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post 1641114273 06-17-2021, 08:31 PM
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Anyone else have no purpose in life?

I don't even know why I am alive. I literally just read the news everyday hoping to see that the apocalypse has started.

I have no friends and will probably never get married SRS. 26 and never had a girlfriend. I have a meaningless job as a software developer that pays decent but it's fully remote so I don't meet people at work. I just work from home everyday so it's chill but I literally have no social life. I just go for walks through the park like 3 times a day. Feel like I am just a rotting piece of flesh.
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well maybe you shood try to bang chicks, suck tits and lick clits
post 1641114383 06-17-2021, 08:34 PM
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There is no meaning to life. Your Dad spermed you into the World because he was horny. End of story
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post 1641114403 06-17-2021, 08:34 PM
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post 1641114483 06-17-2021, 08:36 PM
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So do something different?

Any reason you can't just drop your chains and walk away into a new life?

What's holding you down?
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post 1641114573 06-17-2021, 08:38 PM
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
So do something different?

Any reason you can't just drop your chains and walk away into a new life?

What's holding you down?
I am pretty sure this is just who I am. 99% sure my dopamine reward system is ****ed because I don't feel pleasure from anything. I can't even watch tv in my free time. I just stare at the wall for hours SRS.
post 1641114603 06-17-2021, 08:38 PM
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Originally Posted By SevenFigures⏩
I don't even know why I am alive. I literally just read the news everyday hoping to see that the apocalypse has started.

I have no friends and will probably never get married SRS. 26 and never had a girlfriend. I have a meaningless job as a software developer that pays decent but it's fully remote so I don't meet people at work. I just work from home everyday so it's chill but I literally have no social life. I just go for walks through the park like 3 times a day. Feel like I am just a rotting piece of flesh.
get a dog or cat
post 1641114693 06-17-2021, 08:39 PM
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Originally Posted By SevenFigures⏩
I don't even know why I am alive. I literally just read the news everyday hoping to see that the apocalypse has started.

I have no friends and will probably never get married SRS. 26 and never had a girlfriend. I have a meaningless job as a software developer that pays decent but it's fully remote so I don't meet people at work. I just work from home everyday so it's chill but I literally have no social life. I just go for walks through the park like 3 times a day. Feel like I am just a rotting piece of flesh.
do you lift? Sounds like you just lack confidence
post 1641114763 06-17-2021, 08:41 PM
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It's a shame you feel this way but i don't blame you. 60 plus years of the cultural revolution has reached it's end goal, nihilistic males with nothing to live for and nothing to die for except for buying useless junk to get that small endorphin rush, looking at porn or trying to get laid.

You know what needs to be done but it's so much easier to do nothing.
post 1641114823 06-17-2021, 08:42 PM
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this life is a blind test , if you're good you will go to heaven
post 1641114833 06-17-2021, 08:42 PM
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post 1641114993 06-17-2021, 08:45 PM
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Originally Posted By carcano69⏩
get a dog or cat
I hate pets SRS. There is something wrong with me.
post 1641115083 06-17-2021, 08:47 PM
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No one has a purpose. They just fool themselves Into thinking they do so they don’t put a bullet in their heads
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post 1641115363 06-17-2021, 08:51 PM
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My purpose in life is to try to attract women, without talking to me.

For example, walking around shirtless.

Or, doing push-ups in a park or playground if there will be girls that can be watching.
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post 1641115393 06-17-2021, 08:52 PM
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Originally Posted By SevenFigures⏩
I am pretty sure this is just who I am. 99% sure my dopamine reward system is ****ed because I don't feel pleasure from anything. I can't even watch tv in my free time. I just stare at the wall for hours SRS.
Hmm...history of substance abuse? Asking because of dopamine reference.

Kind of sounds like depression or dysthmia:
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/art...isorder#causes

Could be you made a rough start in this life and might be diagnosed as having a type of PTSD:
Some may forget traumatic events (even if they knew of them once before), relive them intrusively, recall traumatic material in a different chronological order, or other distressing experiences of what is called dissociation. Dissociation is a symptom that exists on a spectrum, ranging anywhere from harmless daydreaming or temporarily "spacing out"; to more disruptive episodes of feeling disconnected from one's body or mental processes, not feeling real, or losing time;
Is there nothing that get you going? Makes you feel alive?

Intense exercise maybe? Risk taking? Seeing other people happy?
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post 1641115633 06-17-2021, 08:55 PM
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post 1641115673 06-17-2021, 08:56 PM
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Originally Posted By SevenFigures⏩
I don't even know why I am alive. I literally just read the news everyday hoping to see that the apocalypse has started.

I have no friends and will probably never get married SRS. 26 and never had a girlfriend. I have a meaningless job as a software developer that pays decent but it's fully remote so I don't meet people at work. I just work from home everyday so it's chill but I literally have no social life. I just go for walks through the park like 3 times a day. Feel like I am just a rotting piece of flesh.
The right girl would give your life meaning in a flash. Work towards attracting a girl. Humans can’t be solitary for too long.
post 1641116313 06-17-2021, 09:10 PM
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
Hmm...history of substance abuse? Asking because of dopamine reference.

Kind of sounds like depression or dysthmia:
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/art...isorder#causes

Could be you made a rough start in this life and might be diagnosed as having a type of PTSD:



Is there nothing that get you going? Makes you feel alive?

Intense exercise maybe? Risk taking? Seeing other people happy?
I used to abuse ADHD meds. Would take like 200 mg vvanse and drink 4 cups of coffee. That would always make me feel alive.

I did have kind of a traumatic childhood.

I never enjoyed exercising or lifting. Lost interest in video games like 10 years ago. I watch other people play them and don't understand why they seem to be so into it. Same with sports. I am not competitive at all and couldn't care less about losing a game of football.

I do enjoy skiing a little bit, but rarely get to do that. Mostly I just read the news and watch for signs that the world is ending.
post 1641116343 06-17-2021, 09:11 PM
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Originally Posted By gainslit⏩
The right girl would give your life meaning in a flash. Work towards attracting a girl. Humans can’t be solitary for too long.


Looking for a relationship to fix your life is a very bad idea.

If you want to work on something external maybe try some type of sport or volunteer work. Group activities IOW.
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post 1641116383 06-17-2021, 09:11 PM
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Get some bloodwork done.
post 1641116453 06-17-2021, 09:13 PM
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Originally Posted By gainslit⏩
The right girl would give your life meaning in a flash. Work towards attracting a girl. Humans can’t be solitary for too long.
It's too hard. I am very average looking and have a hard time connecting with woman(it's hard to connect with them when they aren't attracted to you). I've already accepted ill be single forever. Not a big deal tbh

Took a girl out and she accused me of spiking her drink.
post 1641116513 06-17-2021, 09:14 PM
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩


Looking for a relationship to fix your life is a very bad idea.

If you want to work on something external maybe try some type of sport or volunteer work. Group activities IOW.
I dunno I’d be depressed at ops age if I had never had a girlfriend before, even if the rest of my life was sweet
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Originally Posted By SevenFigures⏩
It's too hard. I am very average looking and have a hard time connecting with woman(it's hard to connect with them when they aren't attracted to you). I've already accepted ill be single forever. Not a big deal tbh

Took a girl out and she accused me of spiking her drink.
Don't you have any males idols like Bruce Lee, Chuck Norris, Kevin Sorbo, or Michael Jai White?

For the movies they play at least.
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post 1641116723 06-17-2021, 09:19 PM
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Originally Posted By SevenFigures⏩
I used to abuse ADHD meds. Would take like 200 mg vvanse and drink 4 cups of coffee. That would always make me feel alive.

I did have kind of a traumatic childhood.

I never enjoyed exercising or lifting. Lost interest in video games like 10 years ago. I watch other people play them and don't understand why they seem to be so into it. Same with sports. I am not competitive at all and couldn't care less about losing a game of football.

I do enjoy skiing a little bit, but rarely get to do that. Mostly I just read the news and watch for signs that the world is ending.
Do you have ADD? Might want to do some reading at ADDittude. And there is a huge GB group called ADD and Chill.

Why do you rarely get to ski? Maybe you should take some time off from the news.

If you aren't really enjoying the life you have then what about making a life that lets you spend more time skiing?

Happen to just post this here recently:


Not that it has to be that extreme [full time skiing].
Originally Posted By ohiostate124⏩
Get some bloodwork done.
Absolutely worth checking out.

ETA: And this OP if you think that you may have a history of trauma-

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/...eeps-the-score
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post 1641116853 06-17-2021, 09:22 PM
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post 1641116923 06-17-2021, 09:24 PM
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Dude i have a good life but still can't find a purpose. Everything just went south for me in late 2014 and i don't know why. I've only improved myself since then too.
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Dude i have a good life but still can't find a purpose. Everything just went south for me in late 2014 and i don't know why. I've only improved myself since then too.
You misspelled 2012
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Originally Posted By AMDuser⏩
Damn I thought Putin was pretty damn cool until I read this.

I was thinking what his wife thought about this, but then I looked it up and found out that he divorced.

This man has the world swinging from his nuts, but he is not happy. I think he traded love for money and power.

I would not want to switch places with him. Most of all, I am concerned for the Russian people.
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Try to get out and meet people bro
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