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post 1648077093 09-30-2021, 02:29 PM
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Feelin jealous - not normal for me. Fuk!

Met with a friend and we were discussing things in general. He’s got a few years headstart on me financially but until a couple years ago we used to make similar amount of money. I find out that recently he’s surpassed me by FAR (probably double) and usually I don’t care but fuk I’m not taking it well. Anxiety has taken over.

Wth?!? I know there will always be people who will make so much more than me - but why is this hitting me so hard?
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post 1648077823 09-30-2021, 02:43 PM
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Try not being a mental midget and be grateful for what you have. Fkn cuck. Be happy for your brah and set higher ambitions for yourself you homo
post 1648077843 09-30-2021, 02:44 PM
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Try not being a mental midget and be grateful for what you have. Fkn cuck. Be happy for your brah and set higher ambitions for yourself you homo
post 1648078213 09-30-2021, 02:51 PM
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Originally Posted By TryingBB⏩
Met with a friend and we were discussing things in general. He’s got a few years headstart on me financially but until a couple years ago we used to make similar amount of money. I find out that recently he’s surpassed me by FAR (probably double) and usually I don’t care but fuk I’m not taking it well. Anxiety has taken over.

Wth?!? I know there will always be people who will make so much more than me - but why is this hitting me so hard?
It's natural bro...i hang with alot of people more successful than me. The best thing you can do is treat them as mentors...learn their secrets and apply them to your life. You can learn from anyone if you are willing
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post 1648078233 09-30-2021, 02:51 PM
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Try not being a mental midget and be grateful for what you have. Fkn cuck. Be happy for your brah and set higher ambitions for yourself you homo
post 1648078633 09-30-2021, 02:59 PM
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It's just luck anyway.

Also you sound like a sh*tty person because you have jealousy in your heart.

I know because i was and still am like that.

You're basically relying on being 'better' than somebody to feel love from them(which is actually just love from your self), when you are around them, because deep down you have an unhealed wound stemming from a feeling inferiority.
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post 1648078743 09-30-2021, 03:01 PM
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post 1648079503 09-30-2021, 03:17 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
It's just luck anyway.

Also you sound like a sh*tty person because you have jealousy in your heart.

I know because i was and still am like that.

You're basically relying on being 'better' than somebody to feel love from them(which is actually just love from your self), when you are around them, because deep down you have an unhealed wound stemming from a feeling inferiority.
Yeah I need to stop being a mental midget. Fuk me! This is Srs not normal. We hang and we talk. He asks me for advice and vice versa.

Recently I’m being a lil bitch and I keep it inside myself. Keeping me up man. This is not normal.

Ive talked to people and learnt from them and got where I’m at with all the lessons from them. People whose net worth is 100x mines. No issues. But this one friend only. Why man? Why am I being chitty like this to myself?
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post 1648079553 09-30-2021, 03:18 PM
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Originally Posted By TryingBB⏩
Yeah I need to stop being a mental midget. Fuk me! This is Srs not normal. We hang and we talk. He asks me for advice and vice versa.

Recently I’m being a lil bitch and I keep it inside myself. Keeping me up man. This is not normal.

Ive talked to people and learnt from them and got where I’m at with all the lessons from them. People whose net worth is 100x mines. No issues. But this one friend only. Why man? Why am I being chitty like this to myself?
Comparison is the thief of joy.

besides that cliche, you're against yourself. don't worry about what other people have or don't have. worry about what you have/can control

Srs
post 1648079693 09-30-2021, 03:20 PM
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post 1648080213 09-30-2021, 03:33 PM
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Originally Posted By AlfBundy⏩
Step your game up, junior
This is what’s bugging me.

I’ve done ok last couple years. Improved and all. But this is hurting me in my heart. Like my girl fuked me over kinda hurt. I’m not getting it either
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post 1648081133 09-30-2021, 03:52 PM
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Originally Posted By TryingBB⏩
Met with a friend and we were discussing things in general. He’s got a few years headstart on me financially but until a couple years ago we used to make similar amount of money. I find out that recently he’s surpassed me by FAR (probably double) and usually I don’t care but fuk I’m not taking it well. Anxiety has taken over.

Wth?!? I know there will always be people who will make so much more than me - but why is this hitting me so hard?
idk brah but get it dealt with, lost a friend who couldnt cope when he finally pryed out of me what I made, chit sucks
post 1648082373 09-30-2021, 04:14 PM
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Originally Posted By AlwaysFocus⏩
idk brah but get it dealt with, lost a friend who couldnt cope when he finally pryed out of me what I made, chit sucks
I didn’t pry it out if him. We kinda both know how much we both make guesstimate.

He got into a great deal recently and increased his take home by 150%. So now he makes probably 250% of what he was making couple months ago.

Good for him but why am I getting this anxiety is beyond me. We mutually know people who make wayyyy more than what we make and I’ve been fine.

I’ve lost that feeling of contentment recently….
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post 1648096303 09-30-2021, 08:31 PM
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LOL yeah dude i used to be like that and i still am.

Good luck to you if you think you can experience a fulfilling life with a mentality like that.
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post 1648096523 09-30-2021, 08:35 PM
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How much does he make? I want to see if I feel the same way as you
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post 1648097033 09-30-2021, 08:45 PM
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