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post 1633766483 03-14-2021, 06:46 PM
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Long Distance girl told me to wear a condom if I fuk anyone else.

So I'm kinda in a relationship with this girl who lives in another country. We are on a schedule where we travel every month to some destination to see each other for 7-12 days.

Today we had a good conversation, and she told me at the end that "if I have sex with any other girls, to wear a condom so we don't have to get tested again". It will be about 20 days until we see each other again.

To me, this seems like a strange thing to say to someone you are dating. She lives in Brazil, and I think cheating is likely more common there, at least for males. She has made similar comments before, and I'm wondering if this means she's likely fuking other dudes or if she is just used to Brazilian guys always cheating.

Anyways, I'm not a relationship guy so I have no idea what she could be implying here. But I'd be interested to know as MISC gives great advice on this stuff usually.
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Lol, I definitely have this in the back of my head. From my discussions with her, I get the feeling it's more likely that she'd cheat with a girl than with a guy. And I don't think I'd have too much of a problem with that.

Anyways, I just don't care that much at this point and I like having a travel buddy who I also love fuking and cumming into.
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Originally Posted By verymuchalpha⏩
Tell her “raw dog or doesn’t count”

Def fkn srs

She’s tryna play with games with you, this is a checkmate one liner
lol actually solid advice

This is a typical female thing OP.
She just wants to hear you tell her you're loyal to her and you wouldn't phuck anyone else but her so she can become bored of you and dump you.

Or she's a giga sloot; which is also plausible.
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post 1633767773 03-14-2021, 07:06 PM
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Originally Posted By verymuchalpha⏩
Tell her “raw dog or doesn’t count”

Def fkn srs

She’s tryna play with games with you, this is a checkmate one liner
I told her it's pretty unlikely that I'd **** any other girls right now as bars are like 25% capacity and it's cold out. And it's true, I'd probably rather just jerk off if I'm not having sex with her and I'm only drinking on St. Pats Day until the trip. Her pussy is the best I've ever had, so I'm not looking around for anything else just yet.
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
Lol, I definitely have this in the back of my head. From my discussions with her, I get the feeling it's more likely that she'd cheat with a girl than with a guy. And I don't think I'd have too much of a problem with that.

Anyways, I just don't care that much at this point and I like having a travel buddy who I also love fuking and cumming into.
Get her to bring one of her girliefriends along the next time you meet up and profit.
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post 1633768033 03-14-2021, 07:09 PM
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Originally Posted By Lowkick⏩
lol actually solid advice

This is a typical female thing OP.
She just wants to hear you tell her you're loyal to her and you wouldn't phuck anyone else but her so she can become bored of you and dump you.

Or she's a giga sloot; which is also plausible.
I definitely haven't ruled out her being a giga-sloot, as she always has some interesting party stories with all kinds of crazy chit but never result in her having sex(even though she's has a crazy high sex drive) but if it's true I'll find out eventually and at this point I don't really care that much if she's fuking anybody else.
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Me and my wife have a similar arrangement, it works well for us.
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post 1633768183 03-14-2021, 07:11 PM
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Originally Posted By multiplemiggs⏩
Get her to bring one of her girliefriends along the next time you meet up and profit.
She actually asked me this today. She asked if I'd eventually be ok with her and another girl, and I asked "would you be ok with me fuking the other girl as well?" and she said she'll have to get back to me.

Although my girl is great in bed and sexy as hell, she gives mediocre blowjobs that would never make me orgasm on their own. Since BJs are probably my favorite thing, it makes sense that we'd find someone else who is better in that department.
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
I definitely haven't ruled out her being a giga-sloot, as she always has some interesting party stories with all kinds of crazy chit but never result in her having sex(even though she's has a crazy high sex drive) but if it's true I'll find out eventually and at this point I don't really care that much if she's fuking anybody else.
I was in your shoes aswell once with a girl from France who I met in Barcelona; she wasn't a sloot either but she thought she was down to be FWB; she ended up falling in love with me which ruined the whole experience & ended up with me still having regrets for leading her on. Don't make the same mistake unless you're a manipulative bastard.

You said you were "kinda in a relationship" so make sure what it is; for the both of you.
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
So I'm kinda in a relationship with this girl who lives in another country. We are on a schedule where we travel every month to some destination to see each other for 7-12 days.

Today we had a good conversation, and she told me at the end that "if I have sex with any other girls, to wear a condom so we don't have to get tested again". It will be about 20 days until we see each other again.

To me, this seems like a strange thing to say to someone you are dating. She lives in Brazil, and I think cheating is likely more common there,at least for males.She has made similar comments before, and I'm wondering if this means she's likely fuking other dudes or if she is just used to Brazilian guys always cheating.

Anyways, I'm not a relationship guy so I have no idea what she could be implying here. But I'd be interested to know as MISC gives great advice on this stuff usually.
I've lived in South America for a couple of years now and there's no reason to assume cheating is more common for males. I've met so many turbosloots, some who had bfs that I only found out about later it's insane.
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Originally Posted By verymuchalpha⏩
Dude you fuked up

She’s tryna mess with your head and you literally walked into her trap

Google “how to pass chit tests”, ded fkn srs

This entire conversation she’s having with you is one big chit test, srs. Think about it: would leonardo dicaprio engage in a discussion like this with his girl? No he wouldn’t, coz he knows the bish is being stupid and he’s too alpha for this
I literally thought I may be finished talking to her today, and in this conversation she called me and basically said she wanted to be with me and didn't want all the other people she was thinking of hanging out with. I doubt it was a chit test, and to be honest I don't really care what she thinks of my answer. I think she's been cheated on in the past, and that was likely a good enough answer for her at the time.
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Originally Posted By dabbmw2002⏩
Translation- I use condoms when I fuk other guys but I don't want you to worry about getting an STD
I actually assume this is the correct answer. We will see, I'm not super attached at this point and am totally cool with her being a travel buddy who I rawdog for 10 days each month. It's actually better than having a regular relationship to me. I already know all of her friends and we have made friends together as well. I'll eventually find out if she's cheating, and at this point I don't even ask.
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Originally Posted By Lowkick⏩
I was in your shoes aswell once with a girl from France who I met in Barcelona; she wasn't a sloot either but she thought she was down to be FWB; she ended up falling in love with me which ruined the whole experience & ended up with me still having regrets for leading her on. Don't make the same mistake unless you're a manipulative bastard.

You said you were "kinda in a relationship" so make sure what it is; for the both of you.
I have no idea what to consider it at this point. We are traveling and fuking rawdog in random destinations each month in the Western Hemisphere. I met her in Rio de Janiero and she said I was the first person she had sex with for about 4 months at the time.

She kind of acts like a sloot and it feels like it when partying, but she has been loyal to me so far.
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Originally Posted By Barteh⏩
I've lived in South America for a couple of years now and there's no reason to assume cheating is more common for males. I've met so many turbosloots, some who had bfs that I only found out about later it's insane.
I have also spent a ton of time in S America as well, and I am specifically talking about Brazil here. I would always be talking to Brazilian guys who would say, "I have a serious girlfriend back at home, but here I'm 100% single". It was a comment every single guy made a point to say to me.

While there are for sure some turbosloots in Brazil, I was actually surprised at how difficult it was for a gringo to pull ass there. I had a couple random easy lays, but it was nothing like some of the lays I've had elsewhere in S America.
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You think that you guys are in a relationship, whereas she sees you guys as fuk buddies.

Start fuking other bitches. She is telling you to do so because she is getting tackled.
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Originally Posted By DDSF1⏩
You think that you guys are in a relationship, whereas she sees you guys as fuk buddies.

Start fuking other bitches. She is telling you to do so because she is getting tackled.
Like I said, my assumption is that she's currently fuking other guys(although the first time I met her she said it had been four months and she's back home with family in the same place those four months took place in). She still isn't willing to post pictures of me on her Instagram, so I know she's still probably talking to other guys. But she actually lived on a different continent the last decade and had to go home for COVID, so my guess is that she has guys or former boyfriends she's still talking to from her former home that she hasn't been around in 6 months.
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She's from Brazil? Then she's definitely going to be open-minded about sex (i.e. she ain't gonna be faithful). But if you do get serious with her then she will kill you in your sleep if you mess around with another woman. Brazilian women are extremely possessive.
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Originally Posted By Shortfuze⏩
She's from Brazil? Then she's definitely going to be open-minded about sex (i.e. she ain't gonna be faithful)
She's very open minded about sex, as I've already done some very freaky chit with her that I never thought I'd do in my entire life. But I haven't directly seen evidence of her ****ing anybody else yet.
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How about you ask her and lay some ground rules instead of asking the misc what she means?
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How are you able to pay for these vacations and take time off work to see her every month?? Not sure if srs.
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How are you able to pay for these vacations and take time off work to see her every month?? Not sure if srs.
I'm self employed and things are surprisingly slow right now. It won't be like this forever.
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probs just a way of gauging your response
Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
I actually assume this is the correct answer. We will see, I'm not super attached at this point and am totally cool with her being a travel buddy who I rawdog for 10 days each month. It's actually better than having a regular relationship to me.I already know all of her friends and we have made friends together as well. I'll eventually find out if she's cheating, and at this point I don't even ask.
lol sounds a lot like a relationship to me boyo
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
I have no idea what to consider it at this point. We are traveling and fuking rawdog in random destinations each month in the Western Hemisphere. I met her in Rio de Janiero and she said I was the first person she had sex with for about 4 months at the time.

She kind of acts like a sloot and it feels like it when partying, but she has been loyal to me so far.
The ball is in your lane

You are assuming that she phucks other guys and you are assuming she is a sloot.
On the other hand you call her loyal and you spend your time & energy to be with her.

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Originally Posted By tehgosu⏩
probs just a way of gauging your response

lol sounds a lot like a relationship to me boyo
Lol, yeah there's definitely some type of relationship for sure. But she is into staying at sex hotels and doesn't really give the feeling that she's loyal(sexually at least) so I think it's only a matter of time before she'd be looking to **** other people casually.
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she's already banging other guys.

so ya you're off the leash. JFL
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Originally Posted By Lowkick⏩
The ball is in your lane

You are assuming that she phucks other guys and you are assuming she is a sloot.
On the other hand you call her loyal and you spend your time & energy to be with her.

A man who doesn't know what he wants will get nowhere.
It works for me right now as a source of entertainment to get me out of the boredom of my day to day life. I also like having a travel buddy, but won't want to go on every trip with her. With COVID BS keeping female opportunities low, she's for sure the best I've come across in the last year.

Yes, it's purely an assumption that she's fuking other guys, but a strong assumption. She stayed a few nights in a swinger hotel room with a married couple whose kink is meeting single bisexual girls and fuking them together. She's a bisexual girl, so it's really hard to think she just stayed with them and did nothing.

I think one of the reasons she likes me is because I have fuked a lot of girls and probably thinks I have a sex addiction like her. But that's not the case.
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