What’s the logic behind this? Seems weird as fuk to me as an immigrant with very strong family values.

Are you worried that your life is going to be empty as fuk?

I don't think its by choice

Logic? idk. Just never really wanted kids. My wife is even more passionate about it

Not at all. I couldn't imagine having more on my plate than I currently do. Maybe that will change when I'm much older and retired

Life isn't a one size fits all affair boyo.

Idk, I just don't want them. Sacrificing my personal space and freedom to raise a child is not something that appeals to me. This translates in my LTRs as well. It goes well, I love the woman when I see her no more than 3 times a week, but as soon as we move in together I start feeling trapped and despising her.


As for life being empty, as long as I have a functioning body and mind, I'll always find something new to discover, that is what drives me. Loneliness has never been an issue for me.

Lmfao only emotional *******s worry about being "lonely". Most pathetic sht ever for a male.

Kids make your life astronomically more stressful and I've personally spent my whole life trying to make it as stress-free as possible. Never throwing that out the window.

^ He's right you know.gif

because life is chit and the world is chit

You have it backwards boyo. It's the ones with empty lives that feel the need to fill the void with children.

It’s not about being or not being lonely, it’s fulfilment. Raising a family just seems like a rewarding aspect of life that you have to do as a man.



Idk bro, maybe I don’t get it. To me saying you don’t want kids is like saying you don’t want to work and have a career.

I’ll wait till Im at least 35. I don’t get the hurry, your mid-late 20s for most people is the first time you have real disposable income, why rush into kids instead of enjoying your hard earned money a bit?

27 now no kids

Defintely didn't close that door for good yet

Will probably do it early 30s

Not ready for that type of commitment now and wanna become more established

I value my free time and being completely left alone for at least a few hours my day. Raising kids might give some sort of fulfillment, but it will contribute to an astronomical amount of stress for decades, which is simply not worth it.

While I can see why someone may feel like children will impede upon their personal freedoms and own time because they most certainly will

I believe its what we're all here to do. I think i'd only live to regret the decision to not start & have a family of my own


i simply cant envision myself in old age without a wife, kids, grandchildren, etc


i was super stoned the other night and was out in the woods stargazing and had a revelation about my life - I realized if I dont have my own family there simply isn't a way i could die truly satisfied with my life

Never understood those people who had kids right out of highschool

Like what were they thinking....got no money or job or savings but fk it let's have 3 kids lol

27 now and I still feel not ready

Prob when I'm 32-35

Not at a point where I want any. Kids complicate things and my needs/wants would become secondary. I still have things I want to accomplish before that.

Not in a rush. Im 29 btw

This right here (what don't we agree on?)

Never wanted kids, but probably would have made a great father due to life experiences and such. Legacy? We all die and turn to carbon. Nothing matters after death.

Also I like my freedom and quiet timealso this. Who the fuk would want to bring a child into this toilet we have now???

I want kids eventually. Just haven't had any yet.

Go to Google and type "parents that regret having kids"

Plenty of people (even mothers) deeply regret having kids.

im sure google is in full support of making people stop breeding and continuing the eradication of the nuclear family

you can find people that regret just about anything boyo

the truth is you wont ever know until you have one

As a dude who immensely values his free time, I wouldn't be able to cope if I regret my decision after having kids. It's NOT a decision you should make lightly. You will have to make a life changing sacrifice to raise your kids unless you are on that ceo/10kaday time.

Fulfilling in your opinion. None of us HAVE to do anything brah. I have nothing against people who want kids but to say all guys have to in order to live a fulfilling life is just stupid. Your views most likely come from how you were raised and that's all good but we were all raised differently and all have our own views/morals/values/etc.I am you and you are me boyo ayyyyyyyyyyyyLMAO

Bringing children into clown world seems selfish

Takes two to tango. On dating apps I only get 28+ year old women with no redeeming attributes. Too much of a risk to marry them given the divorce industry.


I do have a couple of Filipina penpals younger than 22 who are into me and might marry me but due to China Flu I can't even go to their century for 1+ year.

Different mindset and lives buddy.

I have plans to travel to different countries; renting different condo's & working in different companies to progress in my field.
I like the excitement of flings & I still have many goals that are not achievable as a responsible father.

Might also go fight in Thailand for a year or so.
Also thinking of going on an ultrarunning lifestyle in the mountains for a few years when I'm around 50.
Might go work with lions & other wildlife in Africa to switch things up.

I still look far better compared to people of similar age, take excellent care of myself and I remain active & wise with what I spend my time on.
This way I won't deteriorate as quickly as most adults.

This lifestyle is not feasible with kids. The life I've quickly written here will make place for sleepless nights, parents' night at school, grades and worries, playing taxi for your kids, you are basically bound for the next 18+ years, your kids will have issues & will consume your time and energy, you will love your kids but because of this unconditional love your own dreams, goals and desires will fade away. It's just how the human brain works.

Life with kids is worth it when you're done living your own life.

I have 4 close friends who are starting a family of their own whilst they aren't ready & still have desires that are unfulfilled
1 is constantly out with pals drinking & arguing with his girlfriend
1 has gained 90lbs in a year and works 6/7 days to support his family (he also has a gambling addiction)
1 is currently saving all he can to drop his savings on a mortgage, binding him (& his wife hopefully) for 25 more years
The last 1 is actually depressed, also put up about 75 lbs in a year and has serious issues with his girl who wants to off herself

Make the choice wisely because you won't even be able to regret it if you don't.

lol oh lawd.

It's like a lyric in "flag pole sitta" by harvey danger "If you're bored then you're boring." bruh, if your life is empty without kids, I got some bad news...

I just realized I put “have” instead of “want” lol


I meant to direct this to miscers who say they never want kids... not currently just don’t have any, cus I don’t either.

Just to add a comment for those delusioncels that talk about "legacy"

Ecclesiastes 1:11
"There is no remembrance of those who came before, and those yet to come will not be remembered by those who follow after."

the girl I want to have a child with is currently in a relationship