I'm legit retarded when it comes to girls now, before my heart was broken I had a kinda savage carefree attitude girls clearly liked. Now it's like they sense the desperation on me. I just don't have "it" anymore, my soul was taken

Man I miss being cuddled at night. Man I miss getting my dink touched in public and being given the "I'm gonna suck your dink so hard when we get inside" look

She was the best man

-bulldog

Tinder

Whales and single mums. Brutal and not the same

I've done really well on Tinder but found it depends heavily on location.

Brah, it is easy. Just need to go up to them and say hi. All about the confidence........

this
cold approaching will work assuming you look decent

stop caring

Basically deep into a relationship, a lot of us become "domesticated." It's a slow process. It's complacency, comfort, etc. For some, they go "full BETA." For others, they just become a bit lazy / complacent.

Usually when a relationship has that deep of an effect, where you have sort of eased up a bit, it means it was so long, culture and society has changed somewhat dramatically. Even in a year or two, the dating culture completely shifts. If you've been in a relationship for a good chunk of 2010 - 2020, and were to be single now? Your mind would be blown.

Wait it out. You aren't over her yet. Eventually, you will be.

I'm convinced girls have a 6th sense for knowing when you're available and when you're not.

She was the best man

Step 1 get in excellent shape. Lift erryday and get you t levels 1000% up
Step 2 get a good fitted outfit. A nice fitting t shirt and jeans are fine just make sure they fit perfect
Step 3 approach every single decent looking girl and ask for digits

Girls are never mean if you're not a creep and decent looking. Worst you'll hear is 'no thanks jeff'

My goto used to be 'hey I never do this but you seem like someone I'd like to get to know. I'm in a rush right now but could I get your number?' Do it with a smile and make eye contact.

The first few your heart will race and you will be nervous af. After 10 you will literally give no phucks. After 50 you will have too many numbers and need to cycle through those sloots before doing this again.

Edit: I've been out of the dating game for 5 years but why tf would any male use tinder? So much easier to get girls IRL. Plus when getting numbers IRL out of 10 girls 6 would actually meet up. Tinder is like 1 in 100 from what I see from other miscers. Men are such *******s these days. BRB too scared to approach so going to use an app I'll get rejected on anyway but at least I don't have to make eye contact derp.

talk to them ? lol

you have to look nice too

Miscers commonly leave out the bolded part.

Same way you got the last one. Grab yourself by the balls and talk to women.

This. Gotta learn the new game OP.


Adapt or become an incel

Post Covid, everyone is still a bit autistic. I'm in the same boat after a "relationship" that kinda fuked with my head. But admittedly that chit has been over for a couple months now so I should be back to normal.

Just get out there and start talking to people again. Confidence will come.

I like what you say, but don't lift everyday let your muscles heal.