SO i keep seeing these thread where we are berating dead and ex-pornstars, etc for being that way and suffering from addictions, etc, and some of the posts aree a bit too ruthless.

Like i have friends and stuff who have suffered from addiction and depression and various mental health issues, and they could have died from the amount of stuff they used so i know it's kind of their fault, but then again it wasn't really, but then again it was coz they were scummy to begin with.

Sometimes i feel the misc is really harsh with their judgements as if they are perfect.

Misc is where we come to be arrogant supremacists and project on others like we would never actually do IRL.

Sadly, many people have tragic lives. Many good people will die in a tragic way too. It is the way of life, especially in modern times.

You're saying you had a tragic life? Because a few friends had addiction and depression issues?

Have had a pretty comfortable life so far with a good family even tho we arent rich. Watched that movie monster recently and realised sometimes for some people they never stand a chance. Be grateful boyos, we're all gonna make it

I grew up with an alcoholic/drug addicted single Mother who was prone to psychotic episodes of meaningless violence, and she died when I was 14, so I guess I fall into that camp a little. It's just a case where I accept that reality is fukked up and became emotionally independent but probably to the point where it's harder to connect with people.

I never had much of a tragic life in childhood or now. Just a weird life.
Sometimes I wonder what the cost-benefits are of having had a tragic life vs a life without tragedy. A life with tragedy tends to make you less naive and more certain of what you value in life. But it is painful and can leave scars that take time to heal. A life without tragedy is decent and can still include meaningful life challenges. But one tends to be more naive. I definitely sometimes wonder if I haven't proven myself to life by living a life with more tragedy and suffering.
I can eat an ice cream cone while the guy next to me has none. Even if it makes it harder to eat I can still enjoy the ice cream. But am I perhaps less suited for survival and thriving in life than the other guy? The other guy knows what it is to live without ice cream.
I can't say that I would know whether to trade places with the icecreamless guy or not.