otherwise if not then life will pass you by
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Originally Posted By Numba1Miscer⏩
yeah man honestly looks dont even really matter as a man as long as you aint deformed or disabled. but you better have a social life cuz if not then you are left alone. girls only want added drama cuz beside kids they life is worthless. and if you aint biothcing botu work or whatever bothered you that day they will get bored and move on.
idk how old you are but as you enter your late 20s and early 30s you will really see how people's lifestyle choices make or break them. Good news is that it isn't hard to have your chit together in your late 20s and reap the rewards. Most guys diet and fitness go to ****, have no real hobbies, confidence, experience etc. Everyone on the misc thinks you need to be 6'2 CEO 10k a day 10% bf 225 pound chad to do well. You dont. You just have continue to give a damn. If you hit 27 and:

- work out 4x a week to be more fit than the population
- eat relatively healthy
- have a career with some growth trajectory
- dress like an adult (no marvel t shirts, hoodies, look like you give a ****)
- have interesting (photography, writing, woodworking, etc.) and active (swimming, climbing, hiking, skiing, etc.) hobbies instead of just vidya games
- have a solid core group of friends to get dinner with, do bar trivia with, go on trips with, etc.

Then you will always be a buyer in the dating market instead of a desperate seller who settles for whatever chick he can get.
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Originally Posted By Numba1Miscer⏩
but isnt what everything a man does for women or power? and power = more women
Actually yes

but don't focus on it

Look if you improve yourself they will come

All you need to do is focus on yourself

Don't worry about women and what attracts them and if you do X and Y. You're just giving yourself mental gymnastics.
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
Not according to this lady




She basically says you need to get your chit together as soon as possible. Otherwise if not then life will pass you by
oh I 100% agree. Just saying at 25 you need to be asking these questions and making the moves to get your **** together so you can reap the rewards. The good news is if you dont have it together you still have time to fix it, the bad news is that you cant just sit and twiddle your thumbs. If you get to 30s and have parts of your life in disarray then you will be screwed socially, romantically, financially, etc.


I LOVE tough love advice like what you quoted. More men need to hear it
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how do you cope with being a loner/loser and just wanting to get drunk/high everyday?
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Originally Posted By Numba1Miscer⏩
even all the lame dudes i know are still banging uglies or fatties and not giving a ****. guess its better to have anything rather then nothing right? imagine just logging into a a dying gay indian incel bodybuilding forum everyday for social interaction JUST LOL
Nah that only applies if you’re a girl. If you’re over 25 as a female that’s a huge red flag they can’t settle down and have problems, srs plus most girls start having problems on kids after 28
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Originally Posted By GaryRidgway⏩
That's pretty low on the list of reasons why I'm a failure.
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
Not according to this lady




She basically says you need to get your chit together as soon as possible. Otherwise if not then life will pass you by
SHE can fukk off...
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In the city, it can be pretty rough. At my old firm, there were at least 2-3 40 year old incels (making 150k a year) and they were tall and decent looking. Brutal these days.
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