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post 1643546063 07-24-2021, 10:08 PM
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Why tf cant I cum!?

If I resist the urge to nut and I don't get it off within the first 5-10 min of sex, I literally have almost no chance of it happening later on. Could stay hard as a dagger for 45 min pounding away until we're both raw and I'll get really close to orgasm, but it doesn't happen. Most of the time I have to stop because alot of sloots are too sore after a certain time frame, asking me to finish but I can't!

Literally have to just cum in the first few minutes and then get hard again so I can get her off afterwards.

Anyone else had this problem? I kinda want to blame it on preworkout, or if I go to the gym in a short time frame before fuking.
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post 1643546143 07-24-2021, 10:10 PM
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I’ve been on anti-psychotic medication that caused me to shoot blanks.
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post 1643546273 07-24-2021, 10:12 PM
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Same exact problem. Gotta get head a focus hard on nutting
post 1643546303 07-24-2021, 10:13 PM
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Originally Posted By TheFitLord
I’ve been on anti-psychotic medication that caused me to shoot blanks.
loads of medications causes ed and ejaculation problems
post 1643546373 07-24-2021, 10:15 PM
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I have the same thing. It's from years of jerking off. (srs)
A mans penis is worth two in the bush.
post 1643546583 07-24-2021, 10:20 PM
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Originally Posted By TheFitLord
I’ve been on anti-psychotic medication that caused me to shoot blanks.
Definitely not the problem I'm having but I could imagine that being common
Originally Posted By Cite
Same exact problem. Gotta get head a focus hard on nutting
Doesn't matter how hard I focus sometimes. It's frustrating as hell
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post 1643546603 07-24-2021, 10:22 PM
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Have her stick a finger in your ass. Ded fkn srs.
post 1643546693 07-24-2021, 10:24 PM
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years of jerking off to things 100 times more stimulating than missionary with a 5/10.

You gotta go cold turkey and stop jerking it. In a few months you should go back to normal.
post 1643546923 07-24-2021, 10:30 PM
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Originally Posted By DavidEaslea
I have the same thing. It's from years of jerking off. (srs)
Bullshiit, I've jacked off 1-3x every single day since I was 13 and I still get off in like 30 seconds from sex if I don't jackoff before girl comes over
post 1643547503 07-24-2021, 10:44 PM
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In missionary put her legs up and then thrust down almost perpendicular to her body rubbing her clit with your shaft. Tell her to squeeze her pussy. You won’t get deep but it’s enough sensation in the head to get you back to full EQ and enough tension in your BC muscle to coom. The problem is your BC muscle is too relaxed
post 1643547593 07-24-2021, 10:47 PM
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Lots of foreplay, get her off before you fuk, then fuk her
Problem solved
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post 1643547623 07-24-2021, 10:48 PM
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post 1643547643 07-24-2021, 10:49 PM
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Same problem here . It’s probably cause you’ve got a micro and can’t feel those sugar walls .
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post 1643547683 07-24-2021, 10:50 PM
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Have you tried men?
post 1643547863 07-24-2021, 10:54 PM
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Originally Posted By DavidEaslea
I have the same thing. It's from years of jerking off. (srs)
This indeed. Have suffered from this "problem" for years! Almost would never come earlier on.



The biggest issue was my frequency with fapping to porn. Moreso the porn, and not the masterbating... have cut down the porn BIG time this year, and I notice a huge difference. I highly recommend trying no porn for at least two weeks!


Second... do more foreplay / oral before penetration. Really does help get to the finish line.



Just my two cents. Probably nothing you haven't read before tbh
post 1643547993 07-24-2021, 10:59 PM
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you fap too much srs
or fap in general.
no point if you are a chad or someone who gets sex regularly. just save that energy for sex
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post 1643548813 07-24-2021, 11:37 PM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol
you fap too much srs
or fap in general.
no point if you are a chad or someone who gets sex regularly. just save that energy for sex
I'm too horny all the time not to jerk it dead srs. I'll literally jerk it even if I know I'm going to get poon a couple of hours later. Haven't gone a day without jerking it since I can remember. Having sex doesn't delete my sex drive because it's not even a mental horniness most of the time. My cawk gets hard for no reason at all, even when my mind isn't thinking about sex and it's a nagging problem until I jerk it. I'm 30 years old and still feel like I'm 16
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post 1643548853 07-24-2021, 11:41 PM
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post 1643549173 07-24-2021, 11:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Devin459
I'm too horny all the time not to jerk it dead srs. I'll literally jerk it even if I know I'm going to get poon a couple of hours later. Haven't gone a day without jerking it since I can remember. Having sex doesn't delete my sex drive because it's not even a mental horniness most of the time. My cawk gets hard for no reason at all, even when my mind isn't thinking about sex and it's a nagging problem until I jerk it. I'm 30 years old and still feel like I'm 16
well.. sex drive wise you might be fine.. but sensitivity wise.. you are screwing yourself by continuously rubbing yourself
its just an addiction at that point
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post 1643549203 07-24-2021, 11:55 PM
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Originally Posted By Devin459
I'm too horny all the time not to jerk it dead srs. I'll literally jerk it even if I know I'm going to get poon a couple of hours later. Haven't gone a day without jerking it since I can remember. Having sex doesn't delete my sex drive because it's not even a mental horniness most of the time. My cawk gets hard for no reason at all, even when my mind isn't thinking about sex and it's a nagging problem until I jerk it. I'm 30 years old and still feel like I'm 16
jerking it to porn?


jerk it less, and make sure not to deathgrip. srs
post 1643549953 07-25-2021, 12:24 AM
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Originally Posted By 8pieces
loads of medications causes ed and ejaculation problems
this

SSRIs really mess up your dink

weaker erections and can make it hard to cum. the main reason i went off it a while ago.
post 1643550293 07-25-2021, 12:34 AM
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post 1643550313 07-25-2021, 12:34 AM
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Start taking adderal. She’ll thank you for it and you’ll be horny asf with no ED. I litterally feel like Superman when I smash my chick on adderal. I remember she was having the best **** of her life and I was just watching tv and slamming away. When I was ready to coom it happend quick.
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