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post 1642922673 07-15-2021, 02:31 PM
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How to stop attracting negativity and get what you want srs

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Negativity or paranoia isn't the problem. It's lack of balls to follow through on moments of determination
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The easiest way to do it is to avoid as many people as possible, because most people bring negativity.

Focus on your career, your hobbies and your goals and you'll attract only positive energy.
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stop reading news (outside of like tech/science it's all negative sensationalism), only indulge in positive forms of social media, realize the majority of people are some combination of energy vampire or only value your time if you have something to offer them in return
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post 1642924443 07-15-2021, 02:54 PM
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Most don't realize that by simply cutting out social media and news exposure you will remove a majority of the stress and negativity you encounter on a daily basis. People really aren't as bad IRL as they are made to be via social media and news outlets
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Gratitude. Change your mindset from one of complaining to one of being grateful for everything in your life. You'll be blessed with even more to be grateful for.

Visualization. Visualize in minute detail what you want in 6 months, 1 year, 5 years, 10, 20 years, from near future to distant future, as you're lying down with your eyes closed. Imagine what it would feel like to accomplish those goals. Do this every day and you'll get pretty much everything you want.
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If everyone/everything around you is negative then it's you that is negative bud.

You know the saying, 'if you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you're the asshole.' It's true.
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
Negativity or paranoia isn't the problem. It's lack of balls to follow through on moments of determination
this is a good point. its all about getting past your fears no matter how small. the effect snowballs.

keep doing chit youre afraid of and you will ultimately become strong and life will become easy.
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Originally Posted By frutistafreeze⏩
Most don't realize that by simply cutting out social media and news exposure you will remove a majority of the stress and negativity you encounter on a daily basis. People really aren't as bad IRL as they are made to be via social media and news outlets
Most of my extreme stress has been anxiety-based. Rough childhood

Although the news is definitely a negative chitstorm in itself. I deleted all of my social media besides this forum
Originally Posted By John$Galt⏩
Gratitude. Change your mindset from one of complaining to one of being grateful for everything in your life. You'll be blessed with even more to be grateful for.

Visualization. Visualize in minute detail what you want in 6 months, 1 year, 5 years, 10, 20 years, from near future to distant future, as you're lying down with your eyes closed. Imagine what it would feel like to accomplish those goals. Do this every day and you'll get pretty much everything you want.
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Originally Posted By soaponarope1⏩
If everyone/everything around you is negative then it's you that is negative bud.

You know the saying, 'if you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you're the asshole.' It's true.
True. I guess Im the a-hole
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Originally Posted By Sophus⏩
True. I guess Im the a-hole
go do something today that youve been afraid of. could be chatting up the grocery store clerk... could be wearing that shirt you just werent sure if you'd be made fun of for....

just do something that youre afraid of. you will be much stronger after, and just keep building on that. you will eventually realize that positivity naturally comes your way.
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post 1642926723 07-15-2021, 03:27 PM
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Originally Posted By TuskV⏩
go do something today that youve been afraid of. could be chatting up the grocery store clerk... could be wearing that shirt you just werent sure if you'd be made fun of for....

just do something that youre afraid of. you will be much stronger after, and just keep building on that. you will eventually realize that positivity naturally comes your way.
This is good advice. Thanks
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Originally Posted By John$Galt⏩
Gratitude. Change your mindset from one of complaining to one of being grateful for everything in your life. You'll be blessed with even more to be grateful for.

Visualization. Visualize in minute detail what you want in 6 months, 1 year, 5 years, 10, 20 years, from near future to distant future, as you're lying down with your eyes closed. Imagine what it would feel like to accomplish those goals. Do this every day and you'll get pretty much everything you want.
This is very good advice, and is what my therapist had me practice as well. Gratitude is a good way to help you reframe from negative thought spirals. You will start seeing the good about yourself and disregard the bad more. Not everything is perfect or great, obviously. But the important thing is that most of us have a very real negative bias. We tend to remember the bad and ignore all the good. Not just about ourselves but others too. It's important to try to undo that bias consciously.
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if you have netflix, watch 'The Secret' documentary
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
This is very good advice, and is what my therapist had me practice as well. Gratitude is a good way to help you reframe from negative thought spirals. You will start seeing the good about yourself and disregard the bad more. Not everything is perfect or great, obviously. But the important thing is that most of us have a very real negative bias. We tend to remember the bad and ignore all the good. Not just about ourselves but others too. It's important to try to undo that bias consciously.
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if you have netflix, watch 'The Secret' documentary
Probably should give that a rewatch soon

Ive been watching Bob Proctor on yt lately, hes on the secret
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra⏩


how did he attracted that tyre with his thoughts?
The woman didn't want him talking to her and she attracted the tire withherthoughts
post 1642938423 07-15-2021, 06:31 PM
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra⏩


how did he attracted that tyre with his thoughts?
Idk I wasn't there


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Originally Posted By monster0ultra⏩


how did he attracted that tyre with his thoughts?
Anyone know what ended up happening to the guy?
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Originally Posted By N0stradamus⏩
The easiest way to do it is to avoid as many people as possible, because most people bring negativity.

Focus on your career, your hobbies and your goals and you'll attract only positive energy.
Originally Posted By me12inch⏩
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Some good advice posted. I would add working out/exercising. It's literally not possible to be in a bad mood after a good workout. People pick up on and respond to that good energy too.
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Cut off social media. If you stay on social media share positive things. They won't get as many likes or start up big conversations, but know that people still appreciate it. Do things consistently that take you out of your comfort zone. Look for opportunities to help others improve their lives.
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Originally Posted By quadfecta⏩
stop reading news (outside of like tech/science it's all negative sensationalism), only indulge in positive forms of social media, realize the majority of people are some combination of energy vampire or only value your time if you have something to offer them in return
The energy vampire theory is weird. I swear there are more and more people now days that are negative and suck the energy out of you or the room. And there are also people that are the complete opposite and create high energy vibes. But like you said it seems like most people are the energy vampire type.

I never noticed this chit until recently. You can't avoid them either because they will just keep coming up to you. Doesn't matter if you let them know you don't like them either they still do it.
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
This is very good advice, and is what my therapist had me practice as well. Gratitude is a good way to help you reframe from negative thought spirals. You will start seeing the good about yourself and disregard the bad more. Not everything is perfect or great, obviously. But the important thing is that most of us have a very real negative bias. We tend to remember the bad and ignore all the good. Not just about ourselves but others too. It's important to try to undo that bias consciously.
Gratitude is fine but the visualization stuff is bull. That law of attraction garbage is thrown around by pseudo intellectuals. Just thinking about something won’t get you it. You have to actually work towards it.
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
The energy vampire theory is weird. I swear there are more and more people now days that are negative and suck the energy out of you or the room. And there are also people that are the complete opposite and create high energy vibes. But like you said it seems like most people are the energy vampire type.

I never noticed this chit until recently. You can't avoid them either because they will just keep coming up to you. Doesn't matter if you let them know you don't like them either they still do it.
I know one personally. Extremely confrontational at like scheduled intervals as if they need to feed off the emotional energy of raising someone else’s blood pressure. A lot of them don’t even know it’s intentional, but the most obvious way to describe it is through energy which I mentioned to you before in context of protection stones like tourmaline or shungite to block people giving off those negative vibes
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Originally Posted By frankdtank20⏩
Cut off social media. If you stay on social media share positive things. They won't get as many likes or start up big conversations, but know that people still appreciate it. Do things consistently that take you out of your comfort zone. Look for opportunities to help others improve their lives.
True. It's interesting how negativity draws more Attention usually than positivity. Thats why the news is what it is
Originally Posted By SaltyCaptain592⏩
Gratitude is fine but the visualization stuff is bull. That law of attraction garbage is thrown around by pseudo intellectuals. Just thinking about something won’t get you it. You have to actually work towards it.
When people say visualization, they generally mean visualize yourself doing something etc. its implied that you visualize it, then do it. Not just make it happen in your head and then do nothing
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