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» Do you brahs ever feel lonely? [Serious]
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post 1635972393 04-11-2021, 06:03 PM
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Do you brahs ever feel lonely? [Serious]

I Slept with a prostitute last night. Putting my dick in some whore. Going through the motions. So mechanical. I felt pathetic.

I woke up today and felt lonely and a general sadness. I have had sex with a few girls over the last serval months but they've all been short term and not great.

Prior to that, I was in a relationship with a women I loved, but the women had poor morals so I had to stop seeing her.

I'm not good looking and tall. Sometimes I miss the intimacy and closeness of a relationship.

I see and have witnessed 'Chads' on social media who get laid so easily by just sending a girl a DM.

I shouldn't compare but it does sadden me.

I spend my time lifting weights and following self improvement but I don't think this necessarily fulfills the void from a lack of intimacy, connections, sex and relationships.
post 1635972483 04-11-2021, 06:06 PM
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Yeah, I've def felt lonely lately. Covid eliminated pretty much all of my social circles so I'm in the process of reconnecting with people and starting things fresh. Tough to do without clubs and other nightlife open.
post 1635972553 04-11-2021, 06:07 PM
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never. hard to feel lonely with new, hot, young hole throwing it at me on the daily. sometimes have to get 2 or 3 in on the same dick appointment to keep up and keep the DMs down. these hoes wild man lol
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post 1635973413 04-11-2021, 06:18 PM
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I think alot of people do. We just don’t talk about it much - especially men, who are generally expected to maintain stoicism.
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post 1635973553 04-11-2021, 06:19 PM
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Originally Posted By LightskinSwag
never. hard to feel lonely with new, hot, young hole throwing it at me on the daily. sometimes have to get 2 or 3 in on the same dick appointment to keep up and keep the DMs down. these hoes wild man lol
You're a lucky man.
post 1635974463 04-11-2021, 06:31 PM
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i wake up with my wife, daughter, and my dog smothering me every morning. feels good mane.
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post 1635974623 04-11-2021, 06:34 PM
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post 1635974673 04-11-2021, 06:34 PM
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ofc. i imagine it's impossible for me to not feel alone unless i have someone to confide my true self with someone. everyone is so unique...and not being able to express your self would inevitably lead to a feeling of not being understood or being able to relate with anyone and ultimately loneliness.
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post 1635975003 04-11-2021, 06:38 PM
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Originally Posted By TXBuddy
All day every day.
Originally Posted By Eterniity
ofc. i imagine it's impossible for me to not feel alone unless i have someone to confide my true self with someone. everyone is so unique...and not being able to express your self would inevitably lead to a feeling of not being understood or being able to relate with anyone and ultimately loneliness.
How do you guys deal with it?

I find it difficult to work each day and find motivation because of this lonely feeling. Some days I even feel a tad nostalgic about my old girlfriend from a few years ago. Why can't I be stronger?
post 1635975553 04-11-2021, 06:45 PM
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Originally Posted By LargeCondom
How do you guys deal with it?

I find it difficult to work each day and find motivation because of this lonely feeling. Some days I even feel a tad nostalgic about my old girlfriend from a few years ago. Why can't I be stronger?
Not sure yet. Just moved out of my family home. Alone.
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post 1635975753 04-11-2021, 06:49 PM
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post 1635975913 04-11-2021, 06:51 PM
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Yes, srs

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post 1635976053 04-11-2021, 06:53 PM
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No. Good looking and tall. Been sending girls home lately because they all want to monopolize my time. Have one gorgeous thin girl with a great ass that's dtf daily but I can only deal with her 3-4 nights a week. Get regular txts to hang out from a bunch of exes and get randoms chatting me up all the time, even in front of my regular girl.
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post 1635976203 04-11-2021, 06:55 PM
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Originally Posted By Kev1972
No. Good looking and tall. Been sending girls home lately because they all want to monopolize my time. Have one gorgeous thin girl with a great ass that's dtf daily but I can only deal with her 3-4 nights a week. Get regular txts to hang out from a bunch of exes and get randoms chatting me up all the time, even in front of my regular girl.
Lol, it's tough for me to believe there's some dude in Montana just slaying hot puss all day.....
post 1635976433 04-11-2021, 06:57 PM
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Ya but I’ve gotten pretty good at entertaining myself
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Gf and our dog just moved out of the apartment yesterday, so yeah... the feels haven’t even hit me yet
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post 1635977353 04-11-2021, 07:11 PM
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Originally Posted By Droopdx
Gf and our dog just moved out of the apartment yesterday, so yeah... the feels haven’t even hit me yet
Did you break up?
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tbh I feel lonely in term of friends. I have several friends I chat with but basically no friends that I can physically see, and I miss that, no homo.
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Originally Posted By Parisii
tbh I feel lonely in term of friends. I have several friends I chat with but basically no friends that I can physically see, and I miss that, no homo.
i'll hold u brah
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Originally Posted By Parisii
tbh I feel lonely in term of friends. I have several friends I chat with but basically no friends that I can physically see, and I miss that, no homo.
Lol, same. I have plenty of people I can call/text with. But nobody who I can go have a few beers with.
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Originally Posted By thepissening
i'll hold u brah
Do it brah, srs
Originally Posted By OliverHeldens
Lol, same. I have plenty of people I can call/text with. But nobody who I can go have a few beers with.
No homo I swear but I almost fantasize about having a friend here I could workout with, spar with, hike with. Have drinks and talk about the meaning of life, help eachother with whatever.
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Been very lonely for years except a few times.
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Originally Posted By Parisii
Do it brah, srs



No homo I swear but I almost fantasize about having a friend here I could workout with, spar with, hike with. Have drinks and talk about the meaning of life, help eachother with whatever.
That's called a girlfriend unless you're homo.
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Originally Posted By Kev1972
That's called a girlfriend unless you're homo.
I don't know man, sure I can do all that with my wife, which I do (except for the sparring), but I really miss having a good friend like that. It's not the same.
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I got plenty of friends, but I've really had enough of tfw no gf.
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Occasionally yeah but remember that I have loving friends and family which many people don't have, it could be alot worse.

I don't bother pursuing girls anymore, too much effort and a waste of time if you're not chad.

The only time I feel bad when I bang escorts is if I get bad service, If I get good service I feel on top of the world and don't even think about the money. Besides I love the convenience of whoremaxxing, get to bang HBB sloots whenever I want just by sending a simple text.
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Originally Posted By Parisii
I don't know man, sure I can do all that with my wife, which I do (except for the sparring), but I really miss having a good friend like that. It's not the same.
Can get tricky, my whore ex wood always call me gay for hanging out with my friends over her. Kept the friends, ditched the whore.
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No got used to it being alone when I was a kid. Relationships come and go anyway
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