Is being popular and cool just about the mind set that you have?

Like I wouldn't think that somebody who is negatively polarised is cool - but then again there are lots of these red-pill dark-triad types running around being some what cool and successful by manipulating people.
"It's hard to be yourself in a world filled with haters" - WiseOldApe.

"Why be anything when you can be an influencer?" - WiseOldApe.

"It's not about what is said - it's about who it is said by" - WiseOldApe.