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ยป Not being love/accepted/validated during growing up/teenage years = ****ed for life?
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post 1637883863 05-06-2021, 01:00 AM
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Not being love/accepted/validated during growing up/teenage years = ****ed for life?

Very serious thread. I'm hoping there are some on here that can resonate with me.
I think so many bodybuilders fall into this category. SO many girls as well. I know because I seem to attact them because I operate on the same level as they are..

I think my life got ****ed because during my teenage years and growing up I was super ugly. Also I'm 90% sure my mum is a narcissist. Anyway i always felt incredibly insecure, despite hooking up with a few girls i was always short of love/valdation/attention..

So i turned to bodybuilding and looksmaxxng but all it did was make me narcissistic and devoid / emotionally stunted as human being.

I feel as if so many guys are like this. Chestbrah a good example, Zyzz etc.

There are tonnes of grls like this as well. Have you ever met a girl who used to be fat then got fit? They are completely screwed in the head. They are absolutely addicted to the attention they get that they never got when they were a fat ugly teenager. Despite beng fit they are still desperate for attention.

I think there shoud be a study on this or something.. absolutely destroyed self esteem for life / you're ****ed for life if you didn't get validated as a teenager (Srs)
post 1637883973 05-06-2021, 01:03 AM
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Teenage years are awkward for everyone; hormones make you go through mood changes throughout puberty



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You seem surprised that focusing only on yourself turns you into a narcissistic douche nugget

LOL @ listening to a single word of advice from this mentally ill forum
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post 1637884343 05-06-2021, 01:15 AM
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I mean yeah feeling unaccepted or unverified can have a negative affect on your life at any point in life but as long as you address those issues it shouldn't cause long term problems but it can be challenging to overcome and the longer you wait the harder it is in my opinion.
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