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post 1635203023 04-01-2021, 06:15 PM
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Is it weird to be 30+ male with no kids?

have you failed? whats the cutoff? 40?

was at some concert and a friends friend drove me home and upon talking to him (good guy) he was asking about my life and when i told him I had no kids he was like what??? how old are you and i told him 31 and he was like whhhat and no kids? thats weird man you seem pretty normal (laughs). i was like yeah i guess. just havent met one i wanna stick around with and never bust inside the hoes and anyways some sex jokes and the convo went on (dude was 36 with 3 kids and was short haul truck driver, first one at 21 and he wanted another). but since then ive been wondering how much longer do i have? is tour almost over? did i dun goof? am i now a weird autistic incel?
post 1635203273 04-01-2021, 06:18 PM
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way more of a red flag for a female
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post 1635203443 04-01-2021, 06:19 PM
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not having kids in your 30's is badass, I love it. My 2 buddies have kids and they are a source of absolute depression man.

BRB best thing that ever happened to me.

Get the F*ck outta here with that forced happiness garbage
post 1635203483 04-01-2021, 06:20 PM
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Not at all. If you want to get married and have kids, don’t force it. Don’t follow the trend. I know more separated/divorced couples than married.
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Originally Posted By p7nk
way more of a red flag for a female
no ****. i'd be surprised if they didnt have kids after 25
Originally Posted By Condo41
not having kids in your 30's is badass, I love it. My 2 buddies have kids and they are a source of absolute depression man.

BRB best thing that ever happened to me.
yeah i somewhat agree brb no responsibilities brb can still get too drunk and smoke a lot. plus my friends with kids are hella tame and can barely go out. but also i think too like even if i had a kid soon he'd be like 20 and i'd be almost 50??? **** and thats only the first one. better start pounding them out quick
post 1635203953 04-01-2021, 06:25 PM
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lol at cucks who project there lack of freedom and suffering on others by trying to force other ppl to have kids like them
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post 1635204183 04-01-2021, 06:28 PM
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Vast majority of kids are accidents. They can't cope with you being responsible.

It's just like when you don't drink, smoke, do drugs or even have a tattoo, you are the weirdo.
post 1635204333 04-01-2021, 06:29 PM
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Imagine being this insecure, Fook this dumb short haul can't pull out cuck.
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post 1635204353 04-01-2021, 06:29 PM
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No kids (yet) crew, got some old school friends who damn near have teenagers already

I also have friends who didn’t start having kids until 40+
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post 1635204653 04-01-2021, 06:33 PM
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Originally Posted By Realclout
Imagine being this insecure, Fook this dumb short haul can't pull out cuck.
wow thats rude, guy was cool man. he just got me wondering bout my own decisions. maybe ive been waiting to long? he wasnt being disrespectful just surprised but i do agree with him. i dont really know to many others over 30 with no kids
post 1635204853 04-01-2021, 06:35 PM
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If i could have a family right now i would.

"The one that got away" when i was young is near 30 and was anti kids, shes gonna be a barren careercel that just cares about getting her name on papers. Waste.

Then my long term gf died, only girl ive ever found with trad values IRL.
post 1635204863 04-01-2021, 06:36 PM
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Originally Posted By SettingOff
wow thats rude, guy was cool man. he just got me wondering bout my own decisions. maybe ive been waiting to long? he wasnt being disrespectful just surprised but i do agree with him. i dont really know to many others over 30 with no kids
Shut up timmy this is low energy as fook. over 30 with no kids and good job and not 100% retarted is the highest net worth of high test giga chads only little boys get women trapped young enough before they realize their husband is a pathetic cuck and it's to late.
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post 1635204893 04-01-2021, 06:36 PM
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Can't imagine caring what normie NPC's think about my life decisions. Not even a little srs.
post 1635204953 04-01-2021, 06:37 PM
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30 year old single man with no kids crew

I have a great career, house, car, and I’m fairly nice personality. Plus in shape and athletic.

I probably have red flags that I’m oblivious to, but I’m pretty happy overall.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
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What fcking male in their right mind wants to have kids under the age of 30. I have zero close friends that had kids in their 20's. My friends are winners, escalate your standards OP.

If I'm having kids I'm 45 and she's 25 with a CPA or PharmD.
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Thread should really be titled - women around 35 with no kids, Weird.
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Aren't you posting on a gay indian bodybuilding forum.... using an alt?
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Originally Posted By Jasonw1178
Vast majority of kids are accidents. They can't cope with you being responsible.

It's just like when you don't drink, smoke, do drugs or even have a tattoo, you are the weirdo.
I wouldn't say vast or even majority. And actually IMO, keeping the kid and raising it properly is probably the ultimate form of taking responsibility .

The second part tho when i was younger 17-24(34 now) and i heard someone didn't drink.. I would find it a bit weird especially being i worked in the service industry and everyone had some kind of vice.
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post 1635206033 04-01-2021, 06:50 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
No

40+ never married no kids is weird though.
And 40 divorced with kids isn’t?
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If this is what failing feels like.... sign me TF up.

I never had a desire to have kids. People always said it would happen eventually.

Now I'm 33. Still nope.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
No because that shows you followed a normal life path. Prob the most normal actually.
Yeah, I did think that it was the thing to do in my 20’s, as well. You grow older and realize that maybe it’s not for you or maybe it’s not the right times. At the same time, I root for people who do get married and have kids. Whatever makes them happy.
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It's called being halfway intelligent.
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Depends on the country. In ex-USSR they have kids in their early 20s but stop at 1 or 2 due to poverty. Meanwhile there's rich OECD countries where average age of first marriage is like 30+ so naturally there'll be no kids before that.
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Alot of the people that try to push the marriage/kids propaganda do it because misery loves company.
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