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post 1640033303 06-03-2021, 04:57 AM
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Girl just being nice or am I missing the signals?

Basically I had a pretty awkward meeting with this girl a couple of months ago
I thought she wasnt into me and decided to pretty much NC or give short answers if she would text me
She later asked me to meet again but I said no cuz of how awkward it was last time
Fast foward to summer, im feeling kinda horny and I also want to practice my social skills so I hit her up again
I basically come up with a bs excuse of being busy with studies for the last 3 months, she buys it
Shes overly nice and offers her reading notes for an upcomming exam (I have never given her anything).
Then discussing when to meet, she changes from "I can meet by this date" to "Maybe I can be done early and we can meet before"
I know these are small things, but it does she has been wanting to hang out more than I expected.

Either way Im gonna meet her for the social skills upgrade, but yall think shes being overly nice or normal?
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post 1640033513 06-03-2021, 05:04 AM
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stop pron
and stop fapping
and then hit on her and test her waters
ist shallow or deep, ask her about her sexual past...
this can push the relation forward.. dont be direct
but ask her how many glue has been swallowed in this plandemic FLU?

glue =cum in
chicks lingo
post 1640033593 06-03-2021, 05:06 AM
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Originally Posted By Kiop
stop pron
and stop fapping
and then hit on her and test her waters
ist shallow or deep, ask her about her sexual past...
this can push the relation forward.. dont be direct
but ask her how many glue has been swallowed in this plandemic FLU?

glue =cum in
chicks lingo
What a beautiful poem my friend, If I had rep I would give u a full charge.

M' lady have thou swallowed any glue in this pandemic flu,
Have thou layed with men before you prayed?
I can be the one to test your waters as im ever thirsy
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post 1640033633 06-03-2021, 05:07 AM
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“Practice my social skills...”
post 1640033873 06-03-2021, 05:11 AM
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Tell us why it was awkward when you met her
post 1640034043 06-03-2021, 05:15 AM
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post 1640034273 06-03-2021, 05:20 AM
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If you level up your social skill a few more times you will have the chance to unlock the "Normal human Interaction" trait.

I'm just playin brah good luck, she seems keen enough
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post 1640034463 06-03-2021, 05:27 AM
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Originally Posted By kingofsthetics
Tell us why it was awkward when you met her
Started off with me forcing a hug when I saw her, almost breaking her earphones.
Probably the most awkward way ive met a person in years
Then while we walking and **** I just feel like she kept looking at her phone and not very good at carrying the conversation
We never connected on a deeper level and it felt like she left early randomly
Also previously whenever I tried to flirt on text, she would kind of talk around it or change subject
So yeah I thought it was a complete disaster, I have no idea why she still wanted to meet me again later.
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post 1640035063 06-03-2021, 05:44 AM
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Originally Posted By Poodleman
Started off with me forcing a hug when I saw her, almost breaking her earphones.
Probably the most awkward way ive met a person in years
Then while we walking and **** I just feel like she kept looking at her phone and not very good at carrying the conversation
We never connected on a deeper level and it felt like she left early randomly
Also previously whenever I tried to flirt on text, she would kind of talk around it or change subject
So yeah I thought it was a complete disaster, I have no idea why she still wanted to meet me again later.
Sounds like she is weird as hell
Why would she wear headphones in the first place
Tell her that next time she should think twice on how to behave next to someone who wants to meet you, wheter youre shy or not
post 1640035333 06-03-2021, 05:52 AM
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you sound autistic
You guys, I'm seriously
post 1640035423 06-03-2021, 05:55 AM
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You are a miscer, and sound like a sperg.

With signals like that I'd be miscing from her bed right now while she drips my baby batter.
See BrianDaMans sig.

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post 1640035523 06-03-2021, 05:59 AM
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Did not read..

Go for it bro. The thing that has hurt me the most is this self talk "does she like me, she doesnt like me, oh wait, she likes me! wait, does she like me?" At that point its way too late and you missed any chance you had....

Dont have any ****ing regrets bro. Go full speed 100%. Who gives a **** what she thinks. There is no nice. If shes meeting up then its go time. Dont live your life with someone elses voices. Girls know when you are interested and too scared to make a move, so dont be the laugh of the week. Any reasonable girl is going to respect you for making a move even if shes not interested.
post 1640042293 06-03-2021, 07:57 AM
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Originally Posted By user3657
Did not read..

Go for it bro. The thing that has hurt me the most is this self talk "does she like me, she doesnt like me, oh wait, she likes me! wait, does she like me?" At that point its way too late and you missed any chance you had....

Dont have any ****ing regrets bro. Go full speed 100%. Who gives a **** what she thinks. There is no nice. If shes meeting up then its go time. Dont live your life with someone elses voices. Girls know when you are interested and too scared to make a move, so dont be the laugh of the week. Any reasonable girl is going to respect you for making a move even if shes not interested.
Thanks bro, I gotta go for it for sure. Thats why im gonna meet up no matter what. Good motivation
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post 1640047833 06-03-2021, 09:15 AM
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Originally Posted By Poodleman
Started off with me forcing a hug when I saw her, almost breaking her earphones.
Probably the most awkward way ive met a person in years
Then while we walking and **** I just feel like she kept looking at her phone and not very good at carrying the conversation
We never connected on a deeper level and it felt like she left early randomly
Also previously whenever I tried to flirt on text, she would kind of talk around it or change subject
So yeah I thought it was a complete disaster, I have no idea why she still wanted to meet me again later.
Sounds like she had other options at the time and now those options have left so yea
Hard pill to swallow but go smash while the iron is hot
post 1640047923 06-03-2021, 09:17 AM
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Originally Posted By LethalGunz34
“Practice my social skills...”
lmao this says it all
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