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Absolute brutal blackpill accounts of women who settled
https://www.buzzfeed.com/stephenlaco...the-one-reddit
inb4 source.
"I didn't know he wasn't right until our first argument after getting married. I was convinced at that point that we would get divorced one day. I'm still pretty sure it will happen eventually. We have been married for seven years and have three kids. We keep our finances separate. I have protected myself in case of a divorce. We are great friends and he is a good dad."
"My partner and I are doing alright. We communicate well enough and we support each other well. Is he 'the one'? I don't think so. I don't feel a passionate love between us and I'm not super sexually attracted to him (even though he is conventionally good looking). We have been together for four years on and off. We live together. But if he asked me to marry him, I would say no. That's usually a good way to determine whether you're 'meant to be.'"
inb4 source.
"I didn't know he wasn't right until our first argument after getting married. I was convinced at that point that we would get divorced one day. I'm still pretty sure it will happen eventually. We have been married for seven years and have three kids. We keep our finances separate. I have protected myself in case of a divorce. We are great friends and he is a good dad."
"My partner and I are doing alright. We communicate well enough and we support each other well. Is he 'the one'? I don't think so. I don't feel a passionate love between us and I'm not super sexually attracted to him (even though he is conventionally good looking). We have been together for four years on and off. We live together. But if he asked me to marry him, I would say no. That's usually a good way to determine whether you're 'meant to be.'"
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They probably watch too many movies and have unrealistic expectations. They want their "one" to by like the guy with a team of writers, dieticians, cosmetic surgeons, and personal trainers behind them.
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It depends on your aspirations and expectations.
For most of human history the idea that the person you used for marriage/homebuilding/childhaving/wealthbuilding etc would also be your one true love, consistently for decade after decade, would have utterly baffled all parties.
For most of human history the idea that the person you used for marriage/homebuilding/childhaving/wealthbuilding etc would also be your one true love, consistently for decade after decade, would have utterly baffled all parties.
04-11-2021, 04:43 AM
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With women you need to be like Genghis Khan. Fukk them like you are conquering Asia and Europe , don’t talk about your feelings with them, you are not a fukking woman ,
and don’t be relationship focused , be social status and money focused.
and don’t be relationship focused , be social status and money focused.
04-11-2021, 05:01 AM
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"Im pretty sure it will happen eventually"- AKA, I haven't found someone that's better than him yet, but when i do best believe it's quits with my husband"
cmon man we know this lol
cmon man we know this lol
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Originally Posted By Kewbrah⏩
Yeah this is true. The idea that you are with them because you love them is relatively new; the idea that they'll also be perfect in every way because we all deserve absolutely everything we ever wanted is even newer.It depends on your aspirations and expectations.
For most of human history the idea that the person you used for marriage/homebuilding/childhaving/wealthbuilding etc would also be your one true love, consistently for decade after decade, would have utterly baffled all parties.
For most of human history the idea that the person you used for marriage/homebuilding/childhaving/wealthbuilding etc would also be your one true love, consistently for decade after decade, would have utterly baffled all parties.
"A stupid man's report of what a clever man says can never be accurate, because he unconsciously translates what he hears into something he can understand."
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First off...Source x2 smh
Most if not all of these whores would say the same chit if they had married "The One"
Most if not all of these whores would say the same chit if they had married "The One"
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Pretty basic red pill that most women are not genuinely attracted to their husbands or boyfriends. Only to their ability to provide and the safety net. Few things about the sloots in the link:
1. Women don’t fall in love with someone unless they perceive that person to be much better than them. The men that are their ‘true love’ are simply out of their league Chads
2. The guys they “settled” for are actually their value in the dating marketplace. Maybe these women were hot **** at one time but as they get older their value obviously declines so while they think their partner is a “settle” it’s genuinely their equal
3. These women are effectively alpha widowed and ruined. The men who are their “true loves” are just built up in their head. If it wasn’t for their beta bucks loser husband safety net they would also be alone and much worse off
1. Women don’t fall in love with someone unless they perceive that person to be much better than them. The men that are their ‘true love’ are simply out of their league Chads
2. The guys they “settled” for are actually their value in the dating marketplace. Maybe these women were hot **** at one time but as they get older their value obviously declines so while they think their partner is a “settle” it’s genuinely their equal
3. These women are effectively alpha widowed and ruined. The men who are their “true loves” are just built up in their head. If it wasn’t for their beta bucks loser husband safety net they would also be alone and much worse off
04-11-2021, 06:53 AM
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Also lmao at “the one” in half those posts
If you are unironically using that term then you have the emotional maturity of a teenager. Once you have a few relationships, or hit at least 30, you should realize that fairy tale nonsense is just a pile of BS and marriage/LTRs are work that you get out what you put in.
If you are unironically using that term then you have the emotional maturity of a teenager. Once you have a few relationships, or hit at least 30, you should realize that fairy tale nonsense is just a pile of BS and marriage/LTRs are work that you get out what you put in.
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It's incredibly scary how women can act in relationships but not be in the relationship. If that makes sense.
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Originally Posted By meanstringbean⏩
Pretty basic red pill that most women are not genuinely attracted to their husbands or boyfriends. Only to their ability to provide and the safety net. Few things about the sloots in the link:
1. Women don’t fall in love with someone unless they perceive that person to be much better than them. The men that are their ‘true love’ are simply out of their league Chads
2. The guys they “settled” for are actually their value in the dating marketplace. Maybe these women were hot **** at one time but as they get older their value obviously declines so while they think their partner is a “settle” it’s genuinely their equal
3. These women are effectively alpha widowed and ruined. The men who are their “true loves” are just built up in their head. If it wasn’t for their beta bucks loser husband safety net they would also be alone and much worse off
1. Women don’t fall in love with someone unless they perceive that person to be much better than them. The men that are their ‘true love’ are simply out of their league Chads
2. The guys they “settled” for are actually their value in the dating marketplace. Maybe these women were hot **** at one time but as they get older their value obviously declines so while they think their partner is a “settle” it’s genuinely their equal
3. These women are effectively alpha widowed and ruined. The men who are their “true loves” are just built up in their head. If it wasn’t for their beta bucks loser husband safety net they would also be alone and much worse off
Originally Posted By meanstringbean⏩
Very true and good post there is no "one"Also lmao at “the one” in half those posts
If you are unironically using that term then you have the emotional maturity of a teenager. Once you have a few relationships, or hit at least 30, you should realize that fairy tale nonsense is just a pile of BS and marriage/LTRs are work that you get out what you put in.
If you are unironically using that term then you have the emotional maturity of a teenager. Once you have a few relationships, or hit at least 30, you should realize that fairy tale nonsense is just a pile of BS and marriage/LTRs are work that you get out what you put in.
But I feel sorry for women, especially low IQ women. I know a few who have had their heart broken by "the one" . Usually it was some absolute Chad, Or Rich Guy or just a man with extremely high SMV who lowered his standards and dated them for a short time before leaving and breaking their heart. They are the guy they always will remember.. when in reality it was just a high SMV male who wanted some action for a while and then bounced lol.
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Women first get those 'gina tingles when they are like 12-14 years old for some older boy who is kind of a thug and they become addicted to it and belive they will feel it again when they are older and meet their soul mate.
04-11-2021, 07:28 AM
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Originally Posted By BigTimeOperator⏩
is this true for all women?Women first get those 'gina tingles when they are like 12-14 years old for some older boy who is kind of a thug and they become addicted to it and belive they will feel it again when they are older and meet their soul mate.
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You're using a Buzzfeed article to prove a point?
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
*******The only way to find the one is the be completely at peace with you you are at the most very inner core of your being, and then one day, they just pop up into your life and it goes from there.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Good info. I always thought it faded away.Those tingles are there throughout life even when older but it’s for attractive men, not soul mates.
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Originally Posted By meanstringbean⏩
Yeah its already stuff we already knew such as being alpha widowed and monkey branching, but seeing it be re-affirmed in a mainstream media rag piece just cements the idea even further.Pretty basic red pill that most women are not genuinely attracted to their husbands or boyfriends. Only to their ability to provide and the safety net. Few things about the sloots in the link:
1. Women don’t fall in love with someone unless they perceive that person to be much better than them. The men that are their ‘true love’ are simply out of their league Chads
2. The guys they “settled” for are actually their value in the dating marketplace. Maybe these women were hot **** at one time but as they get older their value obviously declines so while they think their partner is a “settle” it’s genuinely their equal
3. These women are effectively alpha widowed and ruined. The men who are their “true loves” are just built up in their head. If it wasn’t for their beta bucks loser husband safety net they would also be alone and much worse off
1. Women don’t fall in love with someone unless they perceive that person to be much better than them. The men that are their ‘true love’ are simply out of their league Chads
2. The guys they “settled” for are actually their value in the dating marketplace. Maybe these women were hot **** at one time but as they get older their value obviously declines so while they think their partner is a “settle” it’s genuinely their equal
3. These women are effectively alpha widowed and ruined. The men who are their “true loves” are just built up in their head. If it wasn’t for their beta bucks loser husband safety net they would also be alone and much worse off
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Originally Posted By Parkerscott⏩
So why is this girl with him...?https://www.buzzfeed.com/stephenlaco...the-one-reddit
inb4 source.
"I didn't know he wasn't right until our first argument after getting married. I was convinced at that point that we would get divorced one day. I'm still pretty sure it will happen eventually. We have been married for seven years and have three kids. We keep our finances separate. I have protected myself in case of a divorce. We are great friends and he is a good dad."
"My partner and I are doing alright. We communicate well enough and we support each other well. Is he 'the one'? I don't think so. I don't feel a passionate love between us and I'm not super sexually attracted to him (even though he is conventionally good looking). We have been together for four years on and off. We live together. But if he asked me to marry him, I would say no. That's usually a good way to determine whether you're 'meant to be.'"
inb4 source.
"I didn't know he wasn't right until our first argument after getting married. I was convinced at that point that we would get divorced one day. I'm still pretty sure it will happen eventually. We have been married for seven years and have three kids. We keep our finances separate. I have protected myself in case of a divorce. We are great friends and he is a good dad."
"My partner and I are doing alright. We communicate well enough and we support each other well. Is he 'the one'? I don't think so. I don't feel a passionate love between us and I'm not super sexually attracted to him (even though he is conventionally good looking). We have been together for four years on and off. We live together. But if he asked me to marry him, I would say no. That's usually a good way to determine whether you're 'meant to be.'"
(I know safety net, comfortable, and likely lonely without)
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Originally Posted By Parkerscott⏩
First one, she's not really with him, and will wait for the right opportunity to fuk him over when the time is right.https://www.buzzfeed.com/stephenlaco...the-one-reddit
inb4 source.
"I didn't know he wasn't right until our first argument after getting married. I was convinced at that point that we would get divorced one day. I'm still pretty sure it will happen eventually. We have been married for seven years and have three kids. We keep our finances separate. I have protected myself in case of a divorce. We are great friends and he is a good dad."
"My partner and I are doing alright. We communicate well enough and we support each other well. Is he 'the one'? I don't think so. I don't feel a passionate love between us and I'm not super sexually attracted to him (even though he is conventionally good looking). We have been together for four years on and off. We live together. But if he asked me to marry him, I would say no. That's usually a good way to determine whether you're 'meant to be.'"
inb4 source.
"I didn't know he wasn't right until our first argument after getting married. I was convinced at that point that we would get divorced one day. I'm still pretty sure it will happen eventually. We have been married for seven years and have three kids. We keep our finances separate. I have protected myself in case of a divorce. We are great friends and he is a good dad."
"My partner and I are doing alright. We communicate well enough and we support each other well. Is he 'the one'? I don't think so. I don't feel a passionate love between us and I'm not super sexually attracted to him (even though he is conventionally good looking). We have been together for four years on and off. We live together. But if he asked me to marry him, I would say no. That's usually a good way to determine whether you're 'meant to be.'"
Second one, just going to leave him when the Chad comes along.
Hate to say it but most married couples get married for the wrong reasons. Most married couples would split if it would be easier. One couple I know, they would separate but they couldn't live the lifestyle they do separately.
04-11-2021, 08:23 AM
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Originally Posted By WHChampion⏩
I'm sculpting myself just like thatThey probably watch too many movies and have unrealistic expectations. They want their "one" to by like the guy with a team of writers, dieticians, cosmetic surgeons, and personal trainers behind them.
To be the one to a woman like prime Angelina Jolie
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There's no such thing as the one. Relationships take work, no relationship is gonna be 100% good all the time. Some women understand that, most don't.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
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Originally Posted By LargeCondom⏩
Lol this is so true, and have caught myself at both ends of this. Remember in college having a drunken hook up with an uggo, or a few dates was never into with someone way below me. Decades later they still ask mutual friends how I’m doing. It’s crazy that they keep literally no space in my brain but am still at the forefront of theirsVery true and good post there is no "one"
But I feel sorry for women, especially low IQ women. I know a few who have had their heart broken by "the one" . Usually it was some absolute Chad, Or Rich Guy or just a man with extremely high SMV who lowered his standards and dated them for a short time before leaving and breaking their heart. They are the guy they always will remember.. when in reality it was just a high SMV male who wanted some action for a while and then bounced lol.
But I feel sorry for women, especially low IQ women. I know a few who have had their heart broken by "the one" . Usually it was some absolute Chad, Or Rich Guy or just a man with extremely high SMV who lowered his standards and dated them for a short time before leaving and breaking their heart. They are the guy they always will remember.. when in reality it was just a high SMV male who wanted some action for a while and then bounced lol.
That said when I was building myself I did date a few women out of my league at the time so know how it is to be on the receiving end when things go south and you think you had something special that wasn’t there at all
Just a massive SMV gap
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Tempted to neg for linking anything from that no-IQ trash site buzzfeed dead fkn srs.
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We’re quoting Buzzfeed articles that parrot Reddit now misc? Pathetic.
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pretty dumb to be worried about it though.
you could literally make up any reason at any time
"he was an mlb player. thought i was getting a doctor"
"he was a doctor. i thought i was getting a chef"
list of things that make you unhappy >>>> happy
list of things you "aren't" >>>> list of things you are
you could literally make up any reason at any time
"he was an mlb player. thought i was getting a doctor"
"he was a doctor. i thought i was getting a chef"
list of things that make you unhappy >>>> happy
list of things you "aren't" >>>> list of things you are
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