Anyone ever successfully done it? Whats the move here?
There is a small town local country music festival next month that my ex gf will be bartending at. Do I bring another girl to try to make her jealous? Do I show up with my boys and just have a good time and hope to make my move later in the night with a dance or hook up? Never done this before. Ive always just moved on to other girls

Sorry long read:
OP is a player fukboy type. Rarely does girlfriends. Never cared for it. Always goes for college girls or milfs
Girl the same age as OP comes along. Feminine, conservative, submissive, cooks, cleans, doesnt attention whore on social media, gave me all the codes and passwords to her phone even though I never asked for it or used it. Actually invests her own money into me showering me with gifts and paying for some dates. Low notch count and doesnt sleep around.
She had very high interest and pursued me hard. Did all the chasing. Saw her and other girls for about 3 months before she did the "what are we talk" Became exclusive. Dated 6 months.

Looking back I was the stereotype emotionally unavailable toxic bad boy that girls cant get enough of
Met her family, but never introduced her to mine
Broke up with her the day before valentines day for no good reason. All her friends hated me now
She never stopped texting me and came back 2 weeks later. Dated for another 3 months without the official relationship title. Caused some drama between her and her friends. I self sabatoged and pushed her away breaking up with her again
She texted me here and there, but I ignored her. Did my thing for a month. Hooking up with tons of girls mostly 18-22 year old college....... but now its soooo empty. I have fun during the act obviously, but the second I am finished I feel disgusted with myself and want the girl gone asap. I
now see how people saying casual sex gets old.

Cant get ex gf out of my head. Its not even the sex I miss. Its the little things like just hanging out, cuddling... I was never a cuddler before her, the way she held my hand while she slept like we were otters or some ****. Her laugh. Just driving around with her. Coming up from behind and hugging her. I think I might actually love this girl.... I never told her that though
I did some work on myself and reached out. We hung out and I apologized. She was colder than I expected. Admittedly she had made it so easy for me before and was madly in love with me so part of me assumed I would just apologize and it would all be good.
She said I hurt her and she is not ready to starting hanging out or seeing each other again, but could be open to it again in the future. She said she is not where she wants to be physically and wants to get back in shape before she can explore weather we can work out again... She is not ready for me to see her naked....I had made a comment months back that she had put on a few pounds and she is super insecure about that apparently.

We text sporadically with most of the time her reaching out first. She is hot and cold though. She watches all my instagram stories. I dont watch any of hers. I have been skydiving, swimming with sharks, traveling to mexico, florida, etc. Making sure to put it on insta so she sees it. She made a comment that she is jealous seeing me do all these adventures.... which is exactly what I was hoping for. Was sending me some sexy snaps for the first time yesterday, but now says she was drunk and doesnt remember doing it. Obviously I know not to be clingy or blow up her phone or anything. With girls less is more. Ive just been playing it cool. Maybe I dont deserve another chance, But I want this girl back. What do misc?


Cliffs:
OP is player fuk boy type
Great girl comes along and pursues me hard.
Dates for about a year total
Girl is totally obsessed with and in love with op
Op is toxic emotionally unavailable bad boy. Breaks girls heart for no real good reason
Now op has worked on himself, apologized, and wants girl back
Girl doesnt seem totally against it, but is hot and cold

tl;dr, but since you broke her heart for no reason I hope you get together and every time before sex you eat her out without knowing she was creampied by another dude 2 hours ago and didn't wash chit.

If we get back together I will keep her in Wincel's basement when I am not around. There will be no sex or creampies to worry about

You probably made her turn gay

Just move on and let her go

Even if you got back together, she’d never trust you again

She was the best man

if you're the one who broke her heart it might workout

She was the best, man

You can't go home again

.let it go OP. Maybe reconnect as friends further on in life. But let it go.