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post 1639854693 05-31-2021, 04:45 PM
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Lonely as fuk

Moved out to Vancouver to better my life, my employer gave me the opportunity (always wanted to live in van) and to be with my girlfriend (who I broke up with over a month ago)

Was working so much since the breakup that it never hit me but I’ve got no one out here now and it sucks.

I usually thrive being alone, but I’ve got more good friends back home than I can count and could surround myself with them when I felt like this

Been going on dates with some great girls but have no desire to pursue anything with any of them.

Dear diary
What do to shake this ?
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post 1639854773 05-31-2021, 04:46 PM
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try men
HTC is too skinny for me. Fat Girls only crew. serious
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post 1639854793 05-31-2021, 04:46 PM
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I'll hold you bb, but you gotta promise not to make it gay or weird or anything.
post 1639854843 05-31-2021, 04:47 PM
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man cannot live by bread alone.
post 1639854873 05-31-2021, 04:48 PM
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Join the club ****aroonie. Not like you couldn't have some pussy from Tinder over within the hour.
post 1639854953 05-31-2021, 04:48 PM
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Stay busy and work hard af.
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post 1639854983 05-31-2021, 04:48 PM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
Join the club ****aroonie. Not like you couldn't have some pussy from Tinder over within the hour.
Getting sick of smashing sloots tbh brah

Never thought I’d see the day, maybe I’m just in a funk today
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post 1639855023 05-31-2021, 04:49 PM
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Nature brother, spend some time in it if you haven't already.

Always clears whatever anger I'm feeling right up, and if that's not enough then hitting the MMA gym will get the job done.
post 1639855063 05-31-2021, 04:49 PM
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Originally Posted By backinthegymbro⏩
Stay busy and work hard af.
Just finished working 5 weeks straight brah
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post 1639855103 05-31-2021, 04:50 PM
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Originally Posted By ramimotemem⏩
Nature brother, spend some time in it if you haven't already.

Always clears whatever anger I'm feeling right up, and if that's not enough then hitting the MMA gym will get the job done.
Was considering joining an mma or boxing gym tbh

On my way to soak in some nature right now
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post 1639855123 05-31-2021, 04:50 PM
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drink the pain away
post 1639855163 05-31-2021, 04:50 PM
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maybe you miss your old girlfriend and are afraid to admit it? don't know what you got until it's gone.
post 1639855173 05-31-2021, 04:51 PM
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grass is always greener brah.

i bet if you were to move home right now, you would start to miss the life you have now. dedsrs
post 1639855183 05-31-2021, 04:51 PM
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If you've been in constant motion and this is just now "hitting" you, it might be time to stop and let it catch you.

I'm not saying wallow in depression, but if you've been in denial/avoiding something it is better to stop and look at it head on. If you just sit in the fire for an evening you may wake with a new perspective.

PM me if you need someone brother 100% ded srs.
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post 1639855193 05-31-2021, 04:51 PM
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Lmfao imagine whining about how lonely you are on a gay bodybuilding forum
post 1639855233 05-31-2021, 04:52 PM
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Hang in there brother. It's easy to say but harder to do -- staying busy is very helpful. Lift, church, reading, hiking, doggo, going to bars (lol) and chasing skirt are pretty much all I have right now outside of work, and I'm only working 2-3 hrs a day


we all gonna make it (ded fkn Srs)
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~It's up to you to fix your life crew~
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post 1639855253 05-31-2021, 04:52 PM
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Have a family. It's the only way.
post 1639855273 05-31-2021, 04:52 PM
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX⏩
maybe you miss your old girlfriend and are afraid to admit it? don't know what you got until it's gone.
I can easily admit that I miss her
I was fukn up and let her go for her good not mine
Originally Posted By guitarman420⏩
grass is always greener brah.

i bet if you were to move home right now, you would start to miss the life you have now. dedsrs
Definitely agree with you there, I needed out of my home town
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post 1639855323 05-31-2021, 04:53 PM
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Originally Posted By RealAesthetic⏩
Was considering joining an mma or boxing gym tbh

On my way to soak in some nature right now
Do it srs, you will also enjoy the community and have the potential to make good bros. Nothing like beating each other up to form strong bonds. I'd say go to trial classes before signing a contract, to make sure the teachers are good and the people helpful.

Das it
post 1639855383 05-31-2021, 04:54 PM
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Feels. I went loner mode as a college undergrad, but started building a friend circle up in grad school. I had a Rolodex of maybe a dozen names I could text and just chat up about random chit, had a couple guys I could drink and party with.... then I moved out to California for a job and lost all of it. No friends out here, only people I talk to are coworkers (all male, all middle aged, 90% Indian), and IDK how to go about building another social circle.
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post 1639855423 05-31-2021, 04:54 PM
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Originally Posted By FoxMcCocks⏩
Lmfao imagine whining about how lonely you are on a gay bodybuilding forum
At least I’m comfortable openly admitting it and not trolling anonymously
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post 1639855463 05-31-2021, 04:55 PM
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Originally Posted By MrBourbon⏩
If you've been in constant motion and this is just now "hitting" you, it might be time to stop and let it catch you.

I'm not saying wallow in depression, but if you've been in denial/avoiding something it is better to stop and look at it head on. If you just sit in the fire for an evening you may wake with a new perspective.

PM me if you need someone brother 100% ded srs.
It’s definitely got me thinking about things I should have thought about long ago

Thanks brother
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post 1639855573 05-31-2021, 04:56 PM
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Originally Posted By RealAesthetic⏩
Getting sick of smashing sloots tbh brah

Never thought I’d see the day, maybe I’m just in a funk today
Grass is greener. It comes in waves. Sometimes I feel like I want a GF and other times I'm happy I'm single. If it's socializing aspect you're missing, just go to a convention/event that interests you. Example I was feeling lonely the other day and I enjoy Hawaiin music so last week I went to a restaurant event that was promoting their food with live Hawaiian music. None of my buddies wanted to go so I went alone and I met a few people and it was nice.
post 1639855613 05-31-2021, 04:56 PM
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It’s simple but time heals all wounds brah. You’ll feel alright eventually and you’ll have on/off days. Just for the love of god don’t let yourself turn into sandman. Stick it out for the time being because if you move back home you’ll wanna be back where you are now. Gotta find happiness in yourself rather than relying on friends/family to bring it....of course they’re great BUT if you can get yourself in a good head space out there ok your own in these dark times you can do anything in life srs.
post 1639855663 05-31-2021, 04:57 PM
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She was the best man
post 1639855673 05-31-2021, 04:57 PM
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Having no friends is brootal
post 1639855713 05-31-2021, 04:57 PM
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You should go check out downtown eastside OP I've heard it's one of the friendliest neighborhoods in all of Vancouver.
post 1639855773 05-31-2021, 04:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Austin317⏩
It’s simple but time heals all wounds brah. You’ll feel alright eventually and you’ll have on/off days. Just for the love of god don’t let yourself turn into sandman. Stick it out for the time being because if you move back home you’ll wanna be back where you are now. Gotta find happiness in yourself rather than relying on friends/family to bring it....of course they’re great BUT if you can get yourself in a good head space out there ok your own in these dark times you can do anything in life srs.
Lmao thanks brah not gonna turn into a sandman

You’re right though, I’m on my way to the city right now to clear my head
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post 1639855983 05-31-2021, 05:02 PM
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What do you do for work in Van brah? Currently looking for a new job in the city. If all pans out we can be bros. Haha
post 1639855993 05-31-2021, 05:03 PM
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Originally Posted By gainslit⏩
What do you do for work in Van brah? Currently looking for a new job in the city. If all pans out we can be bros. Haha
I build and work on cellphone towers brah

Cmon out
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