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post 1636487153 04-18-2021, 07:48 AM
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Should I evict my sister?

my mom died (wooohooo) and I inherited her rental properties. she has 2 4plexes so 8 1 bedroom suites. The bottoms ones are 950/mth and the top are 1050/mth (not sure why - my guess is top is better). They are all full and my sister lives in one of them BUT she only pays 450 for a top floor. I guess our mom gave her a heavy family discount. She is a lazy person. Never had a FT job, fat, no BF, dropped out of school like 3-4 times. Just lives off welfare and disability (mental illness). She is a loser pretty much and parents always paid her way. Well I do not want to support her lazy ass - she can go rent a room for that price. cuz of covid I cant up the rent but I can evict then set it at 1050/mth for new comer. Do you think this is to harsh? I'm basically losing 600/mth with her there.
post 1636487323 04-18-2021, 07:51 AM
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Originally Posted By SettingOff
my mom died (wooohooo) and I inherited her rental properties. she has 2 4plexes so 8 1 bedroom suites. The bottoms ones are 950/mth and the top are 1050/mth (not sure why - my guess is top is better). They are all full and my sister lives in one of them BUT she only pays 450 for a top floor. I guess our mom gave her a heavy family discount. She is a lazy person. Never had a FT job, fat, no BF, dropped out of school like 3-4 times. Just lives off welfare and disability (mental illness). She is a loser pretty much and parents always paid her way. Well I do not want to support her lazy ass - she can go rent a room for that price. cuz of covid I cant up the rent but I can evict then set it at 1050/mth for new comer. Do you think this is to harsh? I'm basically losing 600/mth with her there.
so basically a few extra dollars over family? you must be a standout person lmaoo
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post 1636487443 04-18-2021, 07:53 AM
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Originally Posted By ontclone
so basically a few extra dollars over family? you must be a standout person lmaoo
Imagine treating family with such disdain & then wonder why the world is turning to chit just lmfao
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post 1636488443 04-18-2021, 08:13 AM
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post 1636488503 04-18-2021, 08:13 AM
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Originally Posted By ontclone
so basically a few extra dollars over family? you must be a standout person lmaoo
Originally Posted By hoganrulz
Imagine treating family with such disdain & then wonder why the world is turning to chit just lmfao
a few dollars? its 600 bud. thats a BMW payment. We are not very close. We dont even txt happy bday/merry christmas. I havent even seen her in almost 2 years.
post 1636488523 04-18-2021, 08:14 AM
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Originally Posted By SettingOff
a few dollars? its 600 bud. thats a BMW payment. We are not very close. We dont even txt happy bday/merry christmas. I havent even seen her in almost 2 years.
still a dick move. Your mom gave you those places, you didn't earn it your self. so stick to your mom's word
post 1636488583 04-18-2021, 08:15 AM
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Dude she's on disability, why tf would you do that to your blood. Sorry about your mom but Fuk U !
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Evict your life first
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post 1636489343 04-18-2021, 08:28 AM
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Originally Posted By SettingOff
my mom died (wooohooo) and I inherited her rental properties. she has 2 4plexes so 8 1 bedroom suites. The bottoms ones are 950/mth and the top are 1050/mth (not sure why - my guess is top is better). They are all full and my sister lives in one of them BUT she only pays 450 for a top floor. I guess our mom gave her a heavy family discount. She is a lazy person. Never had a FT job, fat, no BF, dropped out of school like 3-4 times. Just lives off welfare and disability (mental illness). She is a loser pretty much and parents always paid her way. Well I do not want to support her lazy ass - she can go rent a room for that price. cuz of covid I cant up the rent but I can evict then set it at 1050/mth for new comer. Do you think this is to harsh? I'm basically losing 600/mth with her there.
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post 1636489823 04-18-2021, 08:38 AM
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surprised at all the hate. why should I be supporting her laziness? Shes perfectly able to work she just chooses not to and abuses the system. she is heavy liberal BLM supporter and just gets stoned and sits on FB/insta/twitter all day.
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post 1636492703 04-18-2021, 09:35 AM
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Originally Posted By northernlights7
Troll thread, but I'm gonna play devil's advocate on this one anyway.

I never really understood the misc's general mentality on rental pricing for relatives. We've had similar discussions before about what would be fair rental pricing for a gf/bf moving in with you in a home you owned. Like 75%+ of miscers think you should give heavy discounts to people in these types of situations.

That's not at all how I view it. *A* discount of some sort? Yes, probably. But letting someone have a discount of 50% - 60% permanently just because they're related to you? That's total bs, imo. If their entire lifestyle would go down a couple tier without you offering them huge discounts you wouldn't give to anyone else, then that's called freeloading.

If I were OP I'd tell her that her $450 /mo for a $1,050 rental unit won't work going forward, give her two more months of the $450 payments to figure out how she could afford a more fair price, and offer her a 10% discount of $945 /mo rent starting on the third month after the heads up. If she didn't like that, I'd tell her to kick rocks. You're not obligated to completely enable a lazy relative living a cozy lifestyle just because they're related to you. It's not like she'd ever do that (even if she could) for OP, lol.
You're misrepresenting the situation. Its more like, you inherit a property already churning out money & looking after mentally ill family & still coming out green at the end of it. The troll example doesn't include OP sweating to buy the property. Its more a case of, money for nothing & still defying your mothers wishes who bequeathed the property to you in the first place.
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post 1636492863 04-18-2021, 09:39 AM
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1) you're a troll

2) you're an idiot

3) you can not evict due to covid as most states have a moratorium on evictions

4) if she's mentally disabled you probably are too, statistically speaking due to the XX chromosomes in females males are waaaaaaaaaaay more likely to be mentally disabled. Just saying, if your sisters disabled and you're way more likely to be disabled, you probably are and just think you're not.
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post 1636493763 04-18-2021, 09:53 AM
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can't give you a proper answer until i see her pics
post 1636494023 04-18-2021, 09:57 AM
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Originally Posted By SettingOff
surprised at all the hate. why should I be supporting her laziness? Shes perfectly able to work she just chooses not to and abuses the system. she is heavy liberal BLM supporter and just gets stoned and sits on FB/insta/twitter all day.
If she's mentally ill and living off of disability, how is she perfectly able to work? I know people work the system but you haven't provided any evidence of that.
post 1636495243 04-18-2021, 10:19 AM
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Originally Posted By northernlights7
Of course OP is a troll. But do you really think that someone should be expected to give a relative a rental discount of close to 60% indefinitely? Inherited or not, there are still costs associated with maintaining (basic maintenance costs, property taxes, etc.) a rental property. A discount of over 50% seems pretty steep to me. It would be a lot less ridiculous if it were more like 25% or something.

I mean, I get it. Some posters here seem hung up on the fact that the troll hypothetical of the OP supposedly involves a sibling who is "too disabled to work", so they think such a situation warrants indefinite pity rent pricing north of 50% less than what he'd be charging anyone else. But by the same troll example, the sister is supposedly capable of living by herself and taking care of her own basic needs, including paying *some* rent. So just how "disabled" is a person in that situation, exactly? Sounds more like someone who was habitually lazy and entitled in life who had the behavior enabled by a parent, to me. Seems to me like it might actually do her some good to up the standards slightly instead of continuing to enable it forever.

Again, I have to point this out - when push comes to shove, most people wouldn't do that sort of favor to that extent (50%+ rent discount) for the other person if the roles were reversed. OP's troll hypothetical states he is her brother, not her parent. If she's capable of living on her own and doesn't want to pay even 75% of what the rental unit is worth, then IMO it would be completely justified to tell her to kick rocks. Should you help family when you can? Yes, absolutely. Should you enable them to freeload a significantly more comfortable lifestyle off of you just because they don't want to live more modestly or put in the work to pay a somewhat fair rental price? Absolutely not.
Stopped reading because you forgot in OPs example the property is a 3 storey building split in to an apartment per floor. So the assumption is he's turning a profit with the current structure of things.
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lol at people answering seriously to a March 2021 account
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz
Stopped reading because you forgot in OPs example the property is a 3 storey building split in to an apartment per floor. So the assumption is he's turning a profit with the current structure of things.
stopped reading when i saw 850 posts on a 1 month old troll account
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Originally Posted By elterrible987
stopped reading when i saw 850 posts on a 1 month old troll account
I bet Larry Merchant is saying "erik morales is dropping bombs" from beyond the grave right now
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Originally Posted By northernlights7
Sounds more like someone who was habitually lazy and entitled in life who had the behavior enabled by a parent, to me. Seems to me like it might actually do her some good to up the standards slightly instead of continuing to enable it forever.
This guy ****ing gets it. She has been spoiled all her life that is why shes lazy. She dropped out of college 3-4 times and used the student loan money for tattoos/vacations JUST LOL
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why do you even need such measly funds, where is your 10k a day going?
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Originally Posted By SettingOff
my mom died (wooohooo) and I inherited her rental properties. she has 2 4plexes so 8 1 bedroom suites. The bottoms ones are 950/mth and the top are 1050/mth (not sure why - my guess is top is better). They are all full and my sister lives in one of them BUT she only pays 450 for a top floor. I guess our mom gave her a heavy family discount. She is a lazy person. Never had a FT job, fat, no BF, dropped out of school like 3-4 times. Just lives off welfare and disability (mental illness). She is a loser pretty much and parents always paid her way. Well I do not want to support her lazy ass - she can go rent a room for that price. cuz of covid I cant up the rent but I can evict then set it at 1050/mth for new comer. Do you think this is to harsh? I'm basically losing 600/mth with her there.
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The biggest favor you can do your sister is to evict her or charge her full rent.

Check the lease for terms. If there is no lease then you have to give 30-60 days notice, depending on your location, then she either leaves or signs a new lease. If she doesn't after the written notice then you can start the eviction process.

In fact, in most places you can legally mandate a new lease when the property changes hands.

Source: Chadlord

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Wait why did you inherit your mom's rental all by yourself? Shouldn't a dead parent's things be distributed evenly among their kids? YOu should give half of those rental units to your sister you greedy bastard.
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Originally Posted By Quiggie
Wait why did you inherit your mom's rental all by yourself? Shouldn't a dead parent's things be distributed evenly among their kids? YOu should give half of those rental units to your sister you greedy bastard.
If his mom was smart enough to have a few quadplexes then she was probably smart enough to write her worthless daughter out of the will.
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How's the relationship? If it's decent, let her stay. If she puts forth NO effort, kick her the phuck out till things change.
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Originally Posted By northernlights7
I never really understood the misc's general mentality on rental pricing for relatives.
Misc used to be full of boomers srs

Like "I moved out at 18 so everyone should do it because it taught me responsibility" type chit. Now everyone on misc supports family first which is a good change.

Was already responsible with money since birth, so don't need anymore bs in life.
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Yes. Tell her to stop being a lazy fuk.. coddled
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Woohooing your mom dying and putting your mentally disabled sister out on her ass? Can't be srs. 2021 join dates have to be the lamest batch of "newcomers" I've seen in my many years on this site. But it's mostly just "salty" alts.
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Originally Posted By ontclone
so basically a few extra dollars over family? you must be a standout person lmaoo
Originally Posted By hoganrulz
Imagine treating family with such disdain & then wonder why the world is turning to chit just lmfao
Originally Posted By Anachron
Troll thread.
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