after long consideration i decided it was best to break up with her,

wasent easy to do cause i love the girl. but she clearly puts others before her kids and before me, me i could deal with but a parents kids should always come first

she has threatned suicide many times in the past when id try to break up. all she had to do was answer the phone like a mature adult and say my son was ok and so was she and things would have been fine, but she chose the turn the phone off. she self harms. she is violent, just like her ex. they have a 5 year old together and hes a great kid but he has been damaged already by their lunacy and idiotic behavior. he punches bhis grandmother his grandfather, he talks back to his mother, he beat up the little girl that lives next door all because he seen his pos dad beat her up and punch holes in walls (that dont hit back) and kick in tvs, this is a guy that biught a plastic wwf belt lol and carried it around.


but i dont want my son ROUND THE INSANITY. i want him raised right. proper. not around violence and arguing, i waited 47 years to have a family the right way and i got to deal with such lunacy, my son is perfect i named him after a great man. micah torrence, if you ever watched the rifleman you know who he is. he will be able to brag about that ti his friends one day

but anyways im still waiting for the police to get back to me to let me know they are safe. sad it had to come to this.

but ill be a single father and ill be the best at it.

fuark, that sucks

Strong command of the english language.

Are you saying your son lives with his mother and her psycho boyfriend's crackbabies, and you find living without a strong man he's related to is unhealthy? Yes.

He should never spend any time around men in these positions. Or really without a strong father or male relative.

What a cluster****. Damn op I’m sorry you and your son are going through this

no i dont make uo bullchit on ppl. hes never done drugs as far as i know, just was a violent pos who beat her up in front of kid and now he has mental issues and needs a shrink at 5 years old.


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Sounds hopeless to find your son a niche in a household with these two people. He should live with you.

thanks bro but he will be fine. id walk to hell and back to make sure he will be fine.. hes not going to be damaged by the time he is 5. ill go to court if i have to to protect him.

i named him micah torrence for a reason. i missed my dreams and my purpose in life, but he wont and im going to make sure he makes it. that means sound mind and body,self discipline, honor, integrity, respect for authority , a love to bully the bullies not be the bully.

his life is going to have purpose. meaning, and i wont fail him.

sorry you're going through this brother, sounds tough, but you have a good mentality. we all gonna make it

Church might give him a place to focus positive energy. Mind the obvious concerns there. It can ground him independent of the household.

You shouldn’t have to deal with that kind of **** at 47.

How old is your kid?

You should try and get custody of you have the means.

Don't get mixed into their world/drama just get your child out of there. Get a a good lawyer and get full custody.

Good luck.

he will be a year old in sept.

god gave him to me for a reason,. this is one time i will not fail in my duties

Wait, why is your son with your ex-gf?

she is my ex as of tonight. i broke up with her tonight. she is the mother