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» Feel like a black pill moment? Just got hit with one.
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post 1635384523 04-04-2021, 06:39 AM
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Feel like a black pill moment? Just got hit with one.

Broke up with an LTR in December. Because she moved out into a small place she asked if I would take care of her dog until she could move her in. Her pup was an awesome dog and I have a dog of my own so it was no big deal. Told her she'd have to pay for food and any vet bills. Still took good care of her, walked her, gave her meds, etc. When we lived together (for two years) she literally did zero for the dog besides sometimes pay attention to her so I was worried that the dog would be neglected.

Finally after three months I said she needed to get her dog because having two was getting to be a pain and her dog isn't trained like mine is. And we need to sever ties of course. She picked her up Wednesday and texted me to say the dog has settled in great and is getting walked and doing okay.

Last night I found out that she picked the dog up from my place and then drove her to her new boyfriends' place and gave him the dog. He posted about her on his social media last night how happy he is to have a new pet. They've been dating for two months.
post 1635384803 04-04-2021, 06:47 AM
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Eh, this isn't too bad. So she found a new guy 2 months after breaking up with you and it's not like she had him lined up for right away.

I'm actually happy I have zero common friends on social media with the girl I'm currently fuking, and only get to see the filtered chit she posts sporadically. Given that she hasn't posted anything of me on her social media, I know she probably is still friends with some guys she dated in the past.
post 1635385113 04-04-2021, 06:55 AM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens
Eh, this isn't too bad. So she found a new guy 2 months after breaking up with you and it's not like she had him lined up for right away.

I'm actually happy I have zero common friends on social media with the girl I'm currently fuking, and only get to see the filtered chit she posts sporadically. Given that she hasn't posted anything of me on her social media, I know she probably is still friends with some guys she dated in the past.
I didn't mind that. It was giving up the dog I was floored by. I don't fault anyone for moving on but she always claimed the dog was her whole world and to just give her to someone else so quickly was just heartless to me.
post 1635385223 04-04-2021, 06:59 AM
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I thought black pill was based on hypergamy, exaggerated female standards, and their inability to stay loyal. What have dogs got to do with it?
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post 1635385423 04-04-2021, 07:04 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
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Did she ever mention that she wanted a kid?
She's 38 so odds are she won't have any (and she shouldn't). I have two kids and she never did a damn thing with them but still expected to be called stepmother, which was one of the reasons we broke up. No way I'm being in a relationship with somebody who isn't responsible. But the dog thing just confirmed it.
post 1635385453 04-04-2021, 07:05 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
The way that I accepted it when it happened to me, was by understanding that she is happy, so I am happy that she is happy.

It can get tough in this world being a man, it really can, but it's what makes you tough, and what made me grow the most was being dumped byher.
Yeah, although I am still regularly talking to the girl I have been fuking, I also think she mentally "dumped" me sometime during the last trip we were on. And at this point I have also mentally "dumped" her as well. But I am going to keep traveling to fuk her.

In all honesty, I think this could be a really good situation for however long it lasts. I know I don't want to be around her all the time as she requires too much of my attention. But I don't mind seeing her sporadically, and I def like fuking her.
post 1635385733 04-04-2021, 07:10 AM
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Originally Posted By GuineaDago585
Sounds like my mother. Only that’s what she did with her human child (me) instead of her dogs.
sorry to hear brah srs
post 1635385883 04-04-2021, 07:13 AM
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I think you are more attached to the dog than her. Dogs are better anyways. Probably wanted her to get the dog because it was a tie between you and her, but now missing the dog, since she's just giving the dog up.

Dated a girl and damn never missed her but I missed her dogs, especially this one 3 legged dog she had that we kind of bonded.
post 1635386073 04-04-2021, 07:16 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
What's the black pill here? You're dating an irresponsible person who does not want to put any effort into other people. Do you honestly think this represents every female dog owner out there? Plenty of women have dogs as pets dude.



Yeah I dunno why you'd even be with somebody who you've mentally dumped and are not in love with - what are you, a sex addict?
It makes things easier that she lives in Brazil, and I only see her like once per month. I'm not a sex addict, but she's really really fun to have sex with. Like screaming orgasms every time and is so different than any of the girls who live in my small quiet city. Definitely the best sex of my life, and she's fun to be around most of the time.

I guess it's not so much as we're "broken up", but moreso I know I would never get married to her as she's a bit too damaged for me. But I'm definitely willing to overlook some issues for now so I can keep fuking her and traveling with her for a bit longer.
post 1635386403 04-04-2021, 07:22 AM
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It’s a bit of a pill for the new boyfriend too. Did he know that her ex (you) was maintaining the dog up until the moment he was the new beta provider?
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post 1635386813 04-04-2021, 07:32 AM
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She was the best dog
post 1635390803 04-04-2021, 08:42 AM
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Originally Posted By Globally
It’s a bit of a pill for the new boyfriend too. Did he know that her ex (you) was maintaining the dog up until the moment he was the new beta provider?
She would have no shame about that. I'm sure she spun it somehow making her look like a champion. She's incredibly manipulative.
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