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post 1634727333 03-26-2021, 07:59 PM
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Why is going out alone so weird/hard?

About half the time I am fortunate enough to go out on the weekends with friends, but the other half I don't have other options than to roll solo if I want to avoid rotting at home on Misc.

Tonight I went out alone in Breckenridge. EVERY hot sloot was with a group that had multiple guys jestermaxxing.

Hell, everyone that was out at the most popular bar was with a group.

How the fukk does this happen? Why is it always so hard, so weird, to go out alone to bars/clubs/etc?

And it's only been getting worse as I've gotten older (now 32).
post 1634727823 03-26-2021, 08:06 PM
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post 1634729953 03-26-2021, 08:54 PM
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It depends if you are attractive or not.

If you are attractive you'll be "that mysterious hot guy who's on his own over there, let's go talk to him hehe"

If you are Unnatractive you will be "that creepy weirdo in the corner, he's giving of rapey vibes, what a creep, let's tell the bartender about him and get him kicked out"

It's ALL about looks.
post 1634729993 03-26-2021, 08:55 PM
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If you have a good vibe and actually feel comfortable, good times will be had
post 1634730003 03-26-2021, 08:55 PM
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I'm a 6'1 Chad and it's weird for me too because i don't drink and i'm introverted and like damn near everyone i see out at night is extroverted af or drunk and chit
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post 1634730023 03-26-2021, 08:56 PM
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Never tried this much but always envisioned it being cool hitting the bars alone
Maybe not a rowdy club but defintely the bar or pub

And I bet you could pick up a girl easier without having a bunch of friends to worry about ...but yah ofcourse the girl will have here cok blocking friends , guys around.
post 1634730113 03-26-2021, 08:57 PM
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The make substancEs for this kinda thing.
post 1634730263 03-26-2021, 09:00 PM
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If I’m going out alone I just go full baller status. Not trying to be places where large groups get rowdy.

Favorite solo meal was a 9 course tasting menu at masa in San Francisco. Was like 21 and it set me back 400. But was a really nice interesting meal, was just out of culinary school and just really enjoyed the experience.

Better then forcing a bartender to pretend he is your new best friend so you don’t bring the vibe down at the bar.
post 1634730383 03-26-2021, 09:03 PM
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You kunts are poor and stupid. I used to go out solo all the time when I was alone in a city. As soon as I got inside the club I would find the biggest, meanest looking group and start pumping them full of vodka shots. I automatically look like the life of the party to any chicks and if any fights break out, I have 5-10 units ready to kill for me. Even security was scared to kick me out sometimes, especially if I slip them a green back on the way in. Lol @ lonercels.
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post 1634730393 03-26-2021, 09:03 PM
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Originally Posted By Duckliver⏩
If I’m going out alone I just go full baller status. Not trying to be places where large groups get rowdy.

Favorite solo meal was a 9 course tasting menu at masa in San Francisco. Was like 21 and it set me back 400. But was a really nice interesting meal, was just out of culinary school and just really enjoyed the experience.

Better then forcing a bartender to pretend he is your new best friend so you don’t bring the vibe down at the bar.
Damn sick . How does a meal end up 400?
post 1634730783 03-26-2021, 09:14 PM
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Just be cool and charismatic and join a group. Obviously easier said than done but drunk people don't mind another cool guy chilling with them especially if he doesn't go after their broads right away.
post 1634731533 03-26-2021, 09:29 PM
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broooo are you literally me OP? exact same situation. Some weekends my friends and I hang out and go out and other weekends I go out solo.

My take on it: It's actually fun af srs solo only if your an outgoing/social brah. I have had lots of fun solo nights meeting girls, chatting with randoms, and having a great fun time. Once I have a few in me the social anxiety goes away real quick. Plus you can go wherever you like. Dont have to wait on anyones time which is great.

Even tho I am social brah and can conversate with anyone, it really depends on where you go. I would not feel comfortable going to a club solo. I would go to a cocktail bar and lounges or rooftops, or nice chill establisment for sure.
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Originally Posted By Mj-drewfan32⏩
broooo are you literally me OP? exact same situation. Some weekends my friends and I hang out and go out and other weekends I go out solo.

My take on it: It's actually fun af srs solo only if your an outgoing/social brah. I have had lots of fun solo nights meeting girls, chatting with randoms, and having a great fun time. Once I have a few in me the social anxiety goes away real quick. Plus you can go wherever you like. Dont have to wait on anyones time which is great.

Even tho I am social brah and can conversate with anyone, it really depends on where you go. I would not feel comfortable going to a club solo. I would go to a cocktail bar and lounges or rooftops, or nice chill establisment for sure.
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post 1634733973 03-26-2021, 10:10 PM
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If you are good-looking enough, you'll never be alone.
post 1634735343 03-26-2021, 10:43 PM
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Originally Posted By andrepmeet⏩
If you are good-looking enough, you'll never be alone.
very true...I think I'm about a 7.5 on a good day.
post 1634737283 03-26-2021, 11:30 PM
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Maybe you should go to the gym instead of the bar every weekend during covid
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I wonder what's weird about a 32 year old loner going to the club by himself.
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Originally Posted By CoolKnees⏩
I wonder what's weird about a 32 year old loner going to the club by himself.
I get that you are making a rhetorical statement but I'm 32, not a senior citizen.

What is wrong with being 32 and going to a bar alone? Why does it have to be this way??
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
I'm a 6'1 Chadand it's weird for me too because i don't drink and i'm introverted and like damn near everyone i see out at night is extroverted af or drunk and chit
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post 1634738353 03-27-2021, 12:11 AM
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Originally Posted By Dirtylocks⏩
I get that you are making a rhetorical statement but I'm 32, not a senior citizen.

What is wrong with being 32 and going to a bar alone? Why does it have to be this way??
Why are you trying to justify yourself to a stranger on the internet? If it's cool with you, then do it.
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