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post 1642752163 07-13-2021, 10:00 AM
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where is it socially acceptable to hit up women for a date?

in this meetoo and feminist culture, im kinda at a loss on where i can a meet a woman, talk to her with the intentions of getting a date, and ask her out.

then sometimes women say "i dont want to be bothered when im doing x (the gym, grocery shopping, laundry, etc)"

cant hit on women at work either because you cant **** where you eat

honestly it seems like the places you can hit on a woman are far and few in between.

especially with no connections to introduce you to any women.

where you brahs socially acceptabley hit on women at?

where do women want to be hit on so you dont get metood?
post 1642752323 07-13-2021, 10:03 AM
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post 1642752423 07-13-2021, 10:06 AM
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You can't. Wait for someone to give very obvious signs or make the first move. Or do online.

Those are the only options right now
post 1642752493 07-13-2021, 10:07 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
You can't. Wait for someone to give very obvious signs or make the first move. Or do online.

Those are the only options right now
then im going to die alone. i dont get obvious signs.
post 1642753713 07-13-2021, 10:24 AM
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anywhere. srs. I don't go out of my way but if the opportunity presents itself to connect and talk to a female, ill take it. I'm very outgoing and social and if it's not going as planned then I move on. If the vibe is good, then I'll escalate/give my number. If it's some place I frequent like the gym, then just play it cool and be patient. No number until further down the line.

It's really just like networking or making friends. Idk why everyone puts girls to high on the pedestal. They're insecure and if you're even just average/slightly above, they're probably hoping you're a cool dude. Anyways, if you have any confidence and think you're worth anything, then why deny them the opportunity to meet you? If it doesn't work out, just be cool and normal. Say hi if you see them again and that's it.

I have found that most of the time, they will reach out after that but any red flags and I'll pass. If they don't reach out, who cares. You showed balls when you told her she's cute and you'll never see her again anyway.

Edit: and no you don't need an 8 figure salary or to be 7 feet tall or jacked or whatever. If you leave your basement and get off the internet for a while, you'll find some normal people out there. Not everyone is a bleeding lib looking to metoo you. I mean they're out there, don't get me wrong and you have to be careful but it's few and far in between. Use good judgment.

Or just keep your head down and quit bitching. Life should be good either way. If one falls into your routine and compliments your life, awesome. If not, that should be fine too because you're happy and content and live your life, achieve your goals, etc.
post 1642773983 07-13-2021, 03:03 PM
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Originally Posted By FallOutBrah
then im going to die alone. i dont get obvious signs.
do online then. its the only other way
post 1642804933 07-14-2021, 12:35 AM
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everywhere. all the places you mentioned are fine. Asking a girl out like a normal person is not weird in any of those settings. Most girls will actually like it even if they reject you (kindly 99% of the time). People who say stuff like "me too" have never actually talked to a girl or are just extremely ugly/creepy tbh.
post 1642804983 07-14-2021, 12:37 AM
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post 1642805293 07-14-2021, 12:47 AM
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Originally Posted By FallOutBrah
then sometimes women say "i dont want to be bothered when im doing x (the gym, grocery shopping, laundry, etc)"
They only say that about men they don't like. If Chad or equiv does it, its ok.
post 1642805533 07-14-2021, 12:56 AM
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post 1642811293 07-14-2021, 05:30 AM
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Originally Posted By TomPaine
They only say that about men they don't like. If Chad or equiv does it, its ok.
Exactly. If she is interested it doesn't matter how or where you approach. If she's not...keep it moving and try elsewhere.
post 1642811333 07-14-2021, 05:32 AM
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If you are good looking and charismatic, anywhere.

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post 1642811673 07-14-2021, 05:42 AM
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If you’re good looking, everywhere

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post 1642811783 07-14-2021, 05:48 AM
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post 1642811833 07-14-2021, 05:51 AM
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I work with a lot of people and I never see dudes hitting on women here anymore

Some chick tried to metoo a dude that worked here but it was like 6 months after the fact and she got fired lol
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Make sure to have some social intelligence when you hit on women, too. It’s pretty easy to tell when a chick isn’t interested in talking to you, and it’s better to be bow out gracefully instead of being one of those socially inept mfers who awkwardly keep pushing anyway.
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