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ยป Is it weird to have a very close male friend?
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post 1632705183 03-01-2021, 10:11 PM
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Is it weird to have a very close male friend?

I have a friend who I'm very close with. Not 'fk each other in the ass' close, but 'do most things with each other' and 'talk everyday' close, if you know what I mean. We've never even seen each other nude and we talk about girls all the time. I'm gonna call this guy Ryan in this thread. Btw we're both 20 and I known him for a few years.

I have no problems socializing and am sort of an alpha if I had to pick, but I find it very difficult to make friends that I truly click with, so whenever I find people like that I try my best to keep them in my life (in a non-toxic way ofc). I talk to other people and make new friends all the time, it's just that I rather hang out or do dumb **** with Ryan instead. He is down to do whatever I'm down to do and we've done a lot of things that are now some of our best memories in both of our lives. If he died today I would be very devastated, probably more than if my mother dies. I love this guy no homo.

However, we get chit on by people including my family for it. My mom thinks I'm obsessed with him and thinks that I am gay. My other friends think we fk and that we're boyfriends, even though they've seen us with girls before. I usually don't give a **** but sometimes it makes me feel insecure. Gayest **** I've ever done with him is probably tickling or hugging while drunk.

What do you think??
post 1632705403 03-01-2021, 10:14 PM
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Not sure if you are serious. But it sounds like you are having a non physical relationship with him. Maybe you are gay? But just dint want to admit it to yourself?
post 1632705483 03-01-2021, 10:16 PM
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post 1632705513 03-01-2021, 10:17 PM
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post 1632705963 03-01-2021, 10:26 PM
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I think new accounts shouldn't be able to make a thread untill they are at least 30 days old and have at least 100 posts in (on the misc). That's just my opinion.
post 1632706063 03-01-2021, 10:28 PM
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No thatโ€™s not weird. Most people live with their friends for this reason.
post 1632717073 03-02-2021, 03:12 AM
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It's not weird. I think men suffer today because they don't cultivate these very close friendships with other men. There's always the fear of being labelled gay, or something.
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post 1632717553 03-02-2021, 03:34 AM
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post 1632717583 03-02-2021, 03:35 AM
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SRSLY tho, better to have a best male friend than a dumb bitch who can't relate to you in many ways and gives you retarded advice. Having a best male friend is necessary for males 1000%
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post 1632726273 03-02-2021, 07:24 AM
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Nah man, never been turned on by a dude and dinks honestly disgust me. Why is it that two brothers or older men get away with being so close with each other but not me? The logic for the former is that most people aren't sexually attracted to their relatives but then again most men like myself aren't attracted to men either.
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SRSLY tho, better to have a best male friend than a dumb bitch who can't relate to you in many ways and gives you retarded advice. Having a best male friend is necessary for males 1000%
Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
Dude that's not wierd, that's your bestie - even if you bang each other it ain't weird.

I know a chick that has a boyfriend, who also has a male best friend who she hangs out with all the time and goes on vacations with, and that's not weird.

If there is an uncontrollable sexual tension between two people, and you're not banging, than it is weird though.
Originally Posted By ukr1410
It's not weird. I think men suffer today because they don't cultivate these very close friendships with other men. There's always the fear of being labelled gay, or something.
Yeah I mean aside from the banging part by wiseoldape I agree. It's basically where I'm coming from. It gets harder and harder to make friends the older you get. It pisses me the fk off whenever I get this gay label bs and honestly I feel like they're just projecting their insecurities/jealousy on me.
post 1632727003 03-02-2021, 07:40 AM
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Depends on if his dick is bigger or smaller than yours
post 1632727983 03-02-2021, 07:56 AM
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Originally Posted By Evlve
Depends on if his dick is bigger or smaller than yours
His chit is bigger.
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