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post 1647919033 09-28-2021, 05:24 AM
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Anyone else find haggling cringey?

Unless it's a close friend or family selling/doing something for me in which case I get a good deal anyway, I'd never try to haggle/get the price down from a stranger as I'd feel like a desperate ****g0t. Doesn't matter what it is wether it's someone selling goods or even paying for escorts etc the whole act makes me feel like I'm harrassing someone.

If I can't afford it or think the price is stupid I just simply won't pay it and find someone else who does a better offer, but haggling just makes you look like a poverty cheapskate especially if you're buying off a complete stranger IMO.
post 1647919223 09-28-2021, 05:33 AM
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it really depends on what you are buying, if you are buying a $10 trinket at a thrift shop yes if you are purchasing a car, or some other major item then no. I walked into the home builders office 4 years ago and talked my way into $20k worth of upgrades that I wouldn't of got if I just said "here take my money phaggots. Of course at the end of the day unless you are buying something from some schmuck on craigslist companies will only give you what they can to still make money.
post 1647919293 09-28-2021, 05:34 AM
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It's part of some cultures and really ingrained in people. Had a friend in university (you can guess what ethnicity) who would literally buy a newspaper at the end of the day and try to get it for half price because it was "old news".

Also was exposed to what actual wholesale prices are for car dealers when I was part of a fleet buy company and the amount they mark some cars up is completely ridiculous.
post 1647920103 09-28-2021, 05:59 AM
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It depends really. For example, you’re an complete idiot if you walk into a car dealership and pay msrp. Or any luxury item.
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post 1647920183 09-28-2021, 06:02 AM
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget
It's part of some cultures and really ingrained in people. Had a friend in university (you can guess what ethnicity) who would literally buy a newspaper at the end of the day and try to get it for half price because it was "old news".

Also was exposed to what actual wholesale prices are for car dealers when I was part of a fleet buy company and the amount they mark some cars up is completely ridiculous.
I already know where your friend is from just reading that, and business dealings with people from those cultures are extremely annoying.
post 1647920213 09-28-2021, 06:02 AM
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Its 100% not cringy at all and is to be expected. If I'm selling a car and I want it gone at 4k I'll put it up for 4.3-4.4. Everyone does it expecting the same thing, so its your loss if you don't negotiate chief.
post 1647920813 09-28-2021, 06:15 AM
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Don’t you haggle with the whores you call?
post 1647920933 09-28-2021, 06:18 AM
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Haggling is pretty standard on craigslist. You always price your chit at way more than you expect to get for it, and simultaneously expect to be offered less. Asking price is always on the high-end of the range of what you'd accept. Buyers and sellers both know this. Usually you end up meeting in the middle. If you can't talk business without getting personal/emotional or offending or being offended at the other party, you're a child, simple as that.
post 1647921093 09-28-2021, 06:21 AM
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I only really enjoy haggling in third-world countries to flex on the peasantry over what amounts to a completely insignificant amount of money in my life, but is probably enough to like put their kid through college or get their freakshow son Ooglo's heart condition treated.
post 1647921153 09-28-2021, 06:23 AM
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I don’t know about cringey. I’ll give you mildly annoying. Do we have a deal?
post 1647921263 09-28-2021, 06:26 AM
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Horrible thing that has spread from the Arabic world. No doubt the internet has made it worse as people know dealers are trying to rip them off & the price is insanely overinflated on most things.
post 1647921493 09-28-2021, 06:33 AM
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I get the ****s when people try it on with me so i just play with them

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me: 100
them: 50
me: 120
them: ??

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post 1647921573 09-28-2021, 06:35 AM
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Originally Posted By MuscleXtreme
Don’t you haggle with the whores you call?
Nah I honestly don't lol, obviously I'll ask them about there prices/sevices or any extras they do and if I feel it's too much money I simply won't see them and find another girl who does a better deal.

There was one time where an escort I seen was £100 for 30 mins and I only brought £85 by mistake, she let me off though and gave top tier service, even rimmed my angus without asking furrk. Proper good shag that day.

Most whores get irate and offended if you ask for lower rates though which is why I don't bother asking.
post 1647922923 09-28-2021, 07:05 AM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet
Nah I honestly don't lol, obviously I'll ask them about there prices/sevices or any extras they do and if I feel it's too much money I simply won't see them and find another girl who does a better deal.

There was one time where an escort I seen was £100 for 30 mins and I only brought £85 by mistake, she let me off though and gave top tier service, even rimmed my angus without asking furrk. Proper good shag that day.

Most whores get irate and offended if you ask for lower rates though which is why I don't bother asking.
Agree with this. Haggling with whores pretty much guarantees that they will treat you like a subhuman and the experience will be utterly life-denying.

If the price is too high, you thank them for their time and tell them you'll call back if you're interested in booking.
post 1647924663 09-28-2021, 07:40 AM
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I refuse to go to the grocery store now due to all of the afgan refugees on the wic program. They don't select wic acceptable items, they never know their balance, and they try to haggle the price.
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post 1647925643 09-28-2021, 07:58 AM
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget
It's part of some cultures and really ingrained in people. Had a friend in university (you can guess what ethnicity) who would literally buy a newspaper at the end of the day and try to get it for half price because it was "old news".

Also was exposed to what actual wholesale prices are for car dealers when I was part of a fleet buy company and the amount they mark some cars up is completely ridiculous.
I think already know which ethnicity your talking about lol, thing is I'm actually a ****** myself (although born and raised in the UK) but yeah desi's have a notoriously bad rep for haggling and will try to get anything cheap just to save a couple of quid.

If I'm not happy with price I'll find somewhere else that does it cheaper but will never bother haggling.
post 1647925833 09-28-2021, 08:02 AM
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Originally Posted By TomWanks
Agree with this. Haggling with whores pretty much guarantees that they will treat you like a subhuman and the experience will be utterly life-denying.

If the price is too high, you thank them for their time and tell them you'll call back if you're interested in booking.
This. While a higher priced escort doesn't always necessarily guarantee a better service, intentionally asking them for a lower rate is a good way of getting told to fuk off. Even if they do accept your price you're more likely to get a subpar service then if you paid the fixed rate.
post 1647926293 09-28-2021, 08:09 AM
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I used to hate it, but took a course in negotiation in grad school, and now I enjoy doing it. It's part of my job as well, I worked in M&A just after grad school, and negotiating the deal was part of the job, both on the front end and after diligence was done to close the deals. Since then my last 3 jobs, the purchasing department or function of the company rolls up under me, and I'm generally included in any other types of negotiations the company is involved in from legal settlements to the terms in any contract signed by the company.

I worked for a CEO who used to try to negotiate after the deal was done and goods or services were already received, that was extremely uncomfortable and felt very much in bad faith. The only thing that made it tolerable was that many vendors expected this from him. He had no problem being sent out to collections and settling for a fraction of what he really owed. The guy is worth 9 digits though, so it's working for him, he is just insufferable.

I like to take this in my personal life from time to time, I knew guys who could extract value out of any M&A deal, who coughed up whatever they had to to buy their wives the houses of their dreams though. I won't do it, I don't like to lose the negotiation which includes overpaying for anything without haggling.
post 1647926913 09-28-2021, 08:21 AM
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if it's a car or a house no everything else yes.
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Cringe AF when people haggle for sht that shouldn't be haggled for because they're a broke bitch SRS
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This is why I don’t sell my unwanted crap on marketplace. I’d rather throw something in the trash than play let’s make a deal with degenerates.
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